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I am a male and totally not comfortable with being nude or having few clothes on. I recently found out some people sleep entirely nude! Like no underwear(wtf?). Even a lot of women sleep nude.

I am trying to understand why? Why sleep nude? Why be nude besides to shower and I guess have sex. Being nude has no purpose.

Am I a weirdo? I usually sleep fully clothed besides like having sox on but normal I am in sweat pants and a long sleeve shirt for sleeping wear.

I can't imagine sleeping nude. What if someone invades your home? You can't fight them naked. What if you are a naked woman? The invader may even rape you now.

Help me understand people who like being nude.
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>>17737283
You haven't experienced bliss until you've slept as a naked fully-shaved woman under silk sheets.
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It's more comfortable.
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It's sensual, you feel all the sheets against your bare skin, and it's a different kind of heat if there's no fabric between yourself and the rest of the bed.
There are also many people who feel free or in a positive manner aware of their body when naked.

Of course you can fight someone naked, you're even harder to hold onto. And if someone wants to rape you, do you seriously think the difference is whether you're already naked or not?
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I don't like sleeping nude because it makes me actively think of my dick since it's not suspended anymore, I'd imagine it'd be the same with tits for women
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If you invaded someone's home, would you be expecting a naked man with a baseball bat to come charging at you? Would you even try to fight him?
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I used to think like you but one day something clicked and I sleep naked most of the time, I often walk around the house naked, play video games naked etc.
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>>17737334
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>>17737334
People who walk around naked are worst than Satan. Fuck you.

Also, if it were up to me, I would have sex with women fully clothed.
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>>17737301
100% this.
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>>17737334
This, nothing beats the feeling of freedom while doing your favorite stuff at home, plus, if you go to the bathroom you don't need extra steps
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You have to be 18 to post on this site.
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>>17737283
I think a lot of this is cultural.
Did you run around naked as a little kid? Then you probably feel comfortable that way.
If your family was strict about clothing, then you probably feel more comfortable clothed.

The funny thing is that people get all moral about it when the reason for clothes is 100% climate.

Further north & colder? More clothes. Equator regions? Less clothes.
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I sleep naked so long as my dog's sleeping in another room. That I'm not comfortable with.

But sex? Everything has to come off.
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>>17737283
it's comfy
i have no problems showing my fat saggy gross body off
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>>17737417
You got a problem with your dog?
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>>17737417
>not wearing knee socks during sex
Nigga you missing out
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>>17737425 lolololol

I don't like being naked when my dog's around. Like, even getting out of the shower. Ew get away.
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>>17737435
Sounds like you've had a bad experience with a dog...?
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I sleep naked for a medical reason, I'm very prone to yeast infections. The more often I wear clothes, and the more clothes I wear, the more likely I am to get one. So this means naked whenever possible and no underwear whenever possible. Ideally I'd also wear skirts but no.
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>>17737283
women that sleep nude are disgusting. i can understand bra and underwear if you live alone though. but women have secretions from the vagina so if you arent wearing an underwear then its disgusting. men dont have to wear shit.
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Recent science suggests that spending more time without a bra keeps your breasts more perky. The connective tissue starts to degrade if it's not used. It's mostly age and pregnancy that causes sagging (not breastfeeding, actually, it's the hormone relaxin, which is released in late pregnancy and loosens the connective tissue to allow the hips to expand), but it's suggested that always wearing a bra.
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>>17737521
*that always wearing a bra makes it worse.
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>literally no one in the thread has pointed out that naked with another naked human being is objectively the best way to sleep
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i totally love walking around my house butt ass naked with dick to the wind
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>>17737457
They also have labia and the secretions aren't runny like saliva, they don't actually leak.

Not to mention men can leak precum or have wet dreams so your logic makes no sense.

And
>wearing a bra while you sleep
way to ruin your tits.
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>>17737283
>Am I a weirdo?
yes
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>>17737283

>What if someone invades your home? You can't fight them naked.

