Best friend and I have been arguing for a few months. Stopped

>>17752916
The very fact that you are so obsessed is shown because you are meticulously keeping track of who initiates conversation with who.

Just calm the fuck down. If she is a friend, you will hang out when you hang out.

It sounds, though, like you perceive a greater closeness than friendship.

It might help to drop the hostility and accept that she has more in her life than just you.

>>17752931
I appreciate the input but I don't agree. She has issues putting effort into friendships, relationships, etc so of course I'd notice if I was the only one of us two messaging the other. I expect some form of closeness because we've been best friends since high school, bar the last two months, but there's nothing more than that. I understand she has a lot going on but if she is the one saying she'll take time to see me how much leeway should I give her?

>>17752946
And I appreciate you not going into defense mode instantly and explaining the situation, however,

From my perspective you are not really acting like a male. It sucks to lose a friend but it can happen. Responding in the way that you are is only going to push her further away. It seems like you are being a parent rather than a friend.

If you have feelings for her, I totally get it.

Otherwise, deal with the pain and move on. Why get bitter over someone who isn't who you used to know?

>>17752956
Nah that makes sense and it's something I've been telling myself for a while but I wanted to give her another chance because she claims she's changed since we were arguing.

I used to have feelings but that ended when I found out she has no issues cheating on her boyfriends and is otherwise a toxic partner.

Thanks for the /adv/, buddy.

>>17752965
That's all it is, friend.

Advice. Take it or leave it.