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Why are some guys so gentle 2016-11-03 05:10:47 Post No. 17730702
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Should I beware of guys that are "too gentle"? My last and first bf was very nonchalant and cautious/slow in his movements, and talked slowly. When he hugged me, it was hardly a hug, more like putting arms on each other. kisses were with mouth open and lips hardly touching. Is this normal? what does this say about him, does it havve to do with his parents? or is it because we are both quiet and he is really skinny so he was more fragile? He had a lifeless tone when texting but irl was sensitive and liked to explain small details. (he was also a lying fuckboy on the inside)
My new ldr bf, who i havent met yet, sometimes seems similar to him. he is very serious but at least has a little more personality than the last, and seems fun. He is a lot older and I noticed that he also has similar fingernails to the last guy. I cant tell if he is the overly sensitive type, as that behaviour makes me feel inferior for some reason, like im not the submissive one, and they are judging my every action (i am very shy).
i have little physical expsrience and am just curious if this is the norm or if i am too affectionate and have unrealistic expectations?
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I'm guilty of this. Pretty sure that in most cases it's just lack of experience. They don't really know how to act and start having doubts so things they do become half-arsed and akward.
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It could be that, or it could be they're still feeling you out and seeing how you will react to advances.
remember, a girl can not only shut a guy down in pretty much any social situation, but can also escalate to rape allegations without herself paying any major price for it.
They may just be being cautious until they trust you more.
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>>17730702
*tips fedora gently
m'lady...
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>>17730702
OP, for a second I thought you had something going on there. Then you mentioned fingernails. Now I'm sure you're completely retarded
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>>17731027
LOL top fucking KEK, same i was like" wtf fingernails?" this bitch re re...
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>>17730702
Be vary of guys with fast growing fingernails, they want your hand, not you.
Why do you have a problem with not being the submissive one? I think especially sensitive guys dig this.
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>>17731027
Not OP but there probably is some correlation between femenine hands and submissive personalities.
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>>17730702
Sounds like you just attract that type of guy, I was very much the opposite in my last relationship, jokes, touchy and playful most of the time. I like to act lively through messages because they come across very blunt and boring as it is.
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>>17730702
>My new ldr bf, who i havent met yet
Oh, ok. Sorry, for a second there I thought you had a serious question about an actual relationship.
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>>17730702
First thing
>new ldr bf
Why do this? Now he will stay sensitive. But other than that you need to give him time.
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>>17731193
why do i attract that type of guy? how can i attract the fun type. it seems that when i attract the fun type they just ghost me.
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Yes, gentle people are, inside, all psychopaths waiting to gain your trust, put your guard down and then rape and murder you.
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>>17730702
Its not your fault OP. Most men are extremely feminized and pathetic this day and age and would rather jerk off to porn than experience passion, something they are incapable of feeling for another human being.
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>>17731103
>There's people on 4chan who unironically post like this
What the fuck happened
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>>17731725
The fun type goes for attractive girls, sorry.
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>>17731759
that anon is a teenage girl who just found out about 4chan last week, be gentle.
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>>17731760
are you serious
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>>17731750
how to i become incapable of feeling passion for another human being? i think this would make life easier and save me from hurting more.
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>>17731804
Tbh killing yourself
Or dating a feminist
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>>17731804
...yes? Is this the first you're hearing of it? The most desirable guys go for the most desirable girls, and vice versa
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>>17731828
i didnt know. should i get cosmetic surgery so i can up my game?
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>>17731725
fun guys are usually crazy and want other fun girls to be with. I don't recommend them either unless you manage to tame them.
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>>17731103
as in really short and tiny
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