Can I regain entry into a social network after getting kicked out

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I didn't word the end part right, was supposed to read like

"I have an opportunity to "apologize" to one of the girls that was there because she goes to a school club I go to so it should be easier to put pressure on her because I get along well with the other members."

"If I say I was drunk (and I made sure to act like it while I was there and even said shit like "I need more beer"), and act all sad and apologetic and ask if she and her friends can forgive me then can I weasel my way into their network and gain entry to future shit?

>>17720597
Sure, but you're going to be carefully watched and theres a very good chance that a guy who isn't half your weight is going to eventually give you a beating so he can get his dick sucked.

>>17720614
How many times do you think I'd have to show up with no problems before they stop watching me

Also, it isn't really that good of a place for poaching anyways, but it does have a lot of people that go to it who I think party at other places so that's mostly why I want to worm my way back in, for the connections

>>17720626
>How many times do you think I'd have to show up with no problems before they stop watching me

Thats not going to happen. For some people, you're always going to be the guy who tried to rape Jane. Every guy that wants to fuck Jane? They'll remember. Jane's friends? They'll remember. The guys fucking Jane's friends? They'll remember.

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Also for the sake of accuracy in predicting if this is gonna work or not, on my way out when it was just me and a few other people on the front stairs (way more people were inside) as I was walking away I did say something like "you've won the battle, not the war" and "you win some you lose some", didn't say it in an aggressive tone just casually said it and he was like "I dont even know what your talking about man"

As I was walking away from the house heard someone yell "we messed up your" and I couldn't make out the rest and kept walking


I said the stuff cause I wanted to basically tell them that they can't save them all and at some point I'm gonna get one

Basically a "fuck you eventually I'll get it"
Can I brush that off as "sometimes I turn into a dick when I'm drunk, really sorry about it"?

>>17720638
Well I guess that's even more reason to focus on meeting other people through them and finding more parties and shit

The further out I go on the social web from them the less people will be aware or if they have heard rumors believe them or even care

Plus I bet some of them will stop watching at some point

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>>17720638
One more thing, it was the first time I had been to that place, and I've barely interacted with the girl that goes to the same club as me

Wont this make it easier to get back in since I didn't have much of a reputation to begin with, like its easier to be given basically a re-do than it is to have a tainted established reputation?

>>17720640
>I did say something like "you've won the battle, not the war" and "you win some you lose some", didn't say it in an aggressive tone

First, theres no way to say that that isn't aggressive. Second, its weird as fuck. Third, its going to stick out and people are going to talk about it.

>>17720649
>Plus I bet some of them will stop watching at some point
Thats only something you need to be concerned about if you're planning on raping another drunk girl.

>>17720660
>Wont this make it easier to get back in since I didn't have much of a reputation to begin with,
No, it will make it harder because they have no investment in you.

>>17720675
>no way to say it that isn't aggressive
I mean it like I said it with a normal, casual tone like I was talking about the weather

>its going to stick out and people are going to talk about it.
Maybe, my hope is I can bury it through a fake apology and really ramping up the charm when I interact with them again, time heals all wounds, etc etc

>hats only something you need to be concerned about if you're planning on raping another drunk girl.
Rape is a harsh word but yeah there's no way I'm giving up over this

Now I don't plan on every really trying it again at their place just because I know about all the white knights that hang around it, but if a girl was drunk but in that special goldilocks zone (google it) where she could walk and talk fine then I could quickly slip out and no one would know at a glance and by then we are gone

Again though I primarily wanna use these people to meet other people who actually throw ragers

>No, it will make it harder because they have no investment in you.
Most of them don't, but this one chick who's in the club as me does, I'm well liked and I'm getting another club I'm in to co-fund raise with them which will make me look really good

I'm hoping I can use all this to get her to be my way back in, and if she vouches for me and I ramp up the apology and charm then I think I can get the rest of them to let it go

>>17720695
>I mean it like I said it with a normal, casual tone like I was talking about the weather

Which makes it weirder. People don't say things like that.

>there's no way I'm giving up over this

You might not have a choice. If they freeze you out they freeze you out.

Also, you just sound like a predatory half bright. Read fewer PUA manuals and try to interact with people like its not a video game.