Speak for yourself. I'll fight naked any day.
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>>17737283
Think of it this way: why wear clothes if you're not cold?
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>>17737334
The ultimate freedom.
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You could also argue that clothes are unnatural
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>>17737301
>as a naked fully-shaved woman under silk sheets
I support that idea, though not as a woman, but sleeping with one is still good enough

>>17737283
I sleep on only underwear or maybe pajama shorts, couldn't sleep otherwise due to the heat
and who fucking cares if someone come in? seriously how many times that already happened to you?
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>>17737360
> ur_gay.jpg
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>>17737417
>But sex? Everything has to come off
I disagree with here, I find clothes quite erotic, specially if they're actually sexy/lingerie
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I don't sleep naked, but I sleep in a tshirt and underwear. Leggings in winter when it's cold.

>What if someone invades your home? You can't fight them naked.
I live in a safe area, and not alone. The chances of this happening are next to none.

>What if you are a naked woman? The invader may even rape you now.
If the invader was going to rape me, having clothes on wouldn't have stopped them. Clothes aren't some sort of anti-rape barrier. In fact, many people blame certain clothes AS the reason for rape.
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>>17737283
I sleep nude my house was broken into about ten years ago. I interrupted a very surprised burglar with about 600 lumens and my swinging cod. Who gives a shit?
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>>17737301
>Being a woman and shaved makes the sheets THAT much more comfortable!
How would you know if you've never been a man?
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Don't worry, anon, you're not alone. My discomfort in being naked in my own home probably somewhat stems from having had serious body image problems in my teenage years, but now in my later twenties and recovered, I still don't like being naked even alone in my own home. Aside from sex and showering, the most I may have off is to sleep in underwear during the summer.

My boyfriend is the exact opposite. He's constantly naked at home and pretty much never puts clothes on unless he needs to leave. I don't understand it at all.
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>>17737420
Pics?
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>>17737283
>What if someone invades your home? You can't fight them naked.
In the ancient Greek Olympics all the sporting events, including wrestling, were done nude. If it was good enough for them...
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>>17737891
>How would you know if you've never been a man?
speaking as a man myself,
completely nude is not that good since, balls and penus dangle and entangle sometimes...
and woman generally have less bodyhair and softer skin
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>>17737283
idk, I mean I'm in no way shape or form confident in my body, but even I'm ok with just myself. Being nude and alone is not even something that really concerns me.

I cannot sleep with clothes on really, I toss and turn too much, I end up like choking myself with a shirt on. I can sleep ok with shorts on, but I typically do not like the feeling of tight clothes and if they're too baggy I get similar issues with it wrapping around.
I don't seep in a bra though for a specific reason, and that's because I've actually broken way too fucking many twisting and turning in my sleep and bras aint cheap. I do however, always sleep with panties, just because the nature of the vag means shit's seeping out of it at all times in some amount. My blankets and possibly sheets would come in contact with it eventually as I tossed and turned. Panties just save me from feeling like I have to do my sheets every damn day.
>What if someone invades your home?
Honestly I'm just not that paranoid. I know the likely hood of someone breaking into my house is so minuscule.
>You can't fight them naked
Says who? If anything it increases my chances of getting away, because they have nothing to grab and pull while I'm running.
>The invader may even rape you now.
Chances are they were gonna rape me anyway. Rape statistically doesn't really happen like that, usually if they're gonna do it, it was already a goal. They can decide to rape me even if I'm clothed too.

