about to go on my first date ever
how do i not ruin it
don't talk about religion, politics, or sex unless your date asks
ask a lot of questions about them, get "their life story"
be funny
>>17714792
how much physical contact should i make
Start light with just hugging when u meet, taking her hand when moving to the next activity and nudging we shoulders.
>>17714828
this
>>17714828
>Start light with just hugging when u meet
tbqh i'm not even comfortable hugging family members
i'll have to start even lighter than that
>>17714790
The most important part of the date is asking questions. Ask questions but don't make it like an interview. Ask questions and when she responds comment on what she's saying act interested even if you aren't, also make sure to include stuff about yourself too, don't talk too much about yourself, don't let her talk too much about her self, you're there to get to know her and she's there to get to know you, do that and you'll do just fine.
>>17714834
You have to start with a hug, man the fuck up, she's not going to want you if you lack so much confidence that you can't even hug her, you have to break the intimacy layer a little.
Squeeze them tits. Gotta assert male dominance early in the relationship ship
>>17714848
if it were just lack of confidence, then i wouldn't have any problem hugging family members
i think i have a fear of intimacy, but i'm not sure how to work through that
>>17714828
a hug? this is the first time I ever hear this advice for a first date
>>17714842
I'm not OP but how exactly does a date turn from questions into something physical? I mean I can't help thinking it's gonna be random and awkward.