ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

Those free text questions always get asked. And people still answer them.

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Need femanons insight here.
So I asked a girl out some weeks ago and we went for a drink. We chatted for about an hour or two then we left each other. Later I asked her about going out during the week-end, but she apologised, telling me she isn't looking for a relationship atm. I'm totally ok with that, the problem is that I've felt pretty bad recently so I haven't been able to see her a lot, and we barely talked in about a month, so now I'm scared about talking to her, trying to be friend with her. I don't want to look like I'm forcing her to love me, nor ignoring her because she said no. How do?

Why do girls/guys post snapchat ids on instagram stories for brief periods of time?

>>17754738
Just say what's up? Have some more drinks that usually does all the work for you, stop caring what she thinks. Just enjoy yourself and her company, friendship is overrated.

So my mom just walked in on me masturbating.

Why do girls sometimes text you first and then not respond?

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>>17754611
is it a bad first date idea if i ask her for dinner and a movie at my place on a friday?

i live on campus and its at my dorm, im not sure if that gives off some "i want sex" vibe, which i really dont want to give off, because i just want it to be some sweet/romantic thing. and it would actually be food that is actually made and not just some microwave or take out

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>>17754827
>>17754827
Ask her to help you make it. If it's something she's not familiar with teach her to make it, thats always good for bonding.

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>>17754611
GIRLS
I accidentally masturbated to a girl whose selfies, nudes and videos I found in my friend's laptop for quite a few times now (the pics and videos were incredibly erotic), turns out she's my current gf's younger sister and I can't help but staring at her every time we had dinner at her family. And the awkward hug.. I think my dick has been conditioned to react to the sister's body, when she hugged me I couldn't resist popping a boner, and, the sound she made when she hugged me, and the way she looked at me, she felt it, she knew it, yet she still hugged me every time we came over. I'm really worried now. What is the sister thinking? what will she tell my gf? how will my gf react? could she overlook this mistake? I'm a mere mortal it's not my fault her sister is an incredibly sexual 19 y/o girl. Note that the masturbation started before I started dating the gf, and only sporadically after (I know I shouldn't be jerking it to another girl but I considered it just normal porn, who knew I'd see her every week)

>>17754611
What are your girls opinion about a guy who has stammering? Do you see him as less in confidence and very sympathetic?

>>17754886
I'm a guy who fapped to my mom's friend's hot pics on FB and I see her every week and she hugs me. I think she won't tell it because your GF might take it the other way and then a fight may be born between them.

>>17754827
Dinner and movie is so played out,

But, what >>17754867
sounds a little better.

if there's a local attraction or some nice restaurant she's never been to before and maybe a museum instead of a movie. movies suck this decade.

>>17754790
You'll survive.

Story time. Back when I lived with my parents I was retarded and downloaded porn off piratebay without a VPN for some reason. I was unsurprisingly caught, our IPN bitched at my parents over it. My mother lectured me and started listing off the titles like Big Booty Sluts or whatever, I wanted to die as it happened. But life went on, and now I'm able to laugh about it with friends.

>>17754639
I don't even know why we still have the brandon one. Him and all of the copy cats seem to have finally fucked off.

>>17755037
>our IPN bitched at my parents over it. My mother lectured me and started listing off the titles like Big Booty Sluts or whatever
hahahha

>>17755037
Sorry, ISP not IPN.

Woopsies

How do I conquer my defeatist attitude when it comes to girls due to my height. I'm 5'6"5 and attribute all of my 0 female interests since highschool on this. Girls how has a short guy ever made you interested in him..

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>>17754611

For girls. How much of your vaginal walls "feel" something during sex.

Some say only the clitoris and a slight depth after the entrance feel something. For others, the entrance and the g-spot. Yet others say it's the entire "front part" of the wall starting from the clit and going deeper.

So which is it girls? I'm doing a thesis on VR porn via direct neural connection so people will finally know what it's like to experience sex on the opposite gender's perspective.

>>17755066
It really depends on the person.
I always feel him entering me, when we're going I feel pressure everywhere and but pleasure especially on the front part of the wall.
I can also feel him coming pretty clearly.

>>17755053
Boyfriend is 5'7". I am 5'6".
He's fun, smart, interesting and kind. He has a super cute face, too, and grooms well.

>>17755083

The variety of experiences is kinda weird though. I had some girls in a survey say that they never feel the ejaculate while some only feel a slight warmth, while boys experience generally the same thing.

Vaginas are weird.

>>17755053
My friend is like 5'2", and her boyfriend is maybe an inch or two higher and it's not like he's a catch otherwise. I mean its great if a chick is busty, but you'll chat up chicks who arent right? Same shit with height.

If height was all that mattered I'd get tons of women, but surprise being an autist overshadows that.

>>17754738
I think it's rare that people can keep up a friendship after someone lets their feelings known since it's just awkward.
Sounds like she's trying to avoid you

>>17754827
Get her to help you, I'd love that for a first date since I love cooking.

>>17754939
I swear I see this asked every thread, I work with a guy who stutters and it doesn't make him less attractive.

>>17755053
Some girls like short guys, some don't. It comes down to your personality and hobbies like anyone else in the world
Don't come off all self-loathing and woe is me because that's an instant turn off, just keep living your life feeling confident

Hey guys,

Last night I was with my friends and we had a lot to drink and I danced with one of them that I just met (only because he was the only one who wanted to dance all the time). I think I may have been rather flirty and now he sent me a friend request, I'm just afraid he'll think I was being serious.

Would you guys be mad if a girl was flirting just for fun? I don't act like this usually

>>17755090
They are.
I feel his dick throbbing when he comes, if he stays still in me.
But I am pretty tight and sensitive in general - I come from penetration easily, and can come pretty fast with clit stimulation.

>>17755109
>Would you guys be mad if a girl was flirting just for fun?
I would probably be a bit annoyed, at least. By your own admission this is uncommon behavior so he got the wrong idea. But it's early enough for it to be something to sweep under the rug if you just want to be friends.

>>17755119
So should I be friendly but distant enough that he understands?

>>17755124
Being distant would be sufficient, but I'd also probably pick up the memo if you just stopped acting flirty too in his position.

Where does one find a chubby chaser?

Or do they find me?

Dude here.

>>17755131
Okay thanks. I'm not sure if I was even being that flirty. It's just that I come from a relatively conservative country and I came to the UK recently. What actions would you say count as flirty behaviour?

>>17755099
I prefer small busts- irrelevant though, problem is i just assume they're uninterested in me and never attempt anything.

>>17755144
Liking less busty women is not hurting my point, but reinforcing it. Most men like busty women, but are plenty happy to talk to a woman not very endowed. At the same time, a portion of men in fact prefer them that way.

I mean, if you assume they don't want to talk to you you're going to approach them with a bummed out attitude and it'll become a self fulfilling prophecy. It's not as if you're incredibly short either.

>>17755136
It's not as if people with a particular preference congregate in one area. All you can really do is put yourself out there.

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guys and girls,

never given oral to a girl before (only dated uptight asian girls that told me they don't like it)
any tips for a first timer? Anything you wish you knew that google doesn't tell you?

People confuse me at times. When I was thinking of asking out this one gal in my class, I was told I should hold back and get to know her a bit better as a friend first. At the same time I see women complain about how guys pretended to be their friends before asking them out instead of making their intentions clear from the get go. Said friend is a woman as well, do they just have strange hangups? Am I just retarded and missing some important context?

>>17755152
>Am I just retarded and missing some important context?
Different people want different things.

>>17755136
Grindr

>>17754886
Sounds like you want to fuck her sister and she also wants it desu
meaning your relationship is fucked.

Girls and guys

I'm in a really tight spot.. I just recently started dating an amazing girl who I like a lot. But at the same time, I also realize that I don't want a girlfriend at all (nothing that she did) but I just don't want one. This girl is so awesome tho, so I don't know what to do.

I feel like I'm stuck in the middle.. what should I do.

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Least creepy / good way of telling a girl you like her and want to date her ?

Been friends with a girl for about 3 months and i have started to get feelings for her. I don't know how to tell her that i like her, we both are pretty bad when it comes to interacting with the other sex romantically. We are 21m and 20f and i dont think either of us have had a bf/gf before (know for sure that we both are virgins).

>>17755183

"Hey do you know what I think would be really fun? We should go on a date! :) "

say that when your both having a good conversation about something fun

>>17755173
If you don't want a girlfriend, tell her and stop leading her on.
If you want her to be your girlfriend, then date her.
It's up to you.

>>17754886
>What is the sister thinking?
It's a powerplay. Being sisters she is naturally comparing herself to her. She gets a kick out of the idea that although you are dating her sister, you might secretly want to be with her instead. It makes her feel confident and alpha without needing to do anything for it (that she knows of).

