Relationship "what's my status with this woman" advice

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I've had a crush with this girl since high school, I think she probably knows this, but that aside, we hangout every so often usually in group settings, but sometimes only us.

when it's only us it she'll bring up more intimate subjects (sexual stuff, her personal life) and visit more intimate/romantic places (roof tops, overlooks) and she'll flirt with me a bit more, but if I try to flirt back, I get just to the feeling with her that something exciting might happen, and than she'll act like she's really questioning it than back off, happened that way about twice now

What I find most angering in is that she'll move heaven and earth to spend time with one of my buddies who's a broke college party boy, who's confessed to me tons of times that he doesn't want a relationship with her, doesn't really like her at all, and just uses her.

It's really just sad, I find her so interesting, and funny, and generally just such a great person that i truly enjoy spending time with her. And she'll blow me off for a guy who won't even talk to her in the morning after he fucks her.

and it's not like I'm some neckbearded basement dweller (no offense)

I'm a seriously fit, fun guy, who has a lot of exciting hobbies with a great well paying and attractive career.

I just don't get it, I can't understand it, and I think that's what really hurts me the most.

Any comments?

Feels good to let it out.