Hey /adv/, My gf has been pushing me to try some new activities

>>17740290
I mean if you want to try it. But you could always just become a kinky ass dom and pin her next time she asks

>>17740290
You are basically me. I've been with my girlfriend for 8 years and still wouldn't let her do this. There is only one good reason to allow it, but too many potential risks that you listed.

Only do it if you get to bring 1 more female then

She asked you to get fucked in the ass. Are you really worrying about her not seeing you as a man?
If you're worried about her telling her friends, just ask not to tell.

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>>17740290
No, but I wouldn't if I were you. It seems a way to assert her dominance. Also, she gets nothing from it aside from stroking her own ego, which can reflect on her being dominating towards you outside of bed.

>>17740304
Until she betrays him or brings it up in conversation to give him shit. Don't listen to this anon, women cannot be trusted.

>>17740301
So I actually asked my gf about getting a threesome in return and she told me we could, but I can only go down on the other girl or also get assfucked by her.

I'm not sure it's worth it, and I'm pretty sure she would tell whoever the other girl is about what I did to earn the threesome.

She already considers you weak. For some men it is very stimulating, for some not at all. Do what you want with your life and don't give in to other people's requests. If you want her to see you as a man, do what you want to do and don't care about complaints and oppinions.

>>17740313
Your gf is not trustworthy, OP. She will absolutely view you as less of a man. My advice is that you should degrade, abuse, and otherwise just hatefuck the shit out of her next chance you get to show her her place in the world and relationship. Seek only your pleasure and make her satisfaction secondary. I regret that I won't be able to savor her delicious tears.

>>17740307

She's a little dominant in bed (we usually do cowgirl, which is great because I am lazy) but she says she just likes watching guys get fucked. I know she watches a lot of gay porn.

Check out seductiveinstinct aka Arash Zepar Dibazar on YouTube.

NO.

DO. NOT. LET. HER. TREAT. YOU. AS. A. WOMAN.

That's fucked up, bro. I've had a colonoscopy. I don't care if I was beating my meat like it owed me money, there's nothing nice about things in your ass. Worse, in sexualizing it, you're handing off power to her in a completely submissive way, but not even like BDSM submissive- this is worse. In S&M shit, the submissive maintains the power by having a veto vote.

Look, if you're OK with never being able to look her in the eye as an equal again, go to it. There's permanent consequences to it, though, and you'll have to spend the next however long wondering if she'll tell someone if she gets angry enough. Which she will eventually.

Also, if her conditions in having a threesome are that you get to do some extra work, but get no extra pleasure, that's selfish, bro, and a waste of your time. She'll get the fun. You get to be her caddy, I guess.

Jesus.

>>17740320
I don't think this is possible without committing rape.

I make her sound like sort of a bitch but she's actually pretty great. Like, she will get pissed off if I try to push her head down or fuck her face, but she gives great head if I let her do it at her own pace.

>>17740327
OP just dominate the fuck outta her

>>17740327
Oh okay I see now. Just keep her in check when she tries to be too cocky on you.

>>17740339
No, you made her sound how she is - which is a bitch. She sees you as weak and you are taking it like a chump. If she truly wants to try new things and not just demean you, she won't mind you asserting yourself as a man in the bedroom.

Get another woman. Red flags are all over the place. You can do whatever you want with your life, obviously, but one thing is for certain: you will be absolutelly miserable. Our ancestors did not build pyramids and explore and conquer the world, for you to be indecisive, insecure, and get literally fucked by a woman. Choose right now: do you want to conquer, make love, give the world new ideas and see beyond what most people dream of, or do you want to be someone's pet for the rest of your life, living like a microbe. You have infite potential. Fat, anorexic, guilty, pure, you cantransform, revolutionize yourself and become the best version you can possibly be. Even transcend the Gods... All you have to do, is clear your mind, take control, and go for what you want.

>>17740371
It's not like she's demanding I do this or she'll break up with me. I can stay with her and say no, and she's been a pretty good girlfriend.

>>17740290
Also, if she has bitchy friends there's a reason for it (I am implying your girlfriend is also a bitch)

>>17740386
You are such a pussy, OP

Let's explore the facts:
>Girlfriend wants to fuck you like a woman
>Girlfriend is negotiating for a threesome in which you get nothing out of it
>Girlfriend has "bitchy" friends who you imply would find out which suggests she would tell if she were mad enough, wanted to humiliate you enough, or just felt it would be fun
>Girlfriend gets upset when you try to dominate her in bed
>Girlfriend admits that she watches male on male porn

Things I can infer
>Girlfriend talks mad shit about you to her friends which is why they are bitchy to you
>Girlfriend sees you as weak enough to actually try this shit meaning she has no respect
>Girlfriend is testing to find your limits. Next she will ask for you to watch her fuck some dude or have an "open" relationship
>OP is a faggot

>>17740426
At least I have a girlfriend. You probably just have your waifu pillow.

