girl advice, am i getting ahead of myself?

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>>17731782
Man up if she has a bf be polite and ignore. If single ask her out

Ask her out dude

Stop speculating and just ask her if she wants to hang out after work some time. You aren't going to be able to read her thoughts so you just have to go for it.

>>17731908
What if she says no and I become the laughing stock of the workplace

>>17731982
risk is part of every transaction with another human being, anyway i doubt your coworkers would laugh at you over something so petty.

>>17731982
Anybody who laughs at a guy for getting rejected is just bitter cuz they didn't have the balls to go for it themselves. Fuck what they think - just do it. If she says no, just accept it gracefully "Oh, okay.. I understand. Too bad." instead of acting like it's the end of the world. You can still keep your dignity.

Every dude gets curved by a girl at some point. If you can get over that irrational fear, you'll be fine. She's probably into you anyways so it's a moot point. Just go for it.

>>17732088
My biggest problem is that every serious relationship I've been in was either initiated by the girl I was dating or by a friend saying "so and so is really into you" and I've never asked a girl out or anything unless I was drunk at a party, and usually i wouldn't think anything of it since I didn't know her or see her often.

I guess it's kinda sad that I'm 24 and this inexperienced. It makes me sad but whatever. Idk that I can and it sucks.

>>17732088
This anon speaks the truth

>>17732156
Just nut up and do it. If she likes you, she's gonna say yes.

>>17731782
I am sure that she likes you from all these that you say. Ask her out! She will say surely yes. But is she says no then np. It's better to regret for something that you did than regret for something that you didn't have the guts to do.

>>17731782
From what it sounds like, there's a 99% chance this girl's into you. Just ask her to hang out sometime after work or something. Don't rush ahead of yourself and ruin it, but keep an open mind that she may just like you.

>>17731871
>>17731782
Most of that seems like work-spouse type stuff, your her favorite at work (at best don't get inflated about it)
And the mentioning ex's and stuff sounds like she might be opening to others
None of it really sounds like she is super into you desu.
Btw anon work is for making money. You aren't there to meet friends if you can remember this you will save yourself embarrassment and keep your job

>>17732262
>(at best don't get inflated about it)
This is what I'm trying not to do, but I have a problem of romanticizing what isn't there. That's part of the reason I'm thinking I'm getting ahead of myself. Even if she's into me I'm probably gonna end up eating my own words if I think that's the case

I agree with you on the works meant for work part, but it's hard to not be decent at the very least considering I have to spend a good 35-40 hours a week with my coworkers

>>17731782
> some days shedoesnt talk much
PMS

She likes you, just ask her out. It's simple, really.

>>17732434
How should I ask her out? Sometimes there's barely any time to talk and if we hang out right after work we'd both have to wear our uniforms

>>17732526
would it be a bad idea to ask her out via text or calling? If I make it sound as casual and last minute as possible?