We met in uni and we've been going out for 2 months now, but I'm not really sure if I want to continue our relationship. She's pretty nice and clearly likes me allot, but I never truly cared for her. At the moment I feel like the only reason why I'm with her is so that I can socialize with other groups in uni that I normally never (nor will I ever) get the chance to talk to/know them. Plus I'm kind of using her as sort of a secretary.
Things we're going good so far until I realized that I'm spending much needed time with her rather then focusing on keeping my shit in tact in uni. I am currently way behind schedule in some projects and I totally fucked up some of my exams (which I'll have to redo as soon as possible or otherwise I drop out).
Yes, I know she has nothing to do with my shit being fucked and me being a fucking retard, but my concern is that if our relationship keeps on going it will eventually crash pretty hard and leave me in a fucking crisis (cause It's only a matter of time before I start falling for her). On the other hand if I leave her now it'll probably fuck her up for good. What the fuck do I do???
>>17733966
its only 2 months, if you don't want to be in a relationship don't
No. I was in a somewhat similar situation awhile back, wanting to break up with this girl after about a month, but riding it out for 3 because I felt like an asshole for breaking up with her. Was probably for the best because I was getting really irritated at her about nothing constantly/flirting like I didn't have a Girlfriend. Sounds cruel, yeah, but she'll get over it.
>>17733966
The thing is,you are not in love. So leave her now that it's still early,because the more you stay with her,the harder will be for her to break up.
Mate with all due respect you've been dating for two months; you're barely at the point where you'd be getting to know each other.
If you're not happy with the relationship now, you'll probably never be happy with the relationship; save yourself the time and the grades and get the breakup over with.