But there's nothing wrong with sleeping with clothes on either. Just whatever's more comfortable to you.
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>>17737891
I doubt that being a woman helps except for dick dangling, but yeah being shaved makes a huge difference. Shave your legs and put them on something soft if you don't believe me.
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>>17737627
Dude I'm an outie with almost 2 inch labia and I still leak. And no, I have no STDs or infections, I've seen a doctor many times due to insecurity.
But I'm also a freak of nature so I can still see your argument. Just depends on the chick, but I'm personally with the op on that, I wouldn't ever go without panties because then I'd be doing way too much laundry. But I'm with you in the sense that no, not every chick is gonna leak that badly.
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>>17738048
I was referring to the outer labia, I don't think the inner ones do much to keep fluids inside... but honestly I'm only realizing now that I also have a full grown bush and sleep half on my side so neither of that will hurt with leakage. Still I can wake up very wet from dreams without any stains (and I'm an outie too for the record, none of that clam pussy which I reckon is most effective for keeping everything inside).

I mean, periods still wreck the sheets of course but that's a whole different realm.

>I've seen a doctor many times due to insecurity
Heh, vaginas are just pretty freestyle, I remember googling once whether reddish discharge meant something bad only to read that it can come in pretty much all colors and only black was alarming. Not sure if I recall it correctly now but basically, a lot of weird stuff without anything being seriously wrong.
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Actual health reasons behind sleeping naked.

Your body needs to cool down before you sleep so if you're wearing clothes, it takes longer for you to fall asleep.

Also if you're cold when you sleep, your own body will use more energy to stay warm which helps to having a better sleep and even contributes to weight loss.
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>>17738071
Yeah I keep myself rather trim, and I don't get periods anymore since I use the pill to skip them so I don't worry about that much. But I'm just a rather moist chick I guess. I guess its not so much as I'm "dripping" or anything, but its just that my blankets and shit are going to touch my crotch eventually, as I said here >>17738038. It's not so much staining I guess that would bother me, it's more the mental knowledge of knowing "oh, my crusty dried up puss juice could be on this blanket somewhere and what if it's near my face" lol.

>I remember googling once whether reddish discharge meant something bad
Lmao I wish someone would have told me that sometimes discharge can be acidic enough to bleach panties. I thought I was a damn mutant.
But yeah, I know vaginas are just kinda weird and gross in my opinion. No one vagoo is the same, and there could be absolutely nothing wrong with that.
I've just seen a lot of doctors over it's appearance because I'm not happy with it mostly. I've been considering labiaplasty for a long time but I'm probably never going to do it out of being too chicken shit of the possibility of it going wrong.
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>>17738139
Yeah I guess maybe it's just the cushion of my pubes, but then again those are not wet on the outside either, just very near the opening. Or maybe you sleep more flatly on your stomach or back than I do?

Haha no I totally get not feeling as comfortable with the idea of lying in your own juices.

>acidic enough to bleach panties
It's always the cute ones too, never the ones that were unsightly to begin with...

I might be biased because I'm not really against the idea of doing something with a woman but I actually think pussies are a lot cooler than they get credit for. They are soft, warm, produce personal lube according to how horny you are (that's just fucking sexy), discreetly hide any arousal in public, and are more often generous with multiple orgasms than penises. I also think (though you can't ever be certain of course) that being penetrated, literally accepting someone into your own body, is a psychologically more intimate experience than penetrating someone else. I mean, again, it's hard to be sure but I have at least read some accounts from gay men saying that getting fucked is more intense mentally than fucking someone else, literally hits closer home.

Either way, sorry to hear you feel that way about yours. I don't want to tell you that it's nonsense to be insecure or that you can't feel that way about it or whatever... it's only natural to be horrified at the idea that someone would be put off by that most intimate bodypart of yourself. But in case you do opt against a surgery and try to make peace with yours, please don't forget that you're a package deal and no one is going to judge your vagina like it's a sample for a production line.
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>>17738197
I feel that people often fall into the trap of selectively comparing themselves to others... while there is no woman walking around who has exactly your qualities and attractive features and also a marzipan little slit. You don't have to compete with anyone like that. You only have to be worthwhile to another human exactly as you are, with every last thing that you have to offer. And if someone falls for all of that, hard, then your vagina (as the place that allows him to be closer to you physically than anything else, the part that gives you sexual pleasure) is hardly going to be judged impersonally and objectively.

