Is it unreasonable to not contact someone who cut you out of their life even though you wish you could still talk to them?
I think about talking to them and writing letters everyday almost but then I remember who cut out whom.
Ghosting is one of the most horrible things you could do to someone (without going into criminal activity, I guess). With that said, though, you should do what's best for you. If you think there's a chance they would respond and that it might help you heal, maybe you should go ahead.
I have been in your place before, trying to contact them may or may not work, and could be good or bad. If they try to contact you, so be it, but don't take it upon yourself to try to fix it, I tried that once.
>>17734331
Yeah it's such a shitty thing to do
>>17734331
But what ghosted people seldom think about is what they did to deserve being ghosted. Every story has at least two sides.
I'm going to just sum up how I feel and hope they read it, at the least I'll be able to say I tried.
>>17734634
It's mental torture trying to read their mind and guess what I did to deserve this.
>>17734328
Obviously it's fucking unreasonable to annoy somebody who clearly wants to have nothing to do with you. Like, what the fuck would even be the point? Get over the person, it's a waste of energy and time.
>>17734331
Ghosting is no different than "No, I don't want to fucking spend time with your lame ass" and many people would get triggered by the latter more.
>>17734998
We were close, the last I heard of them was half way between now and when they first removed me from all social media about 7 months ago. It was an inside joke and "I hope you're doing okay."
I want to say something other than what was essentially "you too."
>>17735054
Alright, you respond with something that is more than "you too" and then? By ghosting the person already gave you the finger, you're being beyond desperate to going back talking to them without an apology/explanation.