how do you guys deal with date jitters? I'm afraid I'm going to fuck it up
about to leave for my second date with this girl
Stay positive and don't think about it so much.
>>17748716
Deep breaths, my dude.
Fuck off.
>>17748716
Experience.
That is the only way really...
After your first two, three, four, five dozen first dates, you should probably lose them all together.
Eventually you realize that people are just people and that makes it so you realize hyping yourself up without knowing anything is pointless. A little more time after you realize jitters aren't a bad thing, they just meant you were excited for the potential of the person you're with (I personally completely lost first date jitters LOONG ago, but when i'd start to get a slight buzz of nervousness before a second or third date, that's when I KNEW that the person I was with had potential.)
>>17748716
have fun. jitters are what make romance good. those are the butterflies. its like watching a scary movie. adrenaline, sure. but the good kind.