>what will she tell my gf
Likely nothing. If she's actually cold, and not just an insecure young brat, she'll rub it in her face but more likely than not she'll relish in the egostroke by herself.

>how will my gf react
If she has any self-respect, she'll dump you if this comes out. Honestly, how would you feel dating a girl who lusts over your brother? It still hits closer home than a friend and most people wouldn't even be able to deal with that.

>I'm a mere mortal it's not my fault
Doesn't really get you points. Again, would you care about that if your girlfriend was schlicking to your brother (or best friend, if you don't have a brother)? No.

It's just a really unfortunate situation. But it is likely that your girlfriend will never find out. Try to snap out of your thing with the sister.

>>17755066
>which is it
It's individual. If you ask guys what they like most during blowjobs, some will say "focus on the head, that's the only really sensitive part" others say "deepthroating is the best, take it in as much as you can".
Then add to that that some girls can't climax from penetration at all, and others find the sensation of being penetrated better than anything else.

There's zero consensus there.

>>17755151
Google can tell you everything about technique etc. All you need to know is that the most important thing is that you keep a close eye on what SHE likes. You'll get many "this is the best way ever to make a girl cum from oral" and it might do absolutely nothing for her. So pay close attention to her personal responses.

Other than that, there's no magic tip that I know of that cunnilingus guides don't tackle. It's not higher science, most of the people bad at oral sex are bad because they cannot adjust to individual preferences or because they can't be fucked to put in effort, not because it's too difficult.

>>17755152
First answer is right but on top of that, you can get to know someone better without hiding sexual interest. That's also kind of what dates are for, but they're not necessary.

I'd recommend hanging out with her once or twice at most, while showing interest (tease her, flirt with her a bit), then ask her out. You can make it explicit;
>hey, I wanted to spend some more time with you because you struck me as a really cool and sweet girl, now that I know that I was right to have that impression of you, would you like to go on a date some time?

Then if she says no, under no circumstances linger around hoping she'll change her mind. Process the disappointment, take your distance and keep your eyes open for other cute girls.

>>17755173
If you don't want a relationship you don't want a relationship. It ends there. Just realize now that this means she'll go on dating someone else, and you have to accept it as a consequence of your priorities/needs in life right now that you were being honest with.

And obviously be clear to her about things not going anywhere, don't lead her on.

>>17755194

I'm not intending to lead her on, because I do like her! I just feel so stuck, because she's really special, and it's really hard to meet girls like her. But at the same time, I also haven't been wanting a relationship.

I can't make up my mind

>Near first half of semester my classmates invite me to a study group
>It's just me, a girl I don't know well and my friend
>Friend leaves eventually
>End up talking to her for 3 hours while doing math
>Enjoyed her company and glad I got to study but that's it even though we got to know each other fairly well
>Last two days
>Both of us are studying together again(friend and 1 other occasionally chiming in) and we spent around 16 hours together total
>Somewhere along the way I become completely head over heels about her even though I want to be friends as well
What should I do?

She's into MBTI and has told me to find compatible types to mine before going into a relationship. I looked into it and one of the two were hers, she told me her type and knew mine before this.

>>17755226

It's just so confusing... fuck

>>17755268
The thing is that if you are not even together with her yet, but already you find this not wanting a relationship in itself such a big obstacle, how do you think that'll feel once you have her locked down and her getting with someone else isn't a motivator anymore? You think you'll suddenly feel happy with the reality of the relationship?

Besides, she wants someone who is all in for her AND completely on board with a committed relationship. You theoretically want to date her, but in practice you don't. So right now she's not what you want and you're not what she wants.

>>17755275

I guess you're right. She was just telling me that she is so happy we met, and she likes me a lot. I'm gonna feel so guilty telling her..

>>17755291
Guilty about what? About being straightforward with your feelings that you don't have final control over?

And you would not feel guilty about getting together with her without being honest about the place in life you're at? Sounds like your priorities are off. It is never pleasant to disappoint someone but guilt implies that you could've done something differently, and you can't make yourself want a relationship.

>>17755300

My friends keep telling me I'm making a big mistake about thinking of ending what we have. They said that I'll never meet anyone like her ever again. Which I know is true.

>>17754939
It really doesn't bother me, but after being around people who stutter, I have no idea how to respond to it. One guy I was having a conversation with got stuck on a word. And I just waited. It seemed to make him freak out more. I didn't want to make him self conscious. But I didn't know how to respond.

>>17755245
I have no idea what your trying to do.

But I assume you want to fuck your study buddy?

Heres what i do.

Ask her to come and study with you to your room.
Tell her you want to catch up. Bring wine. A sweet wine will insure success.
Tell her it helps with concentration.
After 2 second bottle bang her like a drunk redneck.
Make sure to catch up on your studying after sex.

>>17755322
You can't know whether that's true or not. You're likely still quite young and whereas obviously meeting new people gets harder after a certain age, in the next years you will most probably only get more secure in your own skin and more apt at seeking out people you mesh well with and have a connection with.

And even if you'd really never meet someone like her anymore, that doesn't mean it'll work if you get together with her. You seem to think that once you're past the initial hurdle of getting with her, everything will be a breeze. In what way? Most couples still wind up breaking up. And if you wouldn't break up - if you already feel all around unenthusiastic about dating, how do you not feel terrified at the prospect of starting to date your future wife?

And last but not least, if she's really such an amazing, special girl, does she really deserve to be with a guy who feels so half-hearted and basically has to drag himself into her arms with arguments like "I guess if I don't know I'll never get anyone as good, so here we go..."? I don't think so.

>>17755053
I'm 5'2 and my long term bf is like 5'5 or so. I love him so much. He was one of the shortest guys in high school, but I remember tons of girls liked him. His face and body are extremely attractive. He dresses well. He's charismatic and funny and outgoing. He occasionally jokes about his height, but he doesn't even acknowledge it most of the time.

Idk, his face and his personality is what got me hooked on him in the beginning.

He isn't even the shortest person I dated, one of my high school boyfriend's was the same height as me.

>>17755328
I want to start dating her and maybe get in a relationship.

That's pretty funny though.

>>17755053
It's your insecurities that are the turn-offs, not your physical appearance

>>17755335

I'm 26, but even still, I know I'll actually never meet anyone like her, there are actual reasons for thinking that. But it really is true because girls like her are RARE.

I hear what you're saying tho. I mean, I honestly do like her. I just don't know.

Fuck me. It's lose-lose either way (in a sense). I like her a lot, but I don't think I'm ready for a girlfriend.

>>17755066
The clitoris is where I feel most things and I will cum in minutes. It is the sweet spot of my whole shabang. If it is not acknowledged at some point within sex, I'm honestly disappointed.

However, vaginal intercourse is still extremely pleasurable. At the entrance, then maybe (im estimating here) like an inch in, I feel all that. Then there is this "blank space" feeling where I don't feel much. Then I feel the head of his dick pounding the cervix area, and that is also pleasurable.

As far as the gspot, while I have had gspot orgasms, I don't really feel much within that area. It's weird, the orgasm just comes after rubbing it for a while..

>>17755353
Okay, but listening to you talk about her you sound more enthusiastic talking about her rarity (based on whatever qualities she objectively has) than about how you personally feel about her. You say that you like her a lot, and that she is objectively a rare kind of woman to come across. That kind of sounds to me like you like her just fine, but it is more the rational component that really makes you want to give it a shot.

The thing is, love is not rational. She could be a petite redhead with a 10/10 ass who is one of the funniest people you ever met and a prodigy in math - but you could meet a girl next year who is more average looking and has no "superpowers" yet strikes a chord in you that no one ever did. That's love for you. That this girl is amazing on paper doesn't necessarily mean much if you're not wholle, completely over the moon crazy about her. And if you were, you would suddenly want a relationship, believe me.

>>17755343
But anon this is how you start dating in college.

I got into my first fight with my gf of 6 months last week, about basically her not being available enough, and it hurt her that I didn't fully trust her.
She apologized for flaking(which got this all started) and so did I for not trusting her, but the realtionship is still a bit strained.

Is it a good or bad idea to come clean and tell her it's mostly due to my random insecurities(this is my first longer relationship and I'm kinda freaking out about what to do), or would it fuck everything up as "red pillers" would have me believe.

we're both 20.

>>17755368

What makes this so hard is we share all the same interests, and we are also very passionate about the same interests. She even said to me that I'm like a best friend, because we are both into the same things. She even told me that I'd make a great boyfriend. My friends keep saying that I'm in a rut right now, but that I'll snap out of it and realize how lucky I am.

Fuck

>>17755375
I guess I should've phrased it all better, oh well.

>>17755384
Well, I mean, it sounds to me like you're unable to make your peace with not wanting it right now. So if that is the case you should by all means give it a shot and see how it goes.