Either way best of luck!!
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>>17738197
Hah, yeah I think its just a difference in mentality/perspective. I for one find nothing arousing or enjoyable about penetration, instead I actually find it terrifying. But I think it's also the insecurity talking, it's likely that the idea of being that intimate with someone in general is whats terrifying to me than anything else.
I don't really question my gender or sexual identity in any way, but damn I wish I had a dick lol. I just think they get the better deal all around, especially since I get to have one of the rare "nearly non existent orgasm" vaginas. My orgasms are so lack luster, if they even happen at all, I'd trade the ability to have 2-3 moments of "eh yeah cool I guess." for one big explosion any damn day. Plus clean up is easy with dicks. Vags you just gotta sit around and wait for it to all seep out. And theres the obvious that sex is just inherently less risky for guys. Even pregnancy aside, dudes are less likely to receive STDs compared to women due to the nature of penetrative sex. Just because, typically, a man is not consuming much of a woman's fluids as she is his.
Just kinda envious I guess, but still I'm happy being a woman in basically every other way.

Yeah I get its likely because I'm young, and the dudes I'm getting with are young, but I have legitimately been rejected on 3 separate occasions just for the look I'm rocking. My first actually mentioned after we broke up he was disappointed his first was an outie, but he was 17 when he said that so I like to cushion my ego by brushing him off as being young an immature. However even still in college I've had a few partners that I could just tell were obviously put off.
And I know being on 4chins doesn't help either. Idk, I just get the feeling the general consensus is that most dudes at least prefer innies, even if its not like they hate outies or anything. And especially being as long as I am, I mean I get it, it looks like I've got some micropenis hanging out down here.
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>>17738275
Hmm, you seem to have the same as me, except I 'm a male, but I never got aroused by sex, only by nudity, sex is disgusting to me.

Maybe we're asexual.
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>>17738275
I don't like penetration either and I 'm male. I never got aroused by sex, only nudity, I just think sex is disgusting.

I 'm hetero but asexual too I guess
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>>17738440
A lot of people tell me that when I say I don't like penetration and it kills me every time. Being Asexual means you don't like sex. Period. But that's not me. I just don't like that specific /form/ of sex. I love oral, I love grinding and dry humping a lot. Hell I fucking absolutely love giving handjobs, I can play with dicks all day.
Even if I don't orgasm, I still enjoy the ride to some degree. The build up is fun too, I suppose I do enjoy the closeness and bond that sex gives between two people, even if I'm scared of that actual physical connection of piv. Because I'll admit, when it comes to sexy times, I'm all about my partner. I mean, yeah I want to be involved too to some degree, but I don't really care about him getting me off or doing much to me. But I wouldn't be happy if I wasn't getting to see him happy. Little hypocritical I guess, perhaps I need a dude who's just a little selfish. I've also found it annoying with one of my ex's who was too focused on making me orgasm, when I'm just not capable of doing it 9 times out of 10 even when it's just me. I could tell he was disappointed when he couldn't "make me cum" or whatever, so eventually I started faking it to make him happy. Probably shouldn't have in hindsight, but it was easier than trying to explain to him, and more importantly get him to believe me, that I just do not orgasm hardly ever and it has nothing to do with how much or little effort he put into it.
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>>17738474
Ah I understand, I 'm not sure if I would like other forms, but these generally disgust me too, I don't like porn movies because when they begin with sex it makes me feel sick and I turn it off.

With some people I can bond, but I feel guilty when thinking about sex/nudity etc in relation to a girl I know as I don't want to see them as sexual objects but as people, with one girl online with whom I had contact I broke all contact as I felt sick of myself seeing her like that.

