How do I get over this girl I asked out?

bump. can anyone help?

Getting over is not about the person, but about what you feel for her.

In that case, you should think to yourself if you know her enough to feel what you feel, of if you just hope she is something you wish/miss.

In any case, getting to know other girls (even if not romantically) should help, and as I always say, there's this technique called "Emotional Freedom Technique".

I don't think its your case, but you can use EFT if you wish to.

Hope I helped. I'll stick around this post for a while, if you happen to respond I'll keep on helping.

I just thought I'd get over her by now but it's still lingering. I got a somewhat nasty history with girls and I thought she would be my type. At the beginning of the school year I started to get my shit together and actually dressed nicely with a good haircut.

I just can't stop thinking about it really. Maybe I need to do some decluttering around the house and that will free my mind. It's like there is an alternate reality where I actually did get with her and everything is fine, but I'm stuck in the 'bad' reality where it will never get better. Like I must do X before I do Y. I'm still stuck on X

You're putting someone who you don't even know that well on a pedestal. Hard to keep that in perspective, but if you focus on other shit in your life for long enough you'll realize it.

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I guess it's because I keep telling myself she'll come back