How did ex gf move on so fast from a 4 year relationship?
It's been months, and I only got worse from being OK at first (i broke up with her). She started seeing someone new just a month or two later.
Does this mean I actually love her, but she doesn't love me? instead of addiction/codependency
When women break up with you they've been thinking about it for way before the breakup actually occurs.
>>17769234
But I broke up first, as she grew distant/stopped having sex/ just came back to mine to sleep. She was a wreck, and we stayed friends until she started weaning me off, while i said i wanna get back
so... she was gonna do it anyways? fuck me
Well you should be happy for her, or did you want her to be depressed?
>>17769248
I'm trying to figure out if I truly love her, instead of the codependence/addiction that occurs in long term relationships. And whether her moving on so fast is a sign that she never really loved me.
>>17769241
She was already fucking someone else by this point
>>17769259
That's what I thought and broke up with her.
But then she said it wasn't so, she's not really the type of person to do that...
>>17769241
>>17769264
Just move on dude. Don't get hung up on any one person, there are too many other more interesting people to meet.
>>17769226
Sometimes they've been thinking about it for a long time. Sometimes they just make it look like they're over it by getting a new relationship right away.
>>17769241
She was 100% cheating on you, sorry OP. I broke up with my gf of three years and she was dating new within a few months. It took me almost a year to fully get over it, even though I was the one who initiated. And despite her being on my mind, I know that I never loved her. Move on, OP, you'll be happier, and you'll find someone who isn't a cheating whore.
>>17769281
It ain't that easy, I suspect I actually love her for real
>>17769284
I think it might just be a rebound
>>17769226
Women aren't capable of love, how many times do I have to repeat myself before you fags understand? It will be a lot easier for you too when you don't catch feelings for a bitch.
>>17769307
nah i doubt it
still I do need to get over her, it's just if what I feel is actually true love I'd like to try a bit more
>>17769317
I'm with this guy.
>>17769308
you didn't get her pregnant fast enough
fun fact: women are more likely to cheat on you when they're ovulating