But for what it's worth, if a man felt this way about me I would not remotely want him to pursue me. I want someone to date me because they want to belong with me, want to have intimacy together, because the idea of being my boyfriend gives them butterflies. Not because I am into their niche interest and they realize it is unlikely that they'll meet another girl who is, despite being dispassionate about the idea of entering a relationship.

>>17755397

>intimacy

I think I have a issue with this

>>17755378
She apologized, you apologized, just get back to normal and move forward. The reason why you shouldn't tell them about your insecurities is just because a lot of people don't know how to process what that means and it feels like you're laying an extra burden on them (even if that's not the reality that's how some women will interpret it). It's not because "ugh I can't believe I'm dating this insecure beta let me go find a real alpha instead". Stop listening to redpillers

>>17755405
If that's the case it's unlikely to naturally pass by avoiding it entirely.

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>>17755378
I broke up with my gf of 4 years 2 weeks ago because of "flaking"

Sure it was okay at first but it didn't get better. And the blame game got tossed around.
At the end of the relationship by her account I was a humanoid dick monster that hated her and her friends and just wanted to fuck her.
On my side i got to see her ~6 hours total in a week. And for half of those she was sleepy or not in the mood for anything. So i said fuck it. I got better things to do than sit around and wait for you do be done with your shit.
Sure she pleaded said things would change. I said no. She than god mad called me names, threatened me, hit me. Then said she was sorry. yada yada yada. It's the same sotry every time.

Ether
A) Accept the fact that she doesn't respect your time and stay in a relationship
B) Say fuck this find someone who will
C) Beat around the bush, accept the blame, say your sorries, say things will change, move on, deal with the same issue 3 months down the road, but now it's even more your fault.

Hope you enjoy reading my blogpost.

>>17755414

I fucking hate myself sometimes.

>>17755426
Good post. It sounds like this might be the first time it happened for him though, and she definitely apologized so I'm not sure if he should cut ties just yet. But definitely keep her on a short leash. If it happens again get out.

Not everyone deserves love, right?

>>17755412
Thanks.
>>17755426
Fuck. Well, she really was busy, but I certainly will watch out for this from now on.
I just feel like I can always make time for her, and she doesn't reciprocate that...

Which faux-pas comes to mind when you think of a somewhat extroverted and confident kissless male virgin trying to make a move on you?

>>17755454
There are two types of busy.

Real actual busy:
>I have a 4 collage exams and a week to get everything done, my dad needs me to change the carburetor, and I'm pretty sure mom is in the hospital but sure babe we can see each other over the whole weekend at your place while i fix your washing machine and walk your dog.
And choosing not to hand out with YOU busy:
>"Bebe I cant come and watch that movie with you that i picked, sorry but i kinda told Stacy just now that i would walk her to the airport, your welcome to join us if you want to carry the luggage and listen to us talk and ignore you"

Know the difference.

Is there any better way to get over a crush than just "wait it out lol"?

>>17755447
No.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iqITqRWhpxg

>>17755486

sometimes girls like me, but I don't feel deserving of it so I always push them away

>>17755486
>there are people out there who there's nobody for them

right in the feels
legalized suicide when?

>>17755496
The laughter immediately after he says that hurts.

>legalized suicide when?
I wouldn't be worried about it being illegal when my brains are 10 meters from what used to be my head.

>>17755516
I want to go to a doctor and have it done painlessly and cleanly though

it hurts more because right now i've got a crush on a super qt girl at work

>>17755485
I asked my last failed crush out just for closure. Then picked up a martial art(judo) to get my mind off her, meet new people and such. Exercise is also a great way to feel better about yourself, and the people I met there are amazing.

>>17755528
I already know there is less than zero interest. I work nights so getting a social hobby is hard. But I've already been losing weight so that's good.

Men: You send one of those cheesy pickup lines to a girl that has sexual implications. She responds and wants to meet tonight. What do you do? Are you all words or do guys ever actually take action?

>>17755561
>You send one of those cheesy pickup lines
I don't do this anymore. I very much prefer to hang around a woman I find physically attractive to see if her personality appeals to me as well. If it does I ask her out and then I go whine on the internet after she rejects me.

My ex boyfriend deleted my number. When I saw it I was kinda surprised and asked him If he really did so. He just replied that my number wasnt even in the friend list and then added me back.
Did he do that for attention o he is playing?

>>17755561

>take action

nope. I've done it once and it was a waste.

>>17755323
Just nod your head very slowly, have a little smile and show your concentration on your eyes. This will loosen up the stress in that person who stutters.

>>17755245
Any serious response?

I don't really know where to go from there.

>>17755587
>Wine
>Get her alone
>Go Redneck on her
What is so confusing to your liberal cuck mind?

Femanons, I've had sex with four different grills but for various reasons I've had very little experience with the girl on top. Ex wasn't into it, other girl had a hip issue, once was in a car etc.

When you're up there should I do anything or just lie back and enjoy myself? Do you want the guy to move his hips?

>>17755601
You can do both.
Me and my boyfriend usually "take turns" because after I come I'm kind of exhausted and my legs are all shakey and I don't do a great job on top.
I like if my boyfriend has his hands on my hips or if he plays with my butt/breasts as I'm riding him. But that's it.

>>17755596
I'm not bashing a girl's head in to fuck, anon.

Well then enjoy genetic death you disgrace to the human race.

Why do some guys play games on grills? Like what are some of the reasons?

>>17755620
To fuck. That's pretty much it.

>>17755619
Who are you talking to?

>>17755634

He's talking to me

>>17755640
No, he's talking to me.

>>17755576
>>17755567

So you don't actually want to have sex? What the hell reaction do you want when you send these stupid pickup lines? I literally just want to have a quick NSA ONS. What do I say to a guy on tinder to get him to give me his D? If I'm too straightforward these pussyfaggots get scared off.

Would you ever date someone with a slightly hunched back?

>>17755647
oh, you're just a whiny cunt, i thought you had a real question

quit whoring around

How can I get my girlfriend to improve her blowjobs? Everything else about our sex life is great, but she can't succ me on the same level that she can fucc me

Girls

Is it a bad thing that my favorite Christmas song is "All I want for Christmas is you" by Mariah Carey...?

>gf's mother snoops through her stuff
>>she's upfront about it and doesn't see the issue
>she does it with every member of the family
>also likes to gossip on what every member did recently
>family doesn't allow contact with boys so gf has to hide it, and her contraception pills

Anybody been through that? How did it go? Why do parents do this apart from the obvious "they care about you"?

>>17755647

That should be easy as fuck. Just be straight forward

"Hey, you seem cool, do you want to Netflix and chill?"

Girls and guys

What differentiates "being in a relationship" and "serious relationship"?

>>17755702
Basically how willing she is to have sex without condom.

>>17755706
>tell them your pullout game is strong
>???
>don't use condoms

the last girl i was banging let me never use a condom

thank god she was just starting her slut phase

>>17755706

Well this girl I'm dating uses BC and doesn't have me wear a condom

>>17755561
I usually do cheesy pick up lines with female friends because pick up lines are cheesy and I find most of them funny. Only discrete, not disgusting 3deep5u situational ones """work""""

>>17755658
Give her some then tell her "this is how you do it".

What do i do when i can never say anything right to my gf?
Everything seems to rub her the wrong way and she thinks I'm mad at her. I apologize profusely and she says i have no reason to. I asked her how can i make her feel better and she said i dont have to do anything
What the hell is this situation? What are my options to ctrl +alt + del my way out of this drama and still be with her?

At what age flexing your biceps and swearing stops getting you pussy?

For females:

Have you ever dated or been in a relationship with a hikikomori (ex: a stereotypical autistic 4chan user)?

What was it like?

From Wikipedia: Hikikomori is a Japanese term to refer to the phenomenon of reclusive adolescents or adults who withdraw from social life, often seeking extreme degrees of isolation and confinement.

>>17755744
>choosing to be isolated
jesus Christ what privileged fucks

Why does my girlfriend always miss the point of what I'm saying/argue on a somewhat-irrelevant tangent?

>I'm upset/annoyed over something
>I tell her
>"Why does that upset you/annoy you?"
>I answer
>She keeps asking follow up questions for like 20 minutes and forcing me to go into extreme details I haven't even thought of
>like I'm not even joking I have to explain, to the smallest absolute reason, why I'm upset
>discussion turns only to that and her trying to pick apart (argue against) why I'm upset

>work online for a living
>she's curious about it after me telling her about it
>I give advice
>"Why didn't you do that when [you were out of work/time period]?"
>I answer
>"But why"
>I answer
>"But why"
>Repeat for 15 minutes, ultimately get frustrated she she's just virtually interrogating me on a loosely related tangent and stop

Looking to hash things out a bit.

Me and my girlfriend are 22 and 23, respectively. We're doing really well together, and both of us dream of building a future. However, the subject of kids is a bit of a snag.

