Realistically speaking, is it possible for two people to get back after a not really rough breakup? Considering there are some feelings left and the time spent together was totally amazing.
If that was the case, they wouldn't have broken up in the first place
>>17763805
>realistically speaking is it possible for two people to get back together after a break up.
have you ever met anyone who got back together after a break up?
>>17763815
Well, shit happens.
People do mistakes all the time, it's perfectly human. It's what you do after that matters.
>>17763831
Yeah, kind of. I don't have many irl examples since I don't have so many friends.
>>17763840
my point was yea, it has happened, it happens a lot. i cant say how many of those get back together and stay that way until they die, but ive gotten abck together after break ups, everyone has.
>>17763852
Was it hard to get back?
>>17763859
not really. heres the thing if getting her back is something that looks like it will take work, its not going to happen at all. you only back slide if you both already want it. you cant re-win her.
>>17763863
I guess I should just give her space and let her reach out to me instead of contacting her all the time.
>>17763875
>all the time
jesus christ dude, just move on
>>17763888
I said all the time but really I contacted her more or less 4 or 5 times after the breakup
>>17763897
still move on
>>17763922
I'm trying, it's really hard.
>>17763938
ur literally doing the opposite, you ust asked how to get back together with her,.
>>17764110
This was my first relationship ever, so first break up aswell. I'm pretty unexperienced and my first reaction, by istinct, was to keep contact with her. Just now I started to realize it wasnt the best thing to do and it wont magically get her back. I was too much of an emotional fuck up at that moment to actually sit down and think.
>>17763805
I've definitely broken up with a girl one day and fucked her the next day and got back together without missing a beat. It didn't ultimately work out, but we lasted like 6 more months after that.