Girl I'm interested in is seeing a guy that's married.
I found the guy and his wife. I'm debating if I should tell his wife.
What should I do?
>>17723213
Once you tell the married guy, your crush will be sure to rush in to your arms then! Good thinking, petty, jealous, sad little man!
I'm sure that's going to make her fall for you
>>17723213
Depends on how you found out about the girl you like being the other woman.
Whatever the outcome, you should reconsider dating a girl who is knowingly the other woman, anyone who partakes in cheating is probably going to do the same to you.
>>17723217
No. I think she'll figure out its me.
Pretty much burn down the bridge I have with her.
Spent 3 years getting her and her kids lives back together. Feeling a bit used.
>>17723223
I've been struggling with that.
You might want to consider that you could be destroying a family by doing this (even if it is built on lies). Do you have concrete proof you would show the wife?
>>17723213
I would want to know if my spouse was cheating on me. I would tell the wife.
>>17723237
How do you know she is the other woman?
What proof do you have?
Are you the only person she told?
Could you really date someone who doesn't seem bothered by cheating?
Personally, I'd cut ties to her and let the wife know anonymously using proof that can't be tracked back to you.
>>17723271
>Personally, I'd cut ties to her and let the wife know anonymously using proof that can't be tracked back to you.
@OP this is sounds advice, I'd do the same as this anon mentioned if i was in your situation.
Sorry op but you need to move on.
I know you want to tell and that it's hard to keep your mouth shut, but I've been in similar postions as you many times and I have to say I've learned to just mind my own business. Majority of the time, the person being cheated on will stay with the cheated anyway. And the family or people involved just end up hating you. If I were you, I would just try to move on and let them do them. There's no winning here.
Mind your own business.
Sticking your face in the business of others rarely turns out well for anyone involved.
>>17723213
Yeah burn it down. Cheaters are worthless dishonest scum.
Yeah, mind your own business and stop pushing to change the current situation.
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>>17724021
Do you really think deceit is more worthwhile than transparency
Rip off the bandaid, op