Cheaters Liars Manipulators

It's called dealing with the bullshit, if people cheat, let them cheat, if people are hypos, let them be hypos, just make sure they are not cheating off you, or that they are not hypocrites towards you, if they do, call them out, your kind of late in the game to realize that you should only worry about yourself and nobody else, if your English teacher is a woman, then fuck her. It's an edge and in the real world there is no fair, only victory. Oh and about the helping people, make sure your helping people for yourself, not the other way around.

>>17768368
Harsh reality of life really. People WILL take advantage of you. Best to be on your guard and worry about yourself first. Helping people is its own reward. Don't let them take away your kindness. Some people are just assholes.

Forgive, but I can only speak from experience.

I work as a jailer in one of the largest sheriff's offices in the US in a "specialized" unit for mental health.

When working with people around you who are at times professional manipulators, you need to set very clear boundaries about who you are and what you will or will not accept. You can be amicable, but do not let your kindness be taken for weakness or it WILL be used against you.

I'm not suggesting you punch out anyone who gets after you, but think of it this way. You're reacting to them. You're giving them POWER over you and that's one thing you need to understand about people is that almost EVERYONE wants some form of power or control in their life. If they get that sense of control from running roughshod over you, it gives them their little bit of power and they'll see what else they can get. If they cheat and get away with it, it's power over who they cheated on. If they successfully lie, they feel more inclined to continue and so it goes.

The more you give in to it and don't establish that barrier, the more others are going to notice it and they won't respect you. In a jail, respect is a currency and once you lose it, what you say doesn't mean anything. In the world, respect may not be currency, but it still carries a lot of weight because that's what most of today's movements claim to be based in.

Respect yourself. Don't give in. Be cordial but don't be taken for a fool. It isn't really your responsibility to worry about what the people around you are doing, so long as you are doing what you need to do and living by a standard you have set for yourself. If they want to fuck up their own worlds, let them. It's not your choice, it's theirs and when it blows up in their face, it'll still be their problem.

>>17768420
>i work as this
proof?

>>17768420
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This guys/chicks post is fucking gold. Check out the Ben Franklin effect or foot in the door technique. A lot of manipulators use these tools and barely even know it. We used to an ice addict live with us and it rarely taught me to have clear distinct boundaries. With the other stuff open fuck 'em. People like who lie and cheat will eventually have that shit catch up with them and suffer from it (some don't sure but most will). Being hardworker will almost always get you somewhere and you're not likely to suffer consequence for it. Let asshole be asshole and pity their shit lifestyles.

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