LDR failure/help

>>17745405
Your explanation is as bad as your relationship. Learn to tell a coherent story.

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>>17745405
OP cont’d.
>Fight her on it.
>Got bad advice early that she wanted proof that I loved her.
>Told her I wanted to propose. We had talked about it but I told her how I’d have done it.
>It gets worse.
>Wreck of myself.
>Let my head go places it shouldn’t.
>Been cheated on in the past. Two long relationships I’d been in before ended when girl left for someone else.
>Got scared.
>Sent stupid text “When did you fall out of love with me.”
>Still not sure why. Combination of sadness and anger.
>Leave her alone for a few days.
>Call her and leave vm apologizing. Saying I think I understand what she’s looking for. And why.
>She texts me that I need to move on. She doesn’t see a future.
>Call her and tell her that’s bullshit. Ending in a text is fucked.
>She says she didn’t want it to be messy.
>Tell her she’s my best friend and I’m not trying to get back with her. Just want my friend back.
>She says she needs time.
>That was the last time we spoke.
>October 5.
>I called her and left a voicemail a week or two later.
>Nothing.
>I had bought us tickets to go to New York together in the summer.
>Told her to still go. Wanted her to see her best friend there and have a good time.
>Text her have fun. No response.
>She hasn’t said a thing to me in a month.

Did I fuck up, /adv? Did I poison the well because I couldn’t let go at first?

>got dumped and threw a fit about it
you don't need any advice

>>17745414
10/4 thanks for the help

tfw this is literally me, last time I spoke to her was October 9th, 3 years down the shitter.

Long distance relationships don't work out, especially when there's downtime / time when either person isn't busy all the time. Same shit happened with me, just have to move on. Sorry :(

>>17745410
You sound like a clingy mother fucker man. Leave her alone. It's up to her to contact you again.