anyone have scar tissue from being raped as a small child?
It tears every time I have sex. The problem is, I have nerve damage and can't really feel the pain from the tear, so I don't notice it immediately, thus more damage occurs.
I asked my gyn about it but she said she can repair the tear every time it happens but nothing can really prevent it.
I've taken to becoming celibate but it's taking its toll on me...
what do? :( Just get used to no sex?
Put it in your butt
>>17753554
>being raped as a small child
how big was his dick?
>>17753563
idk I was like 5 y.o. so it wouldn't have to be too big to cause irreparable damage.
>>17753560
Lol not an option. It's just as damaged, maybe even worse.
>>17753580
was he insecure about it?
>>17753590
yeah, you could tell he was a lil' nervous.
>>17753554
so sorry OP that is horrible. So I guess your gyn cannot refer you to someone that perhaps can remove the scar tissue?
>>17753586
He fucked your ass too?
>>17753603
She referred me to 2 different specialists for surgery but it's not looking too good.
>>17753554
Just let it remain torn. I'm sure the guys won't mind
Or get in touch with your first crush? That guy who took your V-card. He'd probably help out
>>17754400
why?
>>17753554
there's potentially advanced techniques involving silver ear & various oil compositions but I have not done enough testing to verify the merit of this treatment in this scenario but preliminary analysis is promising. possibly light suction cupping of area + aforementioned treatment could be effective?
>>17754412
I'm sure God made us in such a way that, if someone were to ravage our cute little holes as children, our bodies would be able to heal. Just have faith in our lord and savior.
My last girlfriend did. Lube kinda helped, as well as taking it slow to open her up. As in, a lot of foreplay. But she still bled, it didn't hurt her so we just saved penetration for days we really got into it and mostly stuck to hands and oral.
Sorry I cant help more. Hope it was something.
Geez. I'm really sorry to hear this.
I am by no means a medical expert, especially in this area. But I wonder if the procedure your gynecologist is talking about might be usable in conjunction wih something akin to a dilator. Post-op transwomen use them to prevent scar tissue from forming over the surgical site: instead, they guide the healing process into forming the structures one would expect. As horrendous as your case sounds, you probably don't have to deal with as much scar tissue in as many places as they do, so perhaps the technique, or something very like it, might work for you too. It may be something to talk with your doc about considering, anyway.
>>17753554
Can you explain.what you are talking about. Does sex hurt or not. What exactly is tearing.