Both of us are unsure, but I lean slightly towards kids and she leans slightly away from them. This makse us both a little nervous going forward.

At the same time, I think we're a little young to worry too much about this. It should definitely be a factor of thought before marriage or anything like that, but neither of us want to get married until probably our late 20s to early 30s. Hell, who knows what will happen between now and any potential marriage/children? One of us could die. One of us could turn into someone we hate and the relationship could end. We might just not really be right for each other.

Is it too soon to be worried about this?

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>>17754611
guys or girls idgaf

Is it worth getting a tinder still? I'm /fit/ now but I am a virgin cyborg at the same time, is it a good way at getting out there?

>>17755777
>build a future
impossible without kids

pump one into her, faggot

>>17755783
no

>>17755783
Using tinder to date is like marrying a one night stand.

People, male or female, are there to have meaningless casual sex. Not relationships.

>>17755786
nah, women are there for attention, men are there to get sex, and most don't

>>17755790
Alright let me rephrase that.

Tinder is for sex.

Women abuse that knowledge.

Men are dumb enough to believe women aren't abusing that knowledge.

>>17755783
I've actually had a decent amount of success with Tinder. Yes, the app fosters the idea of hooking up only, but it's basically internet speed dating in the palm of your hand. Convenient, effortless, and definitely a good way to practice talking to women, dating, building confidence/identity. Nothing to lose really.

>>17755783
I met my current gf on there and it's amazing. In fact plenty of people have and are doing great.

Don't listen to >>17755786
about Tinder or one night stands. Plenty of people in great relationships got together through very unvonventional means.

It's true though that Tinder has this "supermarket" aspect to it, that makes people judge and get rid of you fast because someone else will replace you when they match. But it might work and you wont know unless you try.

>>17755793
>definitely a good way to practice talking to women, dating, building confidence/identity.
you need matches for that though

>>17755792
fair enough

>>17755796
>you need matches for that though
Duh? Take the time to take some good profile pictures, create an engaging profile, and initiate good conversations. Tinder and dating in general is a numbers game. Put your best foot forward and roll the dice again and again and again. I've gotten great dates from Tinder that weren't about hooking up, but it took time and effort.

>>17755802
>initiate good conversations
you're retarded

I was just shooting the shit with a female friend about the NFL and how my team is so bad, when she drops this text

>You are the only person who makes me feel good about myself

wtf...how do I respond

>>17755777
>22, 23
>Kids

Don't even think about that. You are too young.

Ultimately you don't get to decide she dose. If she wants kids she will find semen. Off you or off some street nigger. If she doesn't even if you knock her up she will dump your ass and kill it.

>>17755807
"It makes me happy that I can make you feel that way"


or just tell her to come over so you can make her feel really good

>>17755816
Money issues can be awkward with me and my partner too. I'd just remind him again, and let him know that it's not necessarily because you don't trust him, but that you do really need to have some savings. Me and my girlfriend think differently about money. For me, if I know you'll pay me back, it's not a big deal unless I have no money to my name (which is unlikely.)

For her, having a debt to pay, or not having the correct amount of money in her account makes her anxious. We compromise.

>>17755816
How can you evel call him your "bf" if you're not even able to talk with him about the simplest things?

Been friends with girl for 3 years
>We're pretty close
>Absolutely crazy about her
>She's legitimately one of the prettiest and sweetest girls I know
>She's a virgin
>Yesterday she asks me "I didn't have sex with my ex, and I'm glad I didn't because I doubt he even cared about me. I'm just done with relationships for a while, he ruined them for me. But I don't want to stay a virgin forever. Should I just go out and lose it to a stranger, should I do it with a friend? What do you think?"

Was she low key hinting at wanting it to be with me?q

>>17755844
she was low key telling you she is fucking insane

>>17755848
How is she insane?

>>17755844

If she wanted it with you she would have said so.

Anyone ever met someone a partner that wasn't online, through friends or parties/group things? I dislike clubs so much even though girls are easy there. (The lights, crowd and loud music really gets me). I mostly study and my hobbies are trekking alone because I don't really know anyone in my uni

>>17755878
>someone partner
Ops. Meant someone or a partner.

>>17755826

Thanks :) Yeah, it isn't awkward as such as he's normally on the ball. It's just a considerable amount of money. I just asked him again while making dinner and he said he'd forgotten and would transfer it now. Sorted!

>>17755836

I did talk to him, if you read my earlier post then you'd see that. I was asking how to approach the subject again without making him feel embarrassed.

>>17755864
>>17755848

Whelp there goes my good mood.

She probably wants it to be with my best friend. She used to have a thing for him.

Great. It's gonna kill me inside.

Should I just straight up ask her at this point?

>>17755884
If you have trouble with this sort of things god forbid when you'll have to face actual problems.

met a girl casually through a friend and i added her on instagram

how do i dm her and proposition for a date?

>>17755878
Having autism is hard anon

Social events are your safest bet. Witch means loud music, smoking occasional drug use. But if you cant handle that try to get a nerd girl. Someone in your college thats not in to the whole social scene ether. Can't really help you since every girl I've ever been with I've met in a bar, club, gig or combination of all three, since I don't shit where I eat.

>>17755891
I wonder what would happen if she asked you to hook her up with your best friend and it happens. And than you have to watch her make out with him. And go places with them, and than watch them make out. And when you try to get out of the situation the tell you "But anon we're all such good friends common it will be fun". And when you flake "anon are you avoiding us". Oh it will be a glorious cuckold.

>>17755908
I'm kinda retarded, I'm like Leslie Nielsen levels of obliviousness. I used to go to clubs with a dyke friend to dance with her so "chads" didn't pulled her hair and force kissed her (people do that) and every goddamn time she was like "What the fuck you stupid idiot that chick wanted to fuck you!" or gay guys tried to hook up with me . Now I moved to a distant place where I don't know anyone and only have uni studies to do..
>>17755891
Anon is better try something than endure >>17755916

>>17755878
I passed my time at uni in a primarily female circle of friends, so I had like zero male friends. which is bad when you realize that you're about to graduate and miss the best time to get a bf. I'm also rather introverted so I've never frequented any clubs (and the guys that I would meet there wouldn't be my type anyway). So now I am trying to get to know more people at work/at sport clubs which I prefer over meeting strangers online. You could try it too, get more exposure, take part in social activities or join interest groups.

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>>17755917
Yeah i have that issue too.
It hits me later desu. like a few days ago a girl asked me to come to her dorm room to show her some chemistry. I don't even know any chemistry I'm a CS student. Tell her this. She has the most disappointed face i have ever seen. I think it's because of the chemistry. On the bus ride home I realize I'm mentally retarded and she's an art student.

>>17755924
What a coincidence anon, my highschool was 95% female friends (I ended up hooking up with one of them). Now university is shit because they are all gone, everyone moved, fought among themselves (including me and my sweetheart) and me or completely disappeared :(. I'm only left with my dork male friend with gf. (straight male myself)

>>17755928
I've always wondered but how did you, a male, end up with 95% female friends? did you never feel kinda lonely as the only male?

>>17755927
>anon lets go to the waterfall at X?
>Sure I love that place!
>can you carry me, I don't want to wet my hair!
>of course
>I will put my legs arround your waist and rub all over you, slip so you need to grab my ass
>uhm ok
I only found out when she literally sneaked into my bed and we fucked. Feels bad :(

>>17755916
What point are you trying to prove right now?

That I should just go down fighting?

>>17755934
I wondered the same thing. I was always a lonely person so it didn't really affected me.( I'm lonely but sociable and have no problems talking in public etc.). The only problem with women is when there is a bunch of them in a room they start to talk non-stop at the same time and that drives me insane. (Buying booze and food with them was hellish too, they are indecisive as shit, took hours). And when all failed I still had my best bro, aka the 5%.

>>17755935
I see your autism and raise you:

>Summer camp
>"Anon wanna come up to out (girls) cabin and play some cards they(other girls) won't be there and i'll be bored.
>Sure thing
>Proceed to bring my entire cabin (5 more guys) with me.
>She opens the door in lingerie.
>My friends laugh
>They make up a bullshit excuses to leave.
>I feel like they ditched me.
>Spend the earning reaching the grill how to play blackjack

>>17755941
Point?
Shit that one got me by surprise.
I was just making up a cuckold fantasy on the fly. Ok gotta makes something up.

Umm...
Anon you have to be strong for mother. She loves you and thats all that matters. You don't want to disappoint a person that truly loves you do you?

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>>17755966
Some god will have mercy on us and give us our place in heaven.

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I think this girl's about to do the whole confess thing soon to me. She's been clingy for weeks now, and subtly-ish has been getting back all day to an unserious flirt I swung her way.

Now it's cool and all, but the thing is that I've got a thing for her friend pretty badly. We met through her and she seems interested too, but I'm not sure because life gets between us with every shot I take.

