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So, me and my girlfriend have been dating for a bit over two and a half years now. We haven't had the sex quite yet but we have fooled around a bit
>in the beginning we were moving pretty fast
>she got scared and wanted to not continue with our sexual advances
>at this point she's given me a hand job and we've both done some over the clothes things
Fast forward about two years to now
>she now wants to resume from where we were and work our way up to full on sex
Here's the problem. Over the past two weekends ( we're sort of in a LDR so we see each other on weekends) we've been making out and getting high mostly naked and watching netflix and stuff and she's given me a handjob each weekend. Each time this happens I can get it up no problem at all, I'm just so fucking used to the feeling of my own hand (I'm a virgin, so is she) that I can't cum.
I've stopped watching porn, and I've limited my fapping to once a day at most.
Any advice on how to help with this?
tldr; I can't cum when my gf gives me a hj, is this just because hand jobs are not that great or because I've been jerking it too much recently?
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Also, when the first one happened I was, at the time, watching porn like a motherfucker, like three times every day, so it makes sense that I'd have that problem.
Now I feel like I just get in my head too much because if she can't make me cum then she'll probably feel inadequate or something
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>>17731945
>2.5 years
>no sex
stopped reading there
you are either underage or beyond help
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>>17731962
I'm 22, it seamed like something that would resolve itself over time, which now I think I was right. I'm pretty antisocial so the chances of me actually meeting someone else is pretty slim. Aside from the lack of sex, our relationship has been really good, so I didn't see why I should leave for a temporary problem
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Honestly kudos to you guys for waiting that long. I think it's really just something that takes practice, not only with the physical mechanics of sex but with being comfortable around each other. Just keep at it and have fun being intimate with each other, and don't worry about cumming that much (despite what TV teaches us, sex isn't ONLY about orgasm). It's only natural that you would know how to touch yourself better than she does at first (since you've had like a decade of practice at least lol).
Also, weed totally fucks with my ability to get wet and I've read anecdotal evidence of other girls experiencing this, idk if guys could have a similar reaction. Basically zero research has been done on this unfortunately
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>>17732004
Yeah I definitely have noticed when I'm on my own that when I'm high I sometimes can't keep it up, but I've only actually been stoned once while doing this with her.
I figured it's just be a matter of time and practice but I was just wondering if anyone had any other advice
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>>17731976
You are either religious or asexual or this is an internet gf. Or lying about your age and you are 16.
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>>17732043
I used to be religious actually, but that's unrelated. It's not like I was ok with not fucking for two years, I really considered breaking up quite a few times.
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>>17731945
My advice is to talk to your gf and ask why you haven't had sex yet. Why are you asking us?
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