Hey, i've been dating this person, and everything is great. But lately he seems to be starting to like somebody else. Like he gets texts from this person and he's all of the sudden super happy.
I don't know what to do, this is making really sad, so mch that my mood changes ridiculously and he always asks me what's wrong.
I don't know If I should shay something or just swallow this idea.
i think maybe talk about it. not accuse him of liking someone else, but maybe that you are feeling a little bit neglected and/or jealous of this other person.
if he says they are just very good friends, honestly i would say on principle to trust that, unless it goes further. but guys are not to be trusted t b h.
>>17733280
oh, and only do this if it's been going on for like over a month. otherwise you will seem clingy and overprotective and jealous.
a few years ago, i had a girlfriend, and i met this fantastic girl in one of my classes. she approached me cos she thought i was cool (i had a great hoodie that displayed how depressed i was ha ha). we became best friends immediately, we clicked on so many levels and it was great. she was a fantastic friend.
i was loyal to my gf, i had no other intentions except to spend time with this new great friend (i dont have things in common with many people).
after about 2 months, she told me she had to stop talking to me because her bf was jealous, and she loved him.
it was super shit because if that didn't happen, we would have easily been lifelong friends. she has been lost to the ether.
that's what i hate most about life. i hate that sometimes you have to mourn the loss of a friend.. and they aren't even dead.
>>17733305
what kinda hoodie was it
>>17733311
this.
house got broken into a while ago and they took this fucking hoodie. you can't buy it anymore. i lost a laptop too but this thing was worth more to me.
fun fact: 99% of all of your problems occur while you are alive
but yeah. that was the basis for her starting a conversation with me (after having stolen my mobile number from the register).
Thank you.
I'll try to tell him when its been like a month. Though its really something thats making me feel shitty. The other day he told me" i think she very beautifull" and that hurt.