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Friend needs dating help

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Hey guys how do you convince a friend to start a dating profile? He's real lonely to the point he won't shut up about it and is extremely bitter. He's tried asking girls out in person and he just isn't confident enough, so I figured online would be easier for him to ease into. Problem is he sees that as pathetic and doesn't want to help himself. What do /adv/?
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What makes you think he will have any luck online, OP? You can't help someone who doesn't want to help themselves
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>I figured online would be easier for him to ease into.
>Problem is he sees that as pathetic and doesn't want to help himself
You can't make someone do something they don't want to do like that anon. If you're sick of him moaning about not having a girlfriend, tell him.
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>>17704693
I figure he just needs some exposure. He doesn't have a lot of experience with women but he won't step out. Worth noting that he's hard /r9k/>>17704699
I have told him and honestly he's probably gonna see this thread.
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>>17704703
Help him build his confidence instead
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>>17704703
OP's friend, if you're reading this: grow the fuck up. Stop being a pathetic manbaby and whining about >tfw no gf if you're not willing to do anything about it. There's a reason you're lonely, and it doesn't lie with women
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>>17704709
I've tried that but he doesn't want to push himself. Are there any techniques that help with that beyond the usual?
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>>17704713
If by any chance this is at me fuck you all.
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>>17704735
If it rings true for you, regardless of whether you're OP's friend or not, it rings true for you.
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>>17704720
Slap him like a lil bitch until his blood boils. He'll release the tension and feel alive
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>>17704735
Depends [spoiler]are you by chance named Joe[/spoiler]
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>>17704744
Your spoiler is shit mang this babbies first board? Also why do you feel the need to go on the losers board for faggot rejects and the autistic suicide hotline for your friend? If he wanted help he'd either get help or get over himself sounds like a fucking cuckold to me. Anyway when you see your friend give him a good ol' kek for me senpai.
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>>17704772
So I take it that that's a no, but if what I'm saying still rings true then maybe you should examine your own problems and stop posting like a retard.
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>>17704686
Your friend doesn't sound all that much like a catch. A good half of the world interacts online, through applying for jobs, online jobs, social media to news and so on. Why should dating be any different? Online dating isn't any easier either. If anything, it's harder for the average man to shine through online dating. Women get a ridiculous amount of attention online. Even the ones who aren't all that great looking who receive very little attention in real life, still get tons of attention. Most women in online dating only want the best. I'm not trying to discourage you, I'm just talking about how online dating works for females. It's a massive ego boost for them.
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>>17704786
That's what I thought too. The point as far as I was thinking was to get him at least attempting to talk to women moreso than him actually meeting anyone special.
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>>17704786
Fuck you asshole I'm 155 pounds of folded steel and sex appeal and would drive half the fucks on this board to suicide for realizing the world ain't fair for giving them shitty neckbeard bodies. Secondly before the Internet ruined literally everything through all the reasons you just listed people used to meet face to face which was and still is in my opinion the better option of the two. I hand in my resumes personally so the company can size up my worth from first impressions and behavior. The fact that people try to get a read on you via a shitty online questionnaire that shows little to nothing about personally goes to show why most fucking people are stuck on the bottom dredges of society. As to online dating whew lad where do I fucking start? The catfishing? The retardedness of it all? Or maybe all the terrible shit that stems from meeting up from said dating sites? The honest fact is people who need an online dating profile are people who are afraid of rejection and putting themselves out there so they use a dating site that does 90% of the work for them based yet another shitty online questionnaire and match you with someone who answered similar. It's a cowardly resort for lazy fucks and pussies and any woman that sees it as something to boost their ego is disillusioning themselves. Honestly I'd take a confident 6/10 girl over any online bombshell just because she had enough initiative and gusto to take a chance.

>INB4 Not OPs friend just replying to earlier tune when I saw this
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>>17704825
Half the shit you just said falls below the level of autism. I think you need a shrink friend.
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>>17704846
Whatever you need to tell yourself to feel more like a man wannabe shrink. Say hi to Proffesor Fedora and Doctor Shecklestien for me.
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