If I say yes now, I'll burn that bridge because I'm way more flirty and interested in the other girl. If I say no, I'll hurt this girl and burn this bridge because she'll know she's in second place.

What do?

>>17755983
Something is better than nothing. Just don't be an ass with yourself or her(s)

>>17755983
Doesn't sound like she's actually going to make a move, but since you're interested in her friend, say no if she does

>>17755983
I'd say don't date any of them. It osunds like you just want an easy lay and plan on trying whoever would be your second choice if the first choice blows you off.

>>17756002
She's pretty insecure. Problem is that I am too. I think she's cute, and I'm attracted to her. I enjoy the time we spend together and there always seems to be some kind of tension between us. If she'd make a move, I'd let it all happen. It's just that I don't want to take the leap myself because I like the other girl much more.

>>17756018
Pretty sure I'd have jumped on the first 'hello' a long, long time ago if all I wanted was an easy lay.

>>17756024
>If she'd make a move, I'd let it all happen.
>Pretty sure I'd have jumped on the first 'hello' a long, long time ago if all I wanted was an easy lay.
These two sentiments contradict each other. You just want what's easiest for you, to the point where it's more important than who you're getting with.

>>17756036
You're right if you leave out half of the first sentiment like you just did. Are you sure you're trying to give advice here and not just project a view on someone?

>>17756058
>I enjoy the time we spend together and there always seems to be some kind of tension between us.
How does this add anything? All that does is change it from "this girl likes me but I like her friend more" to "this girl likes me and I may like her too, but I like her friend more." It doesn't change what I said about you wanting what's easiest for you.

>>17755884
>he said he'd forgotten and would transfer it now
Glad to hear it's fixed. My relationship rule? Always assume someone forgot until they prove you otherwise.

>>17754780

Experimentation.

>>17755568
Stop paying attention to your ex. He wants to forget about you but you aren't letting him. Now he thinks he has a chance again.

>>17754812

Instinct.

>>17756090
survival instinct?

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>>17754611
Is inviting a girl to go to to he gym with you good? Like to run with her and do general things together? Does it come off like I'm trying to make her work out because I think she does? I honestly just want to spend time with her and I just figured it was a good place, but I don't want her to think I don't think she looks great already

>>17754611
How do I flirt with a woman? Girls, what kind of things can a guy say to make you feel warm and fuzzy?

>>17756133
Titty sprinkles.

>>17756135
thanks I'm gonna go try this out right now!

>>17756125
If you're in college and talking about going to the college gym, and you know for sure she regularly goes to the college gym, then that's perfectly fine. If you have no idea whether or not she frequents that gym, then no, do not do that.

and if you're not in college and not talking about the college gym, absolutely do not ask her to go.

But really, it's stupid across the board because you can't have decent conversation when you're running at the gym. If you like her, take her on an actual date, not a daily chore. Working out together is for when you're in a relationship. Like all the other mundane, boring, daily things couples do.

>>17756140
It didn't work, my mum just looked at me funny :(

>>17755902
I don't have or use instagram but I'm telling you now you've gotta be pretty fucking retarded if you can't figure out how to message a girl and ask her out

"hey u r 2 qt. wnna get a drink wit me? im nt crzy and i won rpe u lol prmise :-)"

>>17756133
Compliments-
your perfume smells nice
hair looks nice like that

hey its cold, want my coat (doesnt matter if youre cold yourelf, give her your coat)
hey its dark out ill wait with you so i know youre okay


i went from 0 to 100 in terms of being interested in a guy i work with because of this stuff

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>>17754611
How do I Compliment a girl I want to ask out? I mean, a few said I should, but I don't want to sound creepy when I do it
>your sweater looks nice
>your hair looks pretty/nice that way

Like, part of me just doenst know what to make of things like that, is it different in a girl's mind?

>>17756181
This stuff sounds like it could easily come off as creepy if I say it in the wrong way.

>>17756204
well yeah don't say it to a stranger, someone you're friends with or at least know.

>>17756188
depends on the context really, like i said to the other guy, if its to a friend or someone you know then just do it casually or something. Oh hey how are you your hair looks cute like that anyway lets go get piss drunk and cry about our lives etc
i wouldnt be bothered by it if a guy said it to me

>>17756133
People who are bad at it tend to misunderstand flirting. Flirting is basically playing for adults: sexually charged interaction, whether that's banter, inside jokes or compliments.

There isn't one set way to do this. Like with initiating sex or consoling someone or whatever, everyone has their own preferred method that they enjoy most and/or is most within their comfort zone.

The easiest way to start is by keeping in mind: how would I act if I were not trying to hide that I'm attracted to this person? You'd likely smile more, sit closer, touch them more, obviously appreciate their body, joke more, engage them in everything you do. Don't do it all at once, that is weird to just start doing by yourself. You start by hinting at it, teasing them with one or two give-aways. A safe and common example is allowing them to see you smile at them in a way that is obviously more than polite or friendly. Some people single out the person they like by being mean to them, what you have to see as the way guys rib on each other: you have to look one layer below surface level, where the behavior says "I can act like a dick to you because we both know how much I'm fond of you". It is also a way to initiate charged, informal one on one interaction that shows personal dynamic and interest more than regular social etiquette.

It is something to play and experiment with. Personally I am a sucker for someone blatantly looking me up and down in the right way, it makes my legs melt. Especially in an innocuous setting like;
>asking "do I look okay" after eating something that smudges easily to see if I have stuff on my face
>him doing a quick but deliberate full body take before looking me in the face: "yeah, you look great"

>>17756218
Protip: if you think stuff like this sounds creepy, it's all in the delivery. What is creepy is when you feel like guys say/do things -at- you, as opposed to with you. Something as simple as a grin with prolonged eye contact can drive the point home that you are doing something to show your interest to her and turn her on, not because you can't keep yourself from leering/commenting.

In fact, a lot of the time what gives girls the "creep" vibe is a combination of sexual interest and nerves. For example, what happens a lot is that guys check out cleavage and then when the girl notices, they look away because they're embarrassed they got caught. That's a very natural response, but as a girl it makes you feel pretty shitty if guys are looking at your body but not bothering to look you in the face, like they won't acknowledge that they aren't checking out another billboard. Again, something like a "yeah sorry, you look great" grin or "oops, you caught me" look can really break the ice/awkwardnesss and bring you back to two persons interacting with each other instead of one person doing something to someone else.

And, obviously, it is key to start lightly and know when to pack it up when she doesn't respond. Social interaction is built around avoiding awkwardness, no one likes it. Typically when a woman has to literally tell you to cut it out, you have already gotten many non-verbal signals that she was not into it. Turning away from you, not smiling, being curt with you etc. Take the hint and move on to someone who is receptive.

>>17755109
I'd say guys like to jump to conclusions, especially the kinds that flatter themselves.

>>17756181
>your perfume smells nice
>hair looks nice like that
>
>hey its cold, want my coat (doesnt matter if youre cold yourelf, give her your coat)
>hey its dark out ill wait with you so i know youre okay

I've never ever done this to a woman lol sounds cringey
I asked some chick I met at the pool if she wanted to come to my room, no other nice gestures needed, also after we fucked, she stuck around to have dinner with me, too. Women, lol

>>17756212
>someone you're friends with or at least know.
Heh, I better start working on that first part then.

>>17756218
>>17756233
That's very informative, so thank you. I'm so far past the point where I should know this already that I really need it spelled out because I can't afford to fuck up majorly.

>>17756258
Don't worry, many people suck at flirting or can only relax enough to do it with someone they're already in a relationship with. But that's a shame because it is a really fun way to show interest and gauge what kind of chemistry you have.

>>17755183
>>17755189
Yeah dude. If she's cool, she probably won't be shaken if you just make it a casual thing.

As a guy, this year I've asked for three casual hookups. That's a first. Got a yes, a no, and a maybe, and for all of that it actually wasn't an actual hassle. The no actually opened up a lot more after she found out that I was interested, but cool with a no. Turns out she actually likes to talk about sex anyways, and the tension is pretty fun given that I have my limits. She's been giving me tips about other girls. The maybe's been warming up to the idea, she brings it up more on account of being a flirt, but her circumstances are pretty bad right now. She can take her time, she's still good company as a friend anyways. And the yes actually turned out to be some bad luck in the end of things. Though it was fun while it lasted.

My experience is that you literally don't know what will happen until you do it, but this guy's got good advice. Don't make a big deal out of it and listen to the other anon.

>>17756243
That's a very broad generalisation, I do exactly the opposite and I know many guys who probably do the same.

>>17754611
My dick has bumps on it, do you think my gf can feel it when she sucks my dick?

>>17756298
You mean those white little bits on the head I forgot the name of? If so or comparable, nah. Inside of the mouth isn't that sensitive. If it's comparable to a raised mole or full on wart then yeah.