>>17720713
I meant not giving up as in about picking up party chicks

These people are just some of many people that do shit, the more I'm in good with the better

I'll give it my best shot, if they freeze me out then I'll just retaliate by freezing out this one girl in the club and from there keep on keeping on

>>17720597
do not under any circumstance apologize for anything. Thats an admission of guilt.

>>17720768
Well yeah in a court room sense but this is college students

There's no covering it up with them, and when it comes to socializing people don't need proof like they do in the legal system, so I need to pretend to feel bad

>>17720597

possibly. were not them, so we dont know how dumb they are. but considering htey knew what you were up to, i would imagine they're smart enough to know you're a sexual predator.

>>17720775
The only question is will they believe that it was because I was drunk, or that I am like this all the time

(I wasn't even drunk)

>>17720771
No fucking way, you need to play it off as you didnt know you were doing anything wrong.

>>17720790
I can see how that would add on to the "I was really drunk" thing, but if I seem like I was so drunk that I don't remember it, then how am I meant to get them to let me back in?

Like I need them to think that it wont ever happen again, but how do I convince them without directly bringing it up

>>17720794
If you were drunk you would be less likely to notice other people are drunk. Then you were just having a good time, but you are in some need of guidance.

However, apologize and in their eyes admit to being a weasel.

>>17720829
While I agree with your logic the people around him aren't going to trust him so easily. It will be perceived as too much work to keep an eye on someone who presumably gets rapey when they get too much liquor in them. They'll go with the easy solution which in this case is to just not let him back into the circle so they don't have to bother with watching him. that's assuming they even believe the story and don't tank his reputation.

>>17720597
OP, I'd focus more on securing your reputation then fading out and trying to move in on another group of people. Use your friend from the club to repair relations, don't cause any trouble, then slowly fade out after a period of not doing shit other than being a charmer.

This should ideally result in your reputation taking minimum hits as you'll not be perceived as a slimeball anymore, or at least not nearly as much. It's at this point you ought to focus on moving in on new circles with as few connections to the old one as possible.

>>1772059

Are we really trying to help someone who readily admits they were attempting to sexually assault someone?

Man this board is on a new low..

>>17720904
I'm really not worried about any kind of reputation getting tanked honestly
Literally only 1 person that was at the place is in the club I'm in, its a he said vs she said thing, and there are a ton of people in the club

Its two different social groups with only one person linking them and I don't even think she'd bother telling them
If so I'd just deny it

If anyone ever threatened to remove me from the club I'd threaten to withhold co fund raising and drive the other club away from them

>>17720908
And the dude is coming off worse and worse.
>"you've won the battle, not the war"
>"you win some you lose some"
Is he just an angry autismo?

>>17720908
t- white knight

>>17720640
Dude you really sound like a creepy rapist. It's a bit unnerving how you're casually discussing pretending to be nice so that they'll stop watching and you get to try to rape a semi-unconscious girl again, and also weird to talk of the chicks at the party as if they're some price.

>I wanted to basically tell them that they can't save them all and at some point I'm gonna get one
Serious creepy rapist predator vibes coming off you

>>17721490
meh

ITT: edgelord autist laments the fact that he can't even hook up with a chick who is severely fucked up

>>17721975
kinda hard when other people will physically stop you if you try to leave with her

OP sounds like a massive faggot.

OP, I don't say this lightly. I encourage everyone to go out and be social, especially neets on 4chan.

But you should take time for yourself and learn how to act appropriately with other people. Learning respect of people's boundaries and personal spaces is also beneficial to you.

What you are asking is ways to manipulate a group of people into letting you go back to parties with them so you can select the drunk girls out and wait on the sidelines like a vulture to have your way with them.

You know exactly what I am talking about.

I think the problem is you have a high sex drive and have become desensitized to normal sex because you watch too much porn. This is common, and makes people want to do outlandish things because they are used to seeing such actions.

Go vanilla porn or no porn for a while, take time to be alone and in all honesty, don't talk to those people again. People don't forget shit like that.

And for the record, if I met you and you were trying to be all cryptic and were just coming off as creepy, I would've laid your ass out. And I'm not trying to white knight but when I get a vibe from someone, it's for a good reason. And many guys think like me, whether they are doing it to get pussy or not.