I like this girl. But she has periods where she tells herself

>>17763143

Want to help someone? Do it. Talk to her and be there for her.

Now, want to help her so that she rides your cock? Don't be a piece of shit and leave her alone. She said she wants to work on herself, respect that.

>>17763143
>what can insay to her to make her feel better?
get a job

>willing to wait for her

This is going to end bad

>>17763150
how though? I tell her that she isn't pathetic and that I don't think she is. But she keeps on saying it.

And I am respecting that she work on herself I'm just wondering if its the right thing to do for myself.

Convince to go and have some fun? I knew how I felt playing videogames all day, and it was shit.

>>17763172
>I'm just wondering if its the right thing to do for myself.

That's up to you to decide. I wouldn't do it, but that's just me. By what I hear about you, I'd say "don't do it". But that's just from two comments online. I'm not the expert on "you".

I'm thinking about not talking to her for 2 weeks so I can decide if she's worth it or not.

Is this a good idea?

>>17763211
I don't wanna see your thread two weeks from now asking where you fucked up so no

>>17763211
>can i fix her?
no
>will no contct fix her?
no
>will engaging and taking an active role fix her?
no

if you drop contact the best you can do is be honest about it, tell her that she is too much to handle right now
if you choose to keep contact with her make it clear you are not willing to enable her nor should she communicate with you when she only intends to be negative

her depression is most likely not her fault, or at least not directly but that doesnt mean anyone can help her, sometimes healing means hurting a lot and if she chooses that the pain is too much then so be it it isnt good for anyone to keep someone around who desnt want to

i got over a three year depression in 2014, im not doing wonderfuly now but i can handle shit way better

>>17763286
how did you get over the depression?