While me and ex were broken up but still trying to work things out, I made the decision to hang out with another girl and get drunk and kiss her. I told my ex and she was willing to work on things even after that. I was too ashamed and I felt like I had cheated on her, so I ran away. In an attempt to cope with what I did, I used the same girl I kissed to distract myself from what I did. I even went as far as using her for sex. I would think about my ex all the time and even check up on her social media all day long. When I realized just how unhappy I was, I got back in contact with ex and I completely dropped the other girl. I came clean to ex about everything and now she feels like she could never forgive or forget me having sex with someone else, and basically abandoning her when she was willing to still work with me. We have both acknowledged that we are still in love with each and still have so much fun when we hang out, which we have a few times. Now we don't know what to do. What can/should I do?
shes stupid, you did nothing wrong, if she cant accept the fact that it was a real breakup then she needs to decided real soon if yous are going to get back together now or never because its not called a breakup for a week, its called being single.
I wouldn't really call her stupid seeing as I basically abandoned her even after I told her what I had done. Like I know we weren't dating but I was still so ashamed because we were trying to work things, we just weren't together or seeing each other.
>>17734778
If a girl did this to me I wouldnt even think about considering her under any circumstances. But women are feabile minded creatures so she might let it go.
>>17734935
No, she won't. Not really. She might say she forgives you and wants to move past it etc. but it will now always be on the back of her mind.
>>17734778
OP you shouldn't feel bad because I guarantee she fucked someone too just hasn't confessed. That is always a nice little surprise you get smacked in the head with a few months down the way.