Is there no one here who's actually tried this and can give me advice?

>>17740438
Not him, but you've been given plenty of advice you fucking faggot. No wonder your cunt of a girlfriend doesn't respect you.

You know what, let your girlfriend fuck you in the ass deep and hard. In fact, maybe invite her gay best friend to do it for you. I am sure that it won't come back to decimate you both socially and in regards to your self confidence.

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>>17740290
Don't do it, do you want to be this guy?

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OP doesn't even know he's being a cucked bitch by his own woman.

Does that make OP his own step-bitch?

OP, seriously, Stahp. You take one plastic strap on dick in the buttpipe voluntarily, that's just shameful, and even if you're not masculine enough to know this, can't you at least consider that this is a really, really bad idea?

>>17740386
Have you fucked her up the ass?

>>17740455
I'm not getting cucked, we spend all our time together and we have lots of sex.

>>17740471
I have not. It's not something I've ever had a strong desire to do. I'd rather watch her fool around with another girl, but I guess I could ask for this in exchange if it will make us more equal.

>>17740496
OP is in denial. Have fun getting fucked by Jamal, OP

>>17740506
That's not happening. My gf is actually pretty racist.

When did /adv/ turn into /r/TheRedPill?

Nothing gay about assplay.

>>17740496
Reciprocity and all that. I'd do her ass if she wants to do yours. If she wants the threesome where the other girl fucks your ass, you get to fuck both of theirs. Seems simple to me

>>17740438
Why not ask her to take a bit of a smaller step into this rather than going full on face down, ass up and pounded into the mattress with a rubber dick?

I would love to do this to my boyfriend, but I also believe in building up to it. Assuming she doesn't have incredibly tiny lady hands, she should be able to reach your prostate with just her fingers and one of two fingers might be a nicer first step than a dildo reaming your hole.

If it turns out to be enjoyable, move it up to something a bit more intense then.

I'd say I'm surprised how many insecure posters are in this thread, but looking at the posts to posters count, it seems like it's just a couple.

>>17740531
OP, I'm sorry you have had to deal with these insecure ass stains that can't separate self-respect from what they enjoy

It sounds like you're looking forward to it, and if you are, you'll look much less manly if you decide not to do it because you're worried about what she and her friends think. Your needs first, brother. As long as you keep that in mind and don't put up with any of her unreasonable bullshit outside the bedroom, you'll be fine.

Your gf sounds awesome and I wish I had someone just like her. Don't forget to use lots of lube and foreplay.

>>17741017
>>17741040

Thanks.

She said we will start off with a little vibrating toy she bought to work me up to it before she gets a strapon.

>>17741439
I hope you enjoy it. I don't even have a prostate and I think anal is enjoyable.

Turnabout is fair play. If she isn't willing to take it up the ass, herself, you're well within your right to say no and should avail yourself of that. Receptive partner in charge. Seen too many trauma patients in toxic shock because their "loving" partner just jammed it in and started pounding. Women and men, all types. Before allowing it to go this far, evaluate where this relationship is going. If good sex is result of communication, then communicate.

You could do the one-time try it and just never go back. Experimenting is what couples do.

I'm a hetero-leaning pansexual/bi male. There's nothing wrong with having some self preservation--women do it all the time about men. If she's a total dom throughout the relationship, then you might want to step back and consider if you want to continue being in a relationship with her. If she's just a dom in the bedroom, but submissive otherwise that's different --but this doesn't sound like the case.

Again, try to figure out where her mind is at. Communicate. She might just be into gay guy porn like guys are into lesbian porn. Hell, she might really be a freak and really like it up the ass in which case you're lucky.
Gotta say, though, her friends not liking you is a *really* bad sign. Like, "near the end of the relationship" bad. Tends to mean she's bad-mouthing you behind your back.

I can't tell you anything from the standpoint of your fragile masculinity, but i can tell you it feels extremely good.

Tfw no gf to stick her tongue down your boyhole then tenderly fuck it with a vibe

>>17742504
I'd tongue fuck you.
I wish my boyfriend was into this...

>>17740290
Disregard all the negativity.

There is only one truth in the matter and that is sex.

So the male was blessed with a prostate and not many people will actually use it for sexual pleasure, the same way lots of girls never cum or get their g-spot rubbed because the guy is beta.

Scenario 1:
You agree to it (And get your threesome)
In the case that she tells anyone, its a simple case of he-said-she-said and you can just come up with some humiliating acts that she alledgedly "did".

You like it and you can continue down this path. Your gf may become more Dom and it could blossom into an S&M thing if you are lucky.

Scenario 2:
You agree to it but dont like it. Same as above, no real proof and you dont need to do it again.

Scenario 3:
You dont do it.
Well thats that. Nothing changes. Your gf may find it wierd that you arent being open with her. And you may need to have a talk about your respective fetishes to try and find a sweetspot.