I need some relationship help,
>Been dating my gf for 3 months
>she's still a virgin
>she's never had a bf before because of her 6 older bros
>she's super into her family, they all are really close
>everything is going great we talk on the phone every night for hours and see each other as much as possible.
>our dates are really long
>her mom likes me
Only problem is she flakes out on dates a bunch. We were supposed to go out on my day off but she called it off because her dad asked her to bake with him. Shes canceld about 3 dates in the first few months. She says she really likes me all the time and mentions plans for the holidays and shit.
Just bee your self :)
>>17705335
When she flakes out for a family thing, invite yourself.
Holy shit OP are you me
>Had a crush on this girl for a while
>Fuck it I' m asking her out
>First dates we do cute and fun stuff
>Find out her sister is like a replacement mom (both her parents always worked all day long)
>Gf has a stranger thing with her dad. She is always calling him, mebtioning him in random conversaciones, she even listens to the same music he does
>She cannot make any decistion wothout their consentment
>She confessed she was a Virgini, never masturbated, etc
I evnetually gree tired of her because she was basically a little girl with no ambitions in life. She did evnetually let out her horny side but it was too late into the relationship
>>17705349
She's a great person, we have a ton of fun on our dates, she's in nursing school. The only problem is how often she backs outta plans. Do I bring it up or just deal with it? I like her a lot and she likes me a lot. She says she think we are gonna get really serious in the future. Maybe she doesn't understand how bad canceling plans looks? When she canceld she said she feels really bad about doing it
>>17705363
Tell her you understand the importance of family but when you make plans with a person you need to have some respect for the other person. Maybe her family pushes her to ditch you in favor of them. You definitely need to talk about how important she is to you, that you understand she loves her family but that you feel left out sometimes.
She sounds like a nice person, talk to her. I really hope thing turn out better than in my case
>>17705388
Do you think that would scare her off? She says she let down a bunch of guards