I'm a fucking scumbag

You're bad for not breaking up with her first, which is the obvious answer. You won't be happy with someone who doesn't meet your needs.

>>17711715
>loving relationship
you're not on a loving relationship from what I can tell, you got big issues, the road to a good relationship is a good sexual life.

Now, you had issues with sexual matters and it seems like she didn't want to try, which was probably caused by other issues in the relationship.

She was cold towards you and even more after leaving, but you're even a bigger dick for cheating on her.


Was this once per week thing always there since the start?
Or did it started midway into the relationship or something?

>>17711769
Only when we started having sex. Three months into dating. Random blowjobs and oral was pretty much whenever I wanted it, but sex way less frequent. I don't know if she just doesn't like sex in general (both virgins) or if I'm just shitty in the sack. I make her cum all the time through oral but PIV just doesn't get her rocks off I guess.
Outside of sex we have a pretty great relationship though. She's an awesome person.

I think the relationship has problems and you should probably end it and take some time out for yourself. Relationships don't change from the first few seconds that they start- I know that this will be heavily contested but it's a fundamental truth that more people need to accept.

I wouldn't mention the cheating thing because I don't think it's relevant, while a lot of people will say that I'm disgusting and a horrible person. It's just not really relevant. But do have a think about why you did that so quickly, it's pretty odd.

Anyway take it easy, you'll be fine.

>>17711810
It sounds like you might be better as just friends.
Or it could be you not knowing how to work your way on her during sex, one of the most important things is not relying solely on penetration.

Either way, sounds like you should end it and I'm against this anon
>>17711831

You fucked up and she fucked up, she should know whats gonna happen if people don't work out sexual issues.
And you should also know and carry the burden of betraying someone you trust.

Thanks for the reasoned replies, fellas. I feel extra shitty since I was her first.

>>17711831
I agree about with you about relationships not changing. I spent so long trying to make her more comfortable or seduce in the right way to make her sex drive to match mine, but she's just a different person. I probably won't say I cheated just because I see her family around a lot and I don't feel like dealing with that. I know it isn't fair to her but what more can I say?

>>17711845
>It sounds like you might be better as just friends.
Maybe. We spend entire days talking about bullshit and I don't get tired of her, it's one of the reason's I started dating her.
>Or it could be you not knowing how to work your way on her during sex, one of the most important things is not relying solely on penetration.
I've been thinking this too. I'm inexperience with sex. I can make her cum all day eating her out, but she's constantly drying up during sex and never cums. Maybe our genitals just don't fit too well together.

>>17711900
In my opinion lack of enthusiasm durning sex 90% of the time not an issue of someone "not being good" at sex, but an issue of attraction deriving from other problems in the relationship.