When to ask the Q

Let it happen naturally. In my opinion it's too soon to make things official, not that it's some unspoken rule, I just don't make things official until there's some actual chemistry.

But in my experience a lot of girls want to be official within a month of dating. And I mean hanging out on a consistent basis.

>>17751561
Yeah, you're probably right. I think I'm just a bit concerned that she'll get the idea that I'm not interested in making it official and move on. She's extremely nice and outgoing and just seems like the type of person who doesn't stay single for long.

>>17751547

there is no right answer, and more often then not no matter which way its approached, its awkward.

when i wanted to ask a girl out, i invited her to dinner. we had dinner on the beach, reservation for sunset. We went to the pier after, played some games, i bought her a rose, then took her up on the ferris wheel. asked her if she would be my girlfriend. she said yes.

afterwards i walked down the side of the pier with her and 'just the way you are' came on (something I sang to her regularly) and we just danced on the sand.

but you can also just wait until she gets antsy and asks you 'what is tihs? what are we doing? where is this going?'

this is awkward for her, but you get to act all manly and just say 'you're my girlfriend'. and then she feels all silly and warm and wraps her arms around you all embarassed.

>>17751580

treat it like a relationship and she'll know whats up though. the issue is keeping it casual. treat it like a real relationship, have her spend too much time at your place, make her dinner, do the dishes together, etc.

>>17751547
I just got into a relationship after mustering up the courage to just flat out ask where this relationship is potentially going after we had been dating for a month. Sometimes straightforward works. I agree with >>17751611, no matter what you do, it will probably be an awkward topic to broach, but at least everyone is on the same page.