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>>17755001
>>17755107
what food should i make if she goes with it? i was thinking spaggetti because
>who doesnt like spaggetti?
>somewhat easy to make
>shes international student so it may be something new for her

is there a better dish to make?
also i should have i have little to know experience cooking, but i really want to do soemthing sweet

>>17754886
How do you accidentally masturbate?

>>17756302
Yeah the white stuff

>>17756311
ask her what her favourite meal(s) is and make one of them with her.

Girls

What would you do if you're dating a guy you really like, but he's TERRIBLE at kissing/making out...?

I know I'm not good at kissing. It's awkward and confusing for me..

>>17756320
>>17756311
also gonna add, even if it goes tits up you can both laugh about it and order a take away

id consider that a pretty cute date idea
>mfw no guy ever done this for me :(

>>17756319
Maybe if she is literally running the tip of her tongue along your corona (the ridge of the head) or something... but if you're talking full on in her mouth then no.

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>>17756311
This man
http://www.swankyrecipes.com/cheesy-garlic-pull-apart-bread.html
Who doesn't love garlic bread?

>>17756259
>Don't worry
lol it's all I do, but I will definitely take what you've said onboard.

>>17756324
Teach him.

>>17756311
Where is she from to not know spaggetti?
>>17756324
>tfw I'm this guy

girls do you like stimulating, caressing, lewd stuff on the following areas during intercourse?
>breasts
>neck
>tighs
Current girl gets funny and melts with some neck bites and kisses but I'm interest in knowing your opinions.

>>17756327
Well, I guess what I mean is that flirting isn't a bare necessity. It's something that makes you sexier and more competent at the early stages of seducing someone. But if you're friendly, secure in yourself enough to put yourself on a girl's radar (by offering to walk her home, tagging along if the option arises, striking up conversations with her etc) even without flirting it will be clear to many that you have some interest and they might reciprocate that.

Also I mostly responded to you saying that you're far behind. Real flirting (so not just eye contact games and smiling but flat out seducing and sexually charged comments/teasing) is not all that common for people to be good at, it's complicated social interaction you need some sensitivity for in terms of picking up clues and realizing when you have a chance to make a move so to speak.

>>17756335
Having my neck licked is probably my favorite thing in the word, and while my thighs are too ticklish for much licking I love having them firmly but softly groped.
I like having my breasts touched and licked etc as well, but it's not one of my hotspots. I would rather have firm pressure on my stomach or groping/smacking my ass. This is a very individual thing, I've heard of women having such sensitive nipples that they can orgasm from having them licked and women with tits that have basically zero feeling. I am somewhere in between and having my nipples sucked is quite nice but just not among the best for me.

I'm also a sucker for a heavy hand on the small of my back.

>>17756311
Go to /ck/. But as a rule of thumb, if you know how to do roasted/baked vegetables that is never NEVER wrong as an entry meal. Good, well roasted vegetables with good seasoning are excellent. Things I like to do
>potato or tomato confit
>meat confit
>paozi (internet says you need steamer, I use a tinc an with holes)
>flat breads you can make them of frying pans/skillets
>chao fan
>hand made noodles
>tabule (easy as shit)
>hummus (not so easy but you can buy, good with aforementioned flat breads and tabule)
>kibbehs
>etc

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>>17756298
I mean this btw

>>17756133
These two comments (>>17756218 and >>17756233) are great.

If I can add something.
Good flirting should make me feel like you're interested in me and not desperate for any girl. Avoid generic compliments. I've heard them from every guy who wanted to fuck me before you. Being called pretty or beautiful is nice but not that special. I love compliments about specific aspects of my appearance, or about my personality. Make me feel like you are listening.
Don't be too sweet, too fast.
Flirting is mutual. If you flirt with me and I am not responsive, give up. Really. I got ya, I just am not interested.
I like when a guy makes me laugh. Building sexual tension and making me laugh is the best mix for me.
Wit is sexy. A nice, interesting, deep conversation is sexy. Work on that side a lot.

>>17756315
You've never done that before? like just browsing some website, look at some photos, scratch your balls a bit, oh no dick is hard now better stroke it a bit hmm

>>17756341
>small part of your back
Never heard of that. Sounds cute/sexy. Thanks

>>17755053
Make a joke about if you want. A lot of manlets tend to joke about their hieght but limit it to 1-2 jokes don't wanna come of as a complete fagget. But idk man I'm 6'2 and all the girls I know "like" tall guys but end up with guys like 5'5-10

>>17756364
Basically the lowest part, around the back dimples. Try it, I think this is a beloved spot for many women.

>>17755114
A girl who comes easily. Hmu

>>17756369
>pretty much this
184cm here and can confirm.They "like" tall and big. ""like"". Probably the only girl that likes is the one you are interested in. (this is my best friend's opinion, and he is a manletrino). Not that generalizations such as "they like x" (sounds like guy bar talk about chicks) but it has some credit.
>>17756371
I definitively will anonnette.

>>17756373
only in 4chins. Where we are all girls

>>17755151
Suck tits to get her started, kiss/lick firmly on her stomach and inner thigh by her vag before going to town on her.

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>>17756345

Where is a good place to go to meet guys that's not a bar/nightclub or online? I'd like to meet someone extroverted, but I have no idea where to do so. My problem is I would also like to find guys who are into anime/vidya and that's even more difficult most likely. Any ideas?

>>17755173
Creampie her wait a month if she gets prego you stay if not then move on, wasn't meant to be.

>>17756364
>>17756371
>tfw I witness my friend's hand on his gf's lower back when I sat behind them in the lecture once
Don't know how to feel about that, I was still thinking about Radon nikodym and Hahn decomposition kinda drifting away from reality when I saw him touching his gf and she seems to be in an orgasmic bliss. Kinda like watching two cats in heat fucking.

>>17756338
I've always assumed that flirting was something everyone did before they asked others out, but maybe I'm wrong. Regardless it seems like it's a fairly advanced thing so perhaps I should work on more basic stuff for the time being.

>>17756349
Oh that's good, making a compliment unique to her, I'll have to keep that in mind too. I'm alright with deeper conversations but not much else unfortunately.

>>17756392
lol

>>17754611
If I want to get with a girl, should I just be as straight as possible? For example, talking for a while, then just ask for their number without worrying about showing interest in any obvious way besides eye contact and maybe touching?
Similar, just set up a date without a lot of chitchat and take it from there?
I'm an older virgin who's trying for the first time, and I found that bullshitting around/being "creative" just isn't my style - I much prefer to simply ask when I like a girl and see whether she likes me back.

>>17756394
If she's lucky he was whispering stuff to her about what he was going to do to her later on. One of the biggest advantages of being female is that you can get as wet as possible without the giveaway of a boner. Real fun for public teasing.

>>17754827
Go mini golfing, bitches love mini golf

>>17754827
Do something different, maybe go for drinks. Dinner for a first Date is as boring as it gets.
Also, you do want to give off at least some "I want Sex" vibe, unless you want to go directly to the friendzone with her. After all, romantic or not, you go out because you at least possibly want to fuck her at some point. Don't hide your intentions, that's as Beta as it gets.

>>17756399
I'm serious, lol. Am I doomed to roaming tinder?

>>17754611
women: Are creepy guys just guys you personally find unattractive, or do they posses traits non-creepy people have?

>>17756398
Not really, no. For the record, with flirting I mean the strategic stuff, the game where you are basically teasing someone by showing your interest but not showing all your cards and making it obvious how serious/intense that level of interest is.

There are other ways to show interest that are more straightforward, like the stuff I mentioned: grabbing every chance to be around them, smiling a lot, singling them out to chat whenever you can, being extra enthusiastic about the stuff that they tell and laughing more easily around them etc. If you say flirting I think of the conscious playful stuff people do to signal interest and try to seduce or bait someone. That still leaves plenty of signs of interest that are not conscious flirting.

Also, it is usually not 100% one or the other. A guy who can't flirt to save his life normally can get a bit bold if he's had a few drinks, just to name something.

>>17756409
It all depends on the girl.

But that adage of unattractive guys are
more likely to be creepy is probably true. It's also about how you come off.

I had a guy approach me earlier this year and prefaced a compliment with "hey, not to be creepy, but I see you around a lot and you're really adorable." He was very obese and neckbeardy but it was a genuine compliment and I found it endearing instead of creepy.

To not be creepy, just be genuine and try to be considerate of others. Working on your appearance helps as well.

>>17756409
Dress like autists or like they're a kid, stare a lot, unshaven or bad hairstyle, poor personal hygiene, very awkward and not confident.

If you're wearing a t-shirt for a video game or anime, it's already over for you.

