Met a really cute girl, was messaging her on whatsapp.
She sent me a message asking to chill on saturday (last saturday) over a week ago.
I forgot to check whatsapp. All my clients email me or call me, I have no friends, and the girls I am casual with know to email me since I never check whatsapp/texts.
I literally forgot to check my fucking whatsapp for the week.
Super salty.
Thinking about just calling her tommrow.
What do I say?
How do I explain not answering the whatsapp for a week? I don't want to tell her 'Haha I have no friends so I just don't check texts'
I think my best bet here is to just call her and say 'sorry, when are you free'.
I work 80 hours a week+ and it's hard to meet women and this one is a real dime, 9/10
Met her on OKC, work hours, no friends, stuck with online dating and hitting on randoms irl.
>>17768322
Call her or message her and let her know if she is still interested, if you get no reply, then there you go
She clearly doesnt check whatsapp frequently either
You're both in the same boat
Just apologize and laugh it off for doing the same thing she does
Also, YOU offer a time to meet. Waiting for her to give you a time is off putting.
>>17768326
Yeah I don't understand why I didn't just text her.
Well I mean I do I get 0 bars at my house so I didn't want to text. But I'm just going to fucking call her and tell her ' Next Saturday we chilling @ 8!'
thanks anon you're right
>>17768324
>if shes interested
They all are, if they stop responding to me, I assume they died in a car crash anon, duh
OP, don't be stupid. If she is interested, and so are you, exchange numbers and text / call each other. Are you dumb? Stop being dumb and fucking go for it. You don't need to make a thread on /adv/ when it's OBVIOUS what you should be doing now.
Now, get laid or at least have a great time.
>>17768353
>don't be stupid
>didn't read the thread
>doesn't know how what's app works
>Now, get laid or at least have a great time.
That's the plan familia.
I'm just asking what excuse to use here for not checking my whatsapp
>>17768360
I thought about the number part after I posted it. I have what'sap myself.
My point is, why aren't you calling her if you already have her number?
>I'm just asking what excuse to use here for not checking my whatsapp
Don't use an excuse, be honest. Do you dislike honest anon?
>>17768363
>why not call her
It's 3 am here, I don't think she'll appreciate being woken up.
>be honest
alright alright but I'm sure as shit not telling her why I didn't check whatsapp/my texts
>>17768364
I meant call her at a normal time.
How old are you? Get it together man. If you are over thinking something this small, there might be something wrong with you.
>>17768370
>If you are over thinking something this small, there might be something wrong with you.
If you're attacking anons for no reason on a cantonese basket weaving forum their might be something wrong with you
>>17768364
she's going to find out you have no friends pretty quickly if you end up dating her, my lad
>>17768382
Nah.
One of the girls I've been fucking about once every 2 weeks for 3? years now still has no idea.
No one asks you 'So do you have friends?' because they all expect that you have friends.
Normies lol
It's none of her business why you didn't respond.
What im curious about is whether that screencap is the last of your conversation. If it is, the ball was already in her court. She told you she'd let you know, so it's not like you stood her up.