Everytime I go out with a friend, he gets drunk, gets alot of girls and numbers and hooks up alot. I try doing the exact same and girls just get creeped out by me. I don't know if its a confidence thing because I usually feel pretty relaxed
I dont like being a creepy guy anymore.
How do I change?
>>17736041
>I try doing the exact same and girls just get creeped out by me
You're going to have to be more specific than that. If you want answers to your problem you have to give us some information to go off of.
>>17736041
>How do I change?
What do you do that turns people off you?
>>17736048
I have no idea. I'm trying to gain some insight by getting high and meditating but nothing much is coming to mind. I don't consider myself unconfident or anything
>>17736088
>I'm trying to gain some insight by getting high and meditating but nothing much is coming to mind.
I would consider you a dumbass. Is self reflection so hard?
What do other people do that you don't? Or what do you do that others don't?
When do girls begin to lose interest in you?
Think man.
>>17736096
>What do other people do that you don't? Or what do you do that others don't?
I guess I'm more introverted. Others seem more extroverts and just seem to say everything to comes to mind. I still consider myself a friendly person though
>When do girls begin to lose interest in you?
They rarely have any interest to begin with. 10 seconds into talking to them I get all sorts of negative body-language from them
>>17736140
>I guess I'm more introverted. Others seem more extroverts
I didn't ask you for defeatist psychology. I asked about what you DO or what they DO.
Describe actions, don't use buzzwords.
>>17736041
do u see him do it or does he say it? if he says it, then you probably missed something.