How do I fix my relationship between myself and my parents.

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Basically my parents always kind of had a terrible way of bringing me up. I feel that they were almost not up to it and eventually it just went over their heads. They always lied to me and lead me on with false promises. I/E don't get a job in H.S so you can buy a car we will buy you a car...same with college even though I went behind their back and got a small one anyways. I wanted to go away and they lied about applications and such. Recently my father was going to bring me to an important interview a few cities away. I wasn't really into it(but was going to do it for the exp) and neither were they so basically he decided to take the wrong exit at least 3 times to ensure I would be late and not make it. Fast forward to a few days ago when I spotted a job for my father on the internet which has excellent benefits so I told him about it...He refused to apply unless I guided him aka did it for it. When I confronted my parents about how that is unacceptable for the child to do their parents job applications they scoffed as said I was wrong and out of place. Basically I called them shite parents and said that they are far to involved with everyone else than raising their own children and that they should wake the fuck up because they are complete jokes. Aside from this they always modeled their parental decisions of the fuck ups of other family members, ie he or she didn't messed it up so my kids will as well. We always had shit relations but lately I getting older and want to fix them but they are so fucking clueless and will never accept their faults because "we didn't know " or "but we told you". At this point I have no clue how to even approach them about it and honestly...don't even respect them as parents, but love is love I guess..even when the other party is basically detrimental to yoru success