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>>17756407
>Also, you do want to give off at least some "I want Sex" vibe, unless you want to go directly to the friendzone with her.

i see, my bad. someone told me before that straight to the dormroom date may make me seem "rape-y", but i do want her to know i want her as more than a friend, but i dont want to try and sleep with her on the first date.

also i live on campus and far as hell from home so i dont have a car.

also shes international, and doesnt live on campus, so does that give off the "stay at my place vibe"? i dont want to seem crass or creepy, my intention was to walk her back to her car because she lives off campus.

also not 21 so i cant exactly take her to a bar :/

>>17755245
Ask your friend to set up a study date in your dorm/place you stay at, but then have him bail so just you guys can hang out. Try to finish up the studying and ask her if she wants to watch a movie or if you wanna go get something to eat (some place nice but not to pricey) after that. Ya know what wanna head back to my place you left your book there? Sure anon. Go back to your place and take her to pound town.

>>17756409
No. Some girls throw the word around way too casually, but the whole "if a hot guy does it then it's sexy, if an ugly guy does it then it's creepy" is a misunderstanding. Or well, of course it's a factor (a cute vivacious girl groping you would be different from a fat girl with no figure, right?) but it's not all there is to it by a long shot.

When a hot guy is flirting or talking with a girl then goes in for a bold move, he has seen her starry eyes, her breathless smile, how close she stands to him and how her body is turned to him. Without her saying anything he has gotten many signals that she's enjoying it and into him. Then he might go in for a surprise kiss, for example.

An ugly guy talking to a girl who is not into him will get unenthusiastic responses, she might be looking around or at her phone as much as at him, if she smiles it's just her regular everyday smile. There is no chemistry between them, no excitement in her. If the guy suddenly goes in for a kiss then that's weird and disruptive and makes her feel like he didn't care about whether or not she wanted it - wasn't it clear that she was in no way hinting at a kiss? Why would he still try to go for it despite that, does he not even register her human reactions/facial expressions etc? Is he just looking at her like a person with tits he can talk to for a bit then dive into?

Most of the time when girls find guys creepy, it's either because of some variation of the above (the guy not being in tune with the signals she gives him and seemingly disrespecting them) or it has to do with him giving off weird contradicting vibes because he's not confident about his delivery.

>>17755614
What are you talking about?
Dirnk some wine, loosen up, do what both of you seem to obviously want.
Because when people like each other , they fuck. They don't become friends. They don't write the next great feminist pamphlet together. They fuck.
So, to repeat the other Anon's advice in even simpler terms:
>Your place
>Drink
>Fuck

Girls

at what age did you start getting sexual thoughts and what was it usually about?

>>17756438
Not him but
>tfw my apartment is a shithole

>>17756392
If you're in college make/join a club about that stuff. A lot of people are into anime so its not super niche

>>17756435

I know confidence gets shat on a lot, but I like this example to explain it. Imagine a woman you just fucked rolling over, pressing her tits up against your chest, lazily grinning at you then purring in your ear "oh right, I should tell you, I lied about being on the pill and I'm going to take all your money, do you have a baby name in mind?" versus a woman telling you "h-heh imagine I totally lied about being on birth control hahaha I could take your money haha". First one is an obvious joke and could be a fun, relaxed and intimate moment. The second is fucking creepy.
People aren't magical mind readers. Think of how shy people get mistaken for arrogant people all the time. If someone is trying to boldly flirt with you but his nerves shine through, you sense that something's off and it can be hard to tell whether that's regular anxiety or him being off himself.
For more info on that see >>17756233

>>17756408
as far as I know, for extrovert videogame players you have to look at esports, like dota2 forum
Many of them are good looking, too, but the caveat is that these guys are usually swimming in pussies

>>17756412
I see, that's good for me I suppose. Time to take up drinking, it always helps me loosen up.

This is a weird question for girls. What do you think of guys that don't like pictures? I can't stand taking pics, selfies, belfies whatelfies nor seeing my face in them afterwards. I tried to avoid all sort of exposure with photos and have no facebook or any non obligatory media photos. In RL I'm normal, just a bit shy. Is that a turn off for anyone? I grew to dislike vain girls that can't stay a second without sharing what they are doing or whatever and can't unstick their eyes from their instagrams for a second.

>>17755647
Stop whining, every guy successfully hooking up on tinder is also straightforward af. Only point is that getting rejected a ton is unaviodable.
If you want to take the initiative like a guy does , just play the numbers game like all guys have to do as well.

>>17756451
I can compete with the female orbiters, haha. Not sure why this didn't occur to me since I mostly play PC games anyway. That's actually a really good idea, anon, thanks.

>>17756443
Sadly, I'm out of college. I'm 23 with a job at a tiny office so I don't get to meet many guys. I spend my free time either at home or a little bit of time at the gym currently but those guys aren't appealing to me.

>>17756469
You'd be my perfect guy, i can't stand pictures either. I haven't used my facebook in years.

A couple on occassion for myself to have around my flat is all I'd want and i never get girls who post pictures of their meals and shit and air their drama online

>>17755844
Nigga, you know that girl for three years and never made a move.
In her mind, you're a friend and never will be anything else. Chances are she liked you when you originally met, but that ship has sailed, and for good. If you have to guess whether she wants to fuck you or not, chances are she doesn't.
In the future, make your intentions clear right off the Bat and stop being Beta to avoid shit like this. You brought this on yourself.

>>17756504
L O N D O N
> girls who post pictures of their meals and shit and air their drama online
Me neither, I don't get the people that give that attention either. They are an as big mystery as the ones taking pics.

The only use of facebook for me is because people use the chat for a lot of stuff. But other than that I have 0 things.

>>17756419
pls if anyone can give further advice. its very early in our stage of knowing eachother, and i want to give the right signals/impressions/moods

>>17756478
Stop by a comic shop often to pick up guys if you are lucky. Do you mind me asking what city you're in?

>>17756441
I can top that
>tfw live with grandma until I get to uni, in a community college right now
At least she lives by herself, I think.
>>17756438
>>17756420
I took the bottle bang like a redneck thing literally because I never heard someone say that phrase. That said I guess since you're all saying to do a study date thing I'll plan that but if I can't do it at my place should I even try?

>>17756469
I am totally the same. Never liked pics of myself or taking pics of other people.
I take pics of things just when I am travelling, and never of myself anyway.

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>>17755966
>girl invites me to party
>go because it's time to man up and stop being a pussy
>have a few drinks, enjoy myself, she's making a lot of innuendo towards me
>I don't do much back, I don't know what to say
>She keeps telling me we should leave and go back to hers
>I don't really know how to respond
>Eventually we do anyway
>I haven't been flirting at all and I'm tired anyway
>Go to a seperate room
>What the fuck am I doing? I need to take action
>Send her a text
>A. FUCKING. TEXT
>She responds telling me to come see her if I need anything
>Alright I've got a second chance, man up man up man up
>Go to her room, knock on the door
>She answers, no pants on
>Did you want something anon?
>n-n-nothing
>she concerned for me, asks me if I want to go home
>n-no, see you in the morning
And then I didn't sleep for a whole week because I hated myself so much, I'm still constantly thinking about that interaction even though it happened weeks ago. I don't think I'll ever get a girlfriend. I don't think anyone can beat that.

>>17756528
Right now I'm near-ish to DC, but I might be relocating in a few months.

>>17756419
Go play mini golfing or Dave and busters with friends. Go to a friend's place for a get together and drink with her there.

>>17756504
>>17756515
Are you both me? I only keep mine around since it's the only way to stay in touch with friends. They have phones and could text or call but don't. It's honestly made me have two groups of friends: ones I text/call and see every week and ones that I see on occasion if I use FB.

>>17756417
>unshaven or bad hairstyle
Hey that's me, but I'm trying to grow it out rn.

>>17756535
If you're trying to fuck her then you're gonna need you place to set things up

>>17756541
Where to? NY, Chi, LA, San Diego, and San Francisco are all good big diverse cities that will definitely have events/places to met those kind of guys

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>>17756561
Oh.

Guess I can be content with friendship, I enjoy being around her aside from the infatuation, maybe I can control my urges.

>>17756419
It certainly isn't "rapey", but mainly because inviting her to your place is mostly code for "wanna fuck?" So if she agrees, she's most likely expecting you to at least try to bang her.
If that's not your plan, and you can't go to Bars yet (hehe Americuck) just going for a hike/walk , maybe a small picknick, mabe visit a local attraction or sth may be your best bet. Ideally, do something active together, like Minigolf or Rockclimbing. But whatever you do , make sure it's something you enjoy as well, and don't just do for the sake of a date.
Ideal is to take her along to something you'd enjoy doing on your own or with friends anways..

>>17756547
Holla if you aint touching facebook for the next year because of this election bullshit and all the shit your friends and family will be stirring with each other.

>>17756586
If you can, set the study date up at her place.

