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It came out of nowhere. One day, after we hung out, I woke up & the feeling was there. "Oh fuck not this again" I thought to myself as I realized I was falling for my best girl friend. It's not a good thing, you know. It really fucking sucks, actually. I need to talk to someone about it but she's the one I always talk to about my problems. Now I can't, because of the fear of telling her & ruining the friendship. This really fucking sucks. I didn't ask for this. Why is it happening? I don't want to like my best friend. Besides, even if we weren't friends I still wouldn't have a chance. It's fucking killing me.
What the fuck do I do? And no, this isn't some "im le friendzoned" shit, I've dated my last best friend after I told her, but that was different. That time, the friendship didn't matter to me so I didn't care about potentially losing it.
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Happened to me last month, I ended up telling her when I was drunk. The next day I woke up I just wanted to kill myself remembering everything I said. I told her I want some space because it just felt very awkward being around her and she wasn't acting normal so I think she wanted it too, it's been a few weeks now and we haven't talked at all.
I feel incredibly lonely and miss her terribly, I'm not really sure what will happen now, I never wanted to get feelings for her either.
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Same thing happened to me except with a guy actually things are going pretty well. He doesn't care and we're still in a solid friendship.
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I've been there as well, It sucks. I'd wake up and go to sleep thinking about her. I got so close to telling her on multiple occasions. Luckly I always chickened out. I say luckly, because if I did tell her I know it would kill our friendship completely. Things got even worse when she started dating my other best friend. For the first time ever I started having jealous feelings towards him. Which made things super tense.
Things got better when I started dating another girl. My feelings for best friend soon died, and things carried on like normal between us. Sometimes I still look back and cringe at just how badly I'd fallen for her. I'm glad I buried my feelings though, because in the end things worked out very nicely with the girl I started dating, who I got introduced to via my best friend. My current relationship probably would never had happened if I told my friend about my feelings for her.
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Same for me, but I will say that the feelings have made things a bit awkward at times. It's also extremely hard to deal with keeping those feelings in check when being with your friend kinda keeps them alive.
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OP, the way I see it is either she feels the same way, and you're in a relationship with someone you can tell everything to, or if you're as close friends as you say, you laugh it off and go on being friends
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