I fear I cum too soon when I have sex and have stopped getting into situations with girls because I fear I will disappoint them. I can feel the urge to cum moments after putting it in.
Then pull out and do something else. Go down on her, make out and play with each other's genitals, tease her, etc. Change positions, slow down, think of something boner killing.
Actual penitrative sex (for me) can last anywhere from five to thirty minutes. sometimes an hour or more, but I'm not a huge fan of that.
I think it is a psychological block, sometimes I will be drunk and stop having sex before I've managed to cum
>>17712514
I get what you mean. I've had sex last hours and less than a minute as sad that sounds. But how excited are you? The more calm the longer you'll be
I guess I get over-excited, but I dont like thinking about my grandmother or dying children to distract myself because I want to enjoy the sex as much as possible
>>17712514
10 minutes, try to do it so that the girl doesn't notice.
>>17712514
Fap before sex. You'll last longer
after cumming just keep making out or even eat out her pussy until you get hard again
as soon as i start getting hard i go soft, sometimes i can't even get hard. wtf is wrong with me I'm only 19. i literally just got back from my girls where i was gonna fuck but i couldn't get hard and this isn't the first time. or ill get hard fuck for a few minutes and go soft
>>17712574
My money is on performance anxiety. A lot of things factor into this. Should improve as time goes by but don't expect to go for hours on end.
According to research, the average session lasts around 5 minutes.
Of course everyone online will tell you they last for 30 mins.
>>17712514
have a couple drinks or use a numbing agent on your cock, you should be able to last until she tells you to cum or that she's getting sore or has to get up for school, back in my drinking days I went 2-3 hours easily but the pleasure was too intense to even think of cumming