I have a bit trouble to bond though as I have difficulty opening myself up to people in real life and I don't have good experiences with people.
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>>17738523
Idk man, I'm not going to try to dictate your sexuality to you or anything, but you don't really sound asexual to me, rather you seem to just have some serious hang up, for lack of a better word, about it.
Like, I enjoy sex acts, but that doesn't mean I'm seeing him as my own living dildo or anything. I'm still seeing him as a person even while I'm jacking him off. Having sexual thoughts towards a person is not inherently dehumanizing them, I think the difference is instead on whether or not you care about their feelings or well being. Like would you want this person in your life still after you've fucked them? No, you couldn't care less now that you've gotten your dick wet? Yeah, maybe you just saw them your own personal fucktoy. But even if you aren't going to date them or anything, if you still have any sort of connection or interest in them now that you've banged, you're not dehumanizing them.
But idk, again you know yourself better than me, but if I were you, I'd keep an open mind. Sounds like you have issues more with people than sex, and maybe have some weird guilt associated with sex for whatever reason.
To my knowledge though, asexuals just don't have any of that sexual desire. They don't feel guilty about thinking about people in sexual ways because they don't think about people in sexual ways to begin with. I think you've just got some personal biases and self esteem issues though. Either way though, hope you can work past it all and be happy mate.
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>>17738556
Do I care aboit their feelings and well being? Yes. And I feel that that gets ruined by sexuality in some way, it feels disgusting to see people who I know or like in a sexual or nude way as it feels like I 'm invading their personal space in that way, and I know how important privacy is.

I don't want to get my dick wet in the first place as it feels dehumanizing to me using them for sex.

I stopped watching porn for some time, as it felt horrible to me thinking about what its like for a woman if somebody only looks at you in that way, but I experienced that it is unhealthy to completely stop and it automatically comes back, due to testosteron I guess.

I 'm autistic so I don't thinm that any woman would be interested in me in that way anway... I also have experienced terrible things in my teenage years which make me not trust people in real life.
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"What if someone invades your home? You can't fight them naked"


watch the film eastern promises you daft cunt
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>>17738604
I feel ya, but again, having sexual desires for someone is not always dehumanizing them. Unless you're seeing a nude picture of someone without their knowledge or something, you're not invading their privacy. They're willingly showing you, inviting you into their lives.
As for the porn thing, I mean women watch porn too. I know I do, hell I even have a bit of a kink for things like BDSM.
Even porn stars get real boyfriends from time to time who love them. Wanting to have sex with someone doesn't mean that's /all/ you want from them, or the /only/ way you look at them. It's just another part of the larger picture.
Regardless, you do you. If you never want to have sex, that's perfectly fine. But don't beat yourself up over normal feelings, I just see a lot of self loathing outta ya, you don't have to feel guilty for liking porn or finding women sexually attractive. I've gone through some shit myself, which made me repress sex and feel bad about liking it too, but it really does feel a lot better to come to terms with it and feel ok with it than to constantly feel dirty or like you're committing some horrid crime.
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>>17738627
Yeah, sometimes I don't know where a pic comes from, but usually when I find a picture of a girl here on 4chan attractive but read that their Facebook etc. is given too, I feel like it was done with malicious intentions and I don't "use" it as that feels bad.

I 'm in a similar situation as A. Todd, the only difference is that in my case it weren't nude photos and I didn't commit suicide like her. I also don't know if I would.
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>>17737283
I used to sleep in the nude when I was in college. A girl suggested it to me. It does have a nice feeling, but I produce a lot of precum, so it could get messy. I can't sleep nude anymore because I have a urine leakage problem. In fact, this makes being nude at any time awkward for me.

Have you ever tried it, anon?
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>>17738627
In A. Todd the A standx for Amanda, but 4chan sees that name as spam.
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>>17738129
Citation needed
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>>17737360
>Also, if it were up to me, I would have sex with women fully clothed

How....would that even work?
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>>17738679
Just search health benefits to sleeping naked and you'll find a plethora of results. I'd show you bit I'm on my phone at work on break so you'll have to do the leg work.
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