Who's the clueless one?

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Who's the clueless one? 2016-11-16 21:43:06 Post No. 17769862
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Who's the clueless one? Anonymous 2016-11-16 21:43:06 Post No. 17769862 [Report]

I'm trying to work on my social skills and this happened to me:

Get the number of a cute girl after a party. We didn't talk much, I just thought she was cute and asked for her number when she went, to "see each other again"

Called her 2-3 days later and invited her to go out. First sugested climbing one evening, she's busy so we're going for breakfast saturday morning.

Is there any way someone could not get that this is a date ?

NB: I'm asking because either she doesn't, or she does and says nothing although she has a boyfriend as I just discovered. I just want to know if I provoked the mixup.

Anonymous 2016-11-16 21:44:30 Post No.17769865
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Anonymous 2016-11-16 21:44:30 Post No.17769865 [Report]

>>17769862

not necessarilly. if you are blunt about it being a date they act like you're a needy faggot, and if you dont many many many many many many girls will play dumb and be like 'WHAT ANON I THOUGHT WE WERE JUST FRIENDS GAWD WHY DONT GUYS WANT TO BE FRIENDS BUT STILL PAY FOR FOOD'

Anonymous 2016-11-16 21:45:46 Post No.17769868
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Anonymous 2016-11-16 21:45:46 Post No.17769868 [Report]

>>17769862
you just recently found out she has a bf?

Anonymous 2016-11-16 21:56:44 Post No.17769904
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Anonymous 2016-11-16 21:56:44 Post No.17769904 [Report]

>>17769868
I just told my friend, who knows her, about our "date". She's just baffled and tells me she has a bf.

>>17769865
Thank you, so I am right thinking a sane human female would understand that this is a date?

Anonymous 2016-11-16 21:59:37 Post No.17769915
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Anonymous 2016-11-16 21:59:37 Post No.17769915 [Report]

>>17769904
she's either a ho or you haven't explicitly stated "THIS IS A DATE. I AM TAKING YOU OUT WITH THE INTENTION OF DEVELOPING A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP." you might want to specify that before Saturday so you can either both be on board for an affair or you can save yourself $20

Anonymous 2016-11-16 22:00:42 Post No.17769919
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Anonymous 2016-11-16 22:00:42 Post No.17769919 [Report]

>>17769915
or she has recently broken up with bf, to the point where they haven't updated social media/word hasn't spread

Anonymous 2016-11-16 22:14:03 Post No.17769974
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Anonymous 2016-11-16 22:14:03 Post No.17769974 [Report]

>>17769915
I will ask given the situation. But I didn't say "date". We barely talked at all, I was trying to stay distant for once...

That's why I'm asking, to know if the implication wasn't clear to anyone who has dated before.

>>17769919
I can only hope so

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