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I've had lots of boyfriends but I decided to hook-up with one guy who was quite shy and timid. He doesn't have a lot of friends, but he's not a bad guy, nor is he unattractive, he just keeps to himself and never puts himself out there.
Took me a lot of effort to get him to open up to me, but he did. We were dating for a few months and be admitted to me the reason he's so inclusive is due to childhood abuse and subsequent trust issues.
Apparently he was abused sexually by his step father. He was made to preform humiliating homosexual acts on him and his mother would beat him if he tried to get help. This lasted until he was 12 or 13 when his step father got arrested for possession of child pornography. His mother was an alcoholic and they lived in poverty until he turned 18 and she hung herself. He told me he has been in therapy for years and was finally happy he found someone he could be open with, someone he trusted.
Well the issue is at the time I was grossed out and realised I didn't love him. I told a few of my friends about it and word quickly got out. I haven't spoken to him at all this week, he's texted me a lot, apparently he is getting ridiculed for it and he just wants to talk. I don't really feel like making up excuses so I just said we're over and blocked him.
I feel kinda bad, but it's not really my fault is it? I only told 4 or 5 close friends.
Should I feel bad?
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>>17720212
Talk to him, this is not about you its about him.
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No. emotionally you two are the same
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are people really gonna take this bait?
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>>17720212
>I told a few of my friends about it and word quickly got out.
That's not cool, specially since you should know that they might start talking.
>I don't really feel like making up excuses so I just said we're over and blocked him.
You obviously don't owe it to him but it's still damn cold just to block him instead of having a little talk.
>but it's not really my fault is it?
How is it not your fault? If you didn't tell them, they wouldn't be able to tell others.
You didn't do anything horrible and from the sound of it no malice was involved either, so you don't sound like a person. Though you don't sound too bright either and have a weirdass sense about integrity, privacy and responsibility.
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>>17720236
Who cares. It might turn interesting. At least it's more subtle than most bait threads, sans that autistic frog.
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Read the whole thing, but didn't need to.
In my experience, whenever you have to ask "am I a bad person?" You already know you did something pretty bad.
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>>17720212
Well, you did let the cat out of the bag, not that 'feeling bad' will help anyone.
Anyway, just carry on. You fucked up, but there's nothing you can do to help, so just carry on and try not to fuck up again I guess.
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Dude this story is too willfully unaware. You have to make it mildly believable.
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Unblock him and talk it out, tell him the truth and that you regret doing that(if you do regret doing that).
The only thing he did wrong was trust you, try to at least make him hate himself and the world less and apologize, you could've thrown a vulnerable person off the edge.
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>>17720299
Uh, I agree on the help, but I don't think she's a good fit for the job. Let the poor sucker talk this out with his therapist.
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>>17720308
"I'm sorry" would probably be nice to hear at the least.
Though I'm pretty sure this thread is bait, it feels more like someone mimicking a person than anything else. At least I hope it's bait, otherwise some sociopath ruined a guy's already shitty life for no good reason.
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>>17720212
>am i a bad person?
yes, yes you are. its one thing for him to overshare adn then leave him, but to tell people and spread it around and then not face it a like a grown ass woman?
im not saying you are permanently ruined by this and everything should be judged by this action, but god damn you're a cold ass bitch.
hopefully you become not a bad person. i doubt this one event is isolated.
>should i feel bad
you really really should.
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>>17720212
You fucked up pretty bad. Of course you should feel bad about yourself, you don't spread that kind of disturbing secret like it was a night out fuck up. He's probably going to kill himself thanks to you. Yes it's definitely your fault.
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>>17720348
> He's probably going to kill himself thanks to you.
Oh come on. Yes, telling such a secret was wrong but if he decides to pull a hero it's 100% up to him.
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Pls be in London
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>>17720462
>a hero
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>>17720462
The blood will still be in your hands by betraying him like that. You owe him an sincere apology and sets things straight for him.
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>>17720552
>The blood will still be in your hands by betraying him like that.
Not, really, no.
Also I am not OP, he fucked of after the bait.
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>>17720212
You're a coward and it's your fault. You don't have a backbone.
But I don't blame you.
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That's pretty fucked up. You shouldn't have gone around telling people the things he shared with you. It's one thing to share some silly fetish or whatever, but something as delicate and personal as sexual abuse should be kept to yourself unless he is okay with it getting around. You're not really making excuses, but you're excusing yourself from facing the responsibility of your actions and how they affected him. You should definitely talk to him and at least apologize.
It's okay to not love someone, but yeah, this is your fault. How you handled it was just rude.
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reason #146 why women possess no heart whatsoever
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>>17720625
Here's your (You) for that shitty bait.
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>>17720212
dumb frogposter
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