>>17756606
And then fuck her brains out when you get all your other study friends to bail

>>17756538
Next time womething like this happens, just tell her you're a virgin and have no Idea how any of this works. Maybe add that you dn't want to be presumtous or something, but it doesn't matter. Main point is that both you and her already know she wants to fuck, and that way she'll understand your problem and most likely be a bit more active in resolving it.
That way she probably just took your autism for profound disinterest or cowardice.

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Girls and guys

Have you ever had a girl who was almost like too sexual for you? This girl is literally texting me this right now. I like her a lot! She's really attractive! But, this is overwhelming..

>>17756538
I really don't know how people can be this fucking awkward.

>>17756615
>lowerback/ass
> /
That's not very charming

>>17756596
Im in the UK so I dont have to deal with election stuff, but instead I've got auntys i've never met posting pictures of clipart followed by bible quotes wishing everyone a "happy wonderful super birthday xxx kisses and hugs xxxx" that kinda crap.
Then I've got my parents neighbors who wanted to add me and keep asking what my parents are up to being nosy fuckers then shit like "oooh i saw you the other day with your mum when you visited her :-) your hair is getting long lol!"

i fucking hate social media

>>17756624

Lol

>>17756615
Guy here, tell her then. Both things, that you like it and that you're flattered, but that it's a bit much.

Maybe you can work your way up from something more comfortable for you? You haven't said if that's a dealbreaker or not for either of you.

>>17756615
Are you talking to a robot or someone with autism?

>>17756632

I mean I like it. But for someone like me, who is generally very inexperienced with sex. It's overwhelming. plus, I don't understand what it is about me that gets her so wet

>>17756615
At first I thought you were talking about a really slutty girl, but she seems sexually inexperienced judging by the text.

Honestly it seems like she needs a release.

But I understand how that would make anyone uncomfortable. Tell her you want to take it slower.

>>17756647
>but she seems sexually inexperienced judging by the text.

You think so? How come?

>>17756611
>Next time womething like this happens
lol, but thanks for the advice anyway. Maybe it'll be useful one day.

>>17756620
I have a lot of trouble with people, too much anxiety and spinelessness to develop real social skills.

>>17756606
I can possibly do that, didn't know it was an option.

>>17756610
>And then fuck her brains out when you get all your other study friends to bail
Haaa, she wants to study on Saturdays when the school's closed and seems to be okay with just studying with me so maybe we can make it happen with no study friends.

I like her and it's going to suck if she doesn't actually feel the same though.

>>17756645
Who knows man. I've had women chasing me before and all I could do was think "why" since I have no idea what I have to offer. One was also pretty psycho stalker too, she used to harm herself over me and tell me about it so it was some weird shit. I transferred to different classes in the end to avoid seeing her and she was forced to get help by friends and family.

That wasn't the first oddball either. I don't talk to people much or do much but whenever I met a girl, she just goes weird about me. All I want is someone normal.

>>17756651
>You think so? How come?

>"lower back/ass"

I wonder.

Women:

How much does stamina matter during sex? I have pretty shit stamina (a few minutes max). I've only had one gf before, who said she didn't mind and said, quote, "Stamina is a meme."
I'll toot my own horn and say that I do cunnilingus pretty well and can make women cum from it but I'm curious as to how much the actual fucking matters.

>>17756664

I don't get it..?

She just meant that General area

>>17756615
It seems like a robot

>>17756670
It's sex dude, it's about desire and lust not about being specific or correct. Reading that seems like reading a summary, and does not gives me wish to make love with her.

>>17756670
If you're trying to be sexy, you don't talk like that.

>Please insert your penis into my vagina and I will tense my vaginal muscles for the purpose of increasing pleasure and the probability of ejaculation

Matched with a tinder girl who has a mutual friend with me.
Thinking bout asking her out
Though maybe I should ask her to hang out with me and /our mutual friend/

Should I? Will that be a turn off for her?

>>17756675

I don't understand

Why has ghosting become an acceptable practice? When was simply telling someone you're not interested replaced with treating them like they're not human by ignoring them completely?

>>17756678

But she didn't say anything like that tho?

>>17756683
Or she doesn't know how to write well. Does she acts like that IRL?

>>17756666

Lovely quads. Don't worry about stamina, if you find a good person to have intimacy with and spend some time with them developing a decent connection, then you'll have all the stamina in the world, and hypocritically it won't matter.

BTW, I don't mean that you have to spend months of celibacy in order to find the right person because this can happen over a couple of hours. You're quite new to sex and it's perfectly normal to have bad stamina.

>>17756688
my name's not earl

>>17756683
>>17756687
You're both idiots and are made for each other. Seriously.

>>17756690
What?

>>17756688

she's just really smart. So she always uses correct words whenever she talks or texts

>>17756693

That's not very nice, anon..

To females, preferrably those with high standards:
Supposing there aren't any other flaws in look, would you date/sleep with a bald guy?
Would he have to have a 'tough' attitude?

>>17756695
>earl
>IRL
just a shitty joke based on the phonetic pronunciation of IRL and the tv series entitled 'my name is earl', sorry

>>17756702
>would you date/sleep with a bald guy?
It depends on the bald.

Are you hanging onto the scraps of hair? No.

Have you become comfortable with it and shaved it off completely for a Jason Statham look? Yes.

>>17756698
Well me too but >>17756678

Girls, why do you wear so much make-up? Are you too ugly without it?

>>17756615
im mildly autistic and i think this is cute. help me.

>>17756719

Well she also did say

>Id unzip your pants and lick your dick and then wrap my mouth all around it ;)

>>17756689
thank you for noticing my quads and answering my question

>>17756654
Spending long hours with someone is how most relationships start. If you guys really enjoy each other's company then you'll prob start dating soon or whatever relationship you want.

To females, preferrably those with high standards:
Supposing there aren't any other flaws in look, would you date/sleep with a bald guy?
Would he have to have a 'tough' attitude?

>>17756727
>milenials

>>17756645
Just fuck her

>>17756678
how would you phrase it?

>>17756727
where did you meet this type of woman? asking for a friend.

>>17756724
Imagine how it will look with tears streaming down her face.

>>17756701
Very true tho

>>17756702
Grow some hair you fuck

>>17756747
> you left your smell in my shirt, now I'm all day thinking about you, how about we meet later?
>I want to feel my skin next to yours, be inside you yada yada etc

>>17756702
Yes.
Boyfriend is bald. And I met him before he shaved, which is even worse than being bald - like, everyone sees you're losing your hair, just do something about it.
I don't like tough guys, they make me want to be a cunt and treat them awfully.
He's witty, smart and overall pretty hot. And he is genuinely kind and adorable. Best guy I've ever dated.

>>17756749

>>>/int/67343417

>>17756653
Well, even better would be overcoming your anxiety and try o make it happen yourself.
You'll have to solve your trouble with people sonner or later anyawys, and the longer you wait the more painful it'll be.
Be awkward as fuck, but ACT.
Don't fake it til you make it - instead , fail until you do.

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>>17756774
>meet khazak girl that wants to teach me russian
>send me pics of her hometown and shit
>stop talking, delet my accoutn because got tired
>months later she messages me on whatsapp asking if I had a girlfriend and telling she broke of with her boyfriend
>mfw

>>17756654
If she's actively trying to meet up with you alone, chances are she does. Just make a move when you do and find out, no other way.

>>17756733
She has said she wants to study more, I guess I can be a bit more forward/open with my feelings while just spending time with her like normal.

>>17756797
Before I do that, should I ask if she's single? I don't even know that but I obviously need to find out, she hasn't mentioned a love life at all.

Yesterday I bought some waxing(?) strips for facial hair and, being the impatient fuck i am, used them just right after getting home without even washing my face. Now i woke up with really small white zits around the corners of my mouth. Is this infection? Should i do something about it or will it go away by itself?

>>17756724
I barely wear any.

Is it possible for a person to be so busy with education to almost complitely neglect friends or a gf/bf?

>>17756839
Yes, especially if they're a med or STEM student, it's expected.

>>17756806
Doesn't matter. Do it if you want to.
She probably is, if she's not she'll tell you all by herself anyways.

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How bad is it that I deliberately not do assignments (and my grade drops) because they stress me out too much?

I have an oral presentation due in Spanish, but I fucking hate oral presentations (anxiety) and I hate Spanish. I've been teaching myself Japanese for years, and I don't want to learn another language at all. Instead of stressing out on how I should do this assignment, worrying about how everyone else is going to do their assignment, actually doing the assignment and memorizing two minutes of Spanish, I said fuck it and decided not to do it. It barely bothers me that I'll lose my A

>>17756858
That's a good point, I'd rather not have to awkwardly come up with a response if she says yes too.

>>17756869
I say you should at least half-ass it so you can keep your A.

In assignments like that if you at least complete it and follow the instructions you usually get at least a B.

>>17756884
Thread's gonna die but I'm texting her and man she's fast at getting back. Not asking for advice but it feels good.