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I'm disgusted by genitals?

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Mid 20s male here, not sure what to do about this. I am repulsed by human genitalia.

I'm heterosexual, non-virgin, I find women very attractive and pleasing to the eye, and I'm not asexual. (I have a normal libido, etc.) I still can't get over the fact that I am disgusted by their vaginas. Before you say, "hurr durr OP is a fag", I find penises disgusting too, but that doesn't bother me because I have no desire to fuck dudes.

What's going on? I'm not inexperienced, I have sex but I have to sort of try my best to not look down there and not think about what it is I'm touching. My girlfriends have all been satisfied with the sex that I can give, but I can't give head because there's no ignoring it or anything. I'm also not a huge fan of kissing, just don't have the urge to do it, and tongues gross me out.

What do I do? What causes this? Why would someone have perfectly normal libido, be confident in their sexual orientation, and yet still have these super weird hangups about sex? Do I just give up and accept that I'm never going to be a great lover? I have talked to therapists about it, but they all just tell me that I probably got raped when I was a kid (didn't happen) or that I'm gay but won't admit it (I have never been attracted to a man, and I'm not homophobic).

I feel kinda hopeless.
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If genital involvement and kissing turns you off, then what exactly gives you a boner? Perhaps you dislike touching body parts that are responsible for internal fluids or excretion? Are you tits kinda guy? Do you like ass?

You seem to not hate being love, but if all these things are limiting you, it'll be difficult to suck it up and get over your feelings, but not impossible.
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>>17766318

im the same way. i dont like penises or vag. penis is better than vag but i dont want to stick either in my mouth.

oddly into buts, so there is that, but yeah. its okay.
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>>17766335
>>17766335
I like lots of things, dirty talk really gets me going and I like the female form. I prefer tits, yeah, of all sizes, and I enjoy having sex but only when I don't think about where my dick is. Yeah, I think the fluids and stuff really gross me out, as does the sort of "unnatural" form of genitals, like they don't quite seem the same as the rest of the body.

I've been able to just suck it up and deal with it for the most part (I just CAN'T give oral no matter what I try), but I get really insecure about whether or not I can ever be a good partner when I'm so sexually disturbed...
>>17766350
I find butts appealing but not the asshole, like that's where shit comes from, lmao
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>>17766318
hurr durr OP is a fag
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>>17766353
Just wondering anon, do you find your own junk to be disgusting? When you look down, do you think to yourself "How can any girl find this arousing/sexual and not gross?". Do you feel grossed out having to deal with your genitals taking a shower and what not? Is masturbating a sin to you?

All I can ask is that your issue is hopefully something you can grow out of. When I think of sex, I find the idea of fusing your body parts with another very arousing. It's like getting exclusive access that no one else can get. If all that isn't what makes sex great to you, then what is it?
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>>17766393
My own junk is kinda gross, but it's part of me so I don't really have a problem with it. I think masturbating is gross for a few reasons, one of them being that semen is nasty (the other reasons are more to do with insecurity), but I still masturbate regularly.

The fusing part is appealing, but we all know that sex isn't anywhere near exclusive access lol. We're all sluts.

Hopefully I'll grow out of it, but I've had this problem for like a decade
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Is this not normal? I thought this was normal.

Anyways, everyone's junk is incredibly disgusting if you think about it, so the key is to not think about it. Just turn off your brain and let your pants on head retarded instincts take the wheel, they're into that weird shit.
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>>17766318
Yeah they're gross looking. Either gender's parts look like really bad injuries, and they're not even the same color as everything else.

It's weird, it's icky, but it's there If you stare at your hand long enough, that'll gross you out too. Especially if you watch the tendons move, yuck.
The more you know about biology, the worse it kind of gets too.


There probably isn't a way of becoming attracted to something you're not attracted to, but for something to make you feel better, just remember this. "Bumping uglies" is a term that people have been using for years, it's because you're not alone in thinking that stuff is fucking weird looking.
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>>17766434
Well, seeing that I'm not alone is nice. I guess I just have to try to ignore my instincts or accept being single (I don't trust people enough to commit to them if I can't keep them satisfied in bed).

Fuck.
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Do you watch porn. I had a similar issue till I stopped porn.
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>>17766473
I can only watch porn that doesn't focus much on the pussy. I watch porn maybe twice a week
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