Okay, I need some genuine advice on how to get over or accept

>>17766379

half of your issue is you make each gender out to be some homogenous robot group all running the safe software.

girls are diverse. you are not the first choice for 99% of women. most men are not. yes, you are lower on the desirablity totem pole.

but so are a lot of women. if looks are whats important to you then sure, by all means, drop out of the race, cuz you arent going to get a hottie with a body when ur a nottie with a 'please put a bag over your head'.

but look around and you'll find plenty of ugly fat people (both men and women) who are in a relationship with one another. they more or less settle for someone who is compatible personality and lifestyle wise. the sex isnt great, but they still have it.

what does that mean? well it means you should still lose weight and attempt to put on muscle, cuz you'll at least get better girls than you could score now. you dont look ugly, just not hot. i imagine losing that weight in your face would make you a lot more manly, as would the right haircut, shave and maybe contact lenses.

you will still not be able to compete with the top men but you dont need to. you just need to look for women you are compatible with (both aesthetically and emotionally) and go from there.

I hope this isn't a troll.
You have less success because you are a 25 working at wallmart with an appearance that you can do a lot to improve but choose not to.
If you lose the weight, get a better job, and present yourself better, you will see more success. Never stop improving and you will find that things will go your way.
Few people are 'standard ugly'. If you work on your appearance you can be attractive and interesting even if you will never have a meme Chad appearance.

ngl you're height is a good starter, dont lose hope ok. Just get rid of the beard some may like it some wont, it does age u tho. Try some other sites like the money subscription dating websites they defo get u dates so thats worth seeing thu. Orrrrrr join something like a club or anything where u r made to socialise and create links from there. Maybe charity work, or signing up for a french course, taster sessions on things. That will enable meeting new people. Just get some really fuckking good aftershave too women love thatttt, I know that for a fact. Plus you're huggable

>>17766398
>implying there is anything wrong with working at walmart

but yeah op if you're not just joking by copying the manlet thread, shave the beard, get a haircut, and stop smiling

weight loss takes time but keep going at it. you'll probably still never get a gf since you're going crazy, but at least you won't look like a cucked up hillary supporter

>>17766414
>implying there is isn't anything wrong with working at walmart
How was it like growing up in a trailer park?

>>17766419
where else is someone going to work besides retail and service? we can't all have white collar jobs lmao

ops profile even has a university on it

>hmm you're cute but you work retail while going to school, that's too trailer trash for me

>>17766426
He's 25, not 19. You can only play the college boy meme for so long.

>it's a manlets lashing out thread

>>17766379
OP look at it this way; If you had been born a woman you had been completely worthless if ugly. At least as a man you can compensate with actions, personality and money.

>>17766398
>>17766414
>>17766437
>>17766426

I did copy the manlet thread as a joke, but I always welcome advice. In the pic I'd recently trimmed the beard shorter than usual, since I can't decide whether to shave it all off or keep it longer. I work at Wal-Mart because stuff in my field is thin on the ground. Going from Army->Undergrad->Grad school is gonna make you a 25 year old 'college boy'.

Personally I think I look better with a beard and longer curly hair, and most people agree with me. But then again, those people aren't dating me either.

>>17766452
Lose weight. You look 45.

>>17766455
Please show me how to lose weight overnight. Telling someone already losing weight to lose weight is really stupid otherwise.

>>17766460
What you wrote was
>I have this idea that no matter how much weight I lose, or whatever I do, I could never compete with guys who are attractive
not that you are 'losing weight'.

The tip still stands: lose more weight. You clearly haven't lost enough.

Lose the weight.

>>17766379
>ugly hairy monster.
You can always shave. Also lose weight.

>3/4's and 6'3" or 6'4" depending on the shoes I am wearing
That's ... just irrelevant. You're 6'2".

> I have this idea that no matter how much weight I lose, or whatever I do, I could never compete with guys who are attractive.
On the looks scale, probably not. It doesn't even matter thought if you have an attractive personality and traits.

>as I actively keep an eye out for couples where the male is uglier than the female, and almost never see them.
Because you're subjective as fuck and probably rate ugly women higher than they are.

Your defeatist attitude sounds like your biggest issue so far.

>>17766497
don't fall for the meme >>17765437
he doesn't even look bad, i've seen way uglier guys with qt girls

he's probably just boring

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>>17766379
time to pick your ass up from the floor!
projecting misery on yourself radiates and girls pick up on it (girls pick up non visual cues) as well as your body language.
in other words: if you look and act like a sad sack, thats what you are projecting to them.

>yes please do shave
>and a new hair cut
>maybe some contact lenses
>and a new outfit

and you will look and feel a million bucks. thats the night to go out on the town.

if you want to lift and make them gains etc go to /fit/ or do a muscle confusion workout like p90x (no its not new its been around for about 40+ years) just remember to do your workouts early in the mornings before your muscles have streched for the day.

stop thinking the worlds comming to a end. its really not.

I tell you what, you actually look good. You don't have any flaws that look not so in place, such as acne in unusual places.

And by text i've read, you look like you are working on yourself, which is actually pretty fucking neat!

Keep up whatever you're doing to become better in all ways, and fagsecurities shall fade, OP.

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