How do be good at sex?

Watch amature videos

have sex

I know, sounds really hard, right?

>>17731480
yeah mate, and i guess you can learn to box by just fighting people?

>>17731494
That isn't wrong

>>17731496
It is massively wrong, anyone can instinctively make up a little tune on a piano but you're not playing anything good unless you really learn how to do it

>>17731501
A piano doesn't consciously tell you if you are playing right.

>>17731501
No anon, the correct answer is have sex. You have sex with the intention of becoming a better lover. Paying attention to what makes your partner hot, and talk to them about what they do/don't like. Hell, have them show you what they like.

>>17731520
There must be some general technique to it though, pls help i have a girl coming over tonight

>>17731520
Every guy thinks they are "doing it right." 95% are a disappointing mess. Google it, watch some YouTube video how-tos, anything. For the love of God make sure the girl is satisfied at least once.

>>17731423
Sex improvement pro-tip: leave 4c and never come back

>>17731496

Lol. That's so wrong it's not even funny.

Boxing is an art. It requires technique. You'll never box properly, let alone well, if you don't have a trainer to show you the right posture.

>>17731526

I'd definetely start with some foreplay. Look up videos of how to eat pussy and proper fingering techniques.

Nina Hartley has some great tutorial vids.

>>17731535
>satisfied at least once
This.

Can't tell you the number of times I have sex with someone for the first time and they are pushing for their orgasm to be first, and then totally forget about mine. Either they're "tired" or they "tried"
How about...if those aren't working you hold me and kiss me while I masturbate to orgasm?

>>17731423
same way you get good at anything- practice

>>17732028
I'm a virgin, so I can't say it from experience, but isn't the case that maybe girls should be more vocal about not being satisfied? Unless the guy is a moron, he can't possibly think he's 'doing alright' if she straight up say to him that she didn't cum.

>>17732028

Well...speaking as a guy I just want to say that it's not really on purpose (for me).

I try a bunch of different positions and just try to find one that feels good for her and for me. I usually find the one that both of us enjoy and I keep at it.

Sometimes I manage to keep it together and pull out before I cum so that we continue, other times it just feels too good and she's turning me on more than normal. I get rock hard and lost in her gushing pussy and then when I feel that tingle too late - I pull out and I can't stop my dick from shooting onto her.

I WANT her to feel good too (in fact it turns me on when she does) but I don't get much besides auditory feedback and I'm just trying to figure out what to do from clues and body language.

>>17732070
A huge number of women (70-80%) do not orgasm from PIV sex. That means get good with your fingers or your mouth or both. I know there are YouTube videos about this. Unless you really get to know somebody, it's difficult to talk through what they like or what isn't working at the time.

Personally, I spent an entire week on the coast of Maine learning fellatio skills. That guy asked me to marry him.

>>17732065
I do not say that I've had an orgasm, not indicate I've had one yet.
Also, if when we are cuddline after sex I'm like humping your leg and telling you how horny I still am, that should be enough to indicate I want to orgasm.

The other thing is if guys see me touch myself a little and try to turn it into cuddling because they are done with the sex stuff for now...

>>17732101
>A huge number of women (70-80%) do not orgasm from PIV sex.
where are you all pulling these numbers from ?

Most of this stuff can only be learned by practice and paying careful attention. Books don't help. Porn actually hurts.

One thing you CAN do, though, is learn massage. Not the "erotic" stuff (which you won't find a reputable teacher for anyway), but the regular kind. Being trained to touch people in ways that feel good is like powerleveling in bed.

>>17732611
Are there any good online sources for massage or is it really something you need to do in person?