I can't imagine a woman liking me?

Work on yourself before you even think of loving someone else. It will require you to be brutally honest about every facet of your life and then check them off one by one.

Lets start broad:

Health
Finances
Social relationships

>>17744402
I used to think that. It simply isn't true. If you are decent, moderately well-adjusted sort of man, you will eventually encounter someone who is definitely into you.

>>17744402
Stop hiding your power level and embrace what makes you, you (within reason, of course). Women appreciate honesty. Those who don't are slags you should avoid anyway.

I feel the same but it's mostly because of my hideous, goofy face and my hunchback.

>>17744402
I used to think exactly like that as well. The feeling disappeared after I got a girlfriend. It didn't disappear instantly but after a few months or maybe a year it did. I mean, I don't know how to convince you that you're wrong. I think you'll just realize you'll eventually meet someone. I used to think I'd never meet anyone and it felt impossible for me to have a girlfriend, now I can see it's bullshit. It probably has to do something with you not having a girlfriend yet and therefore being ignorant of what a relationship is exactly. Don't worry my mate, you'll find someone.

>>17744427

I am not even sure what makes me, me anymore. I gotta do some thinking I guess. My personality just seems to be kind of like this "Meld into whatever is going on at the time and seem forgettable"

Like people can't even remember if I was at a party or not and they were there too or something.

>>17744450
I used to think like you when I was in a relationship. Now I'm single again and mostly thinking like OP. I'm so used to women not liking me the idea of one being mutually attracted to me is inconceivable.

>>17744464
Hm, that's strange. Feels like I wouldn't think like that if I ever lost my girlfriend, but of course I can't be sure. Why do you think that way? You had a relationship already and mutual attraction.

I ask anon to go into depth about his health, finances and social relationships, he ignores it.

The guy doesn't want help. Wants to be a fag getting drowned in his sorrow.

>>17744474
My relationship with my ex was complicated. I oftentimes had trouble getting into the moment, either due to paranoia or some other kind of stress. I also had a reading porn addiction that I've hopefully tamed. Won't know until Rhee next relationship.

I'm mixed Asian, but only perceived as Asian by society at large. The country where I live, being Asian and male is associated with:
* Small penis (not true, I'm average. Go look up Keni Styles, male Asian porn star)
* Nerdy
* Passive/unassertive
* Unromantic
* Cuturally ignorant (to what's in)
* Social ineptitude
* Forever foreign
* Long Duk Dong
* William Hung

>inb4 Go to an anime con
I don't want to be fetishized. I want to liked based on my own merits.

>>17744477

I didn't realize you were asking me.

Health wise I am okay. Not in the best shape but I use to go to the gym pretty often but stopped once I graduated college.

Finance wise I am okay. Mostly just got student loans to pay back.

Social relationship wise is whats shitty. I just don't have the motivation to go places when my friends ask. My brain draws no pleasure from it. Its strange.