I need some help with something.
My immediate thoughts when seeing a beautiful women are either strong distaste bordering on hate or fear. Not all women mind you just one's I think are beautiful. I've dated multiple women before, all who I thought had flaws and were more "at my level" but consequently I have a hard time getting an erection and have never once finished during sex.
So I figure if i'm ever going to have any kind of a fulfilling sex life I need to fix this neurosis. Is there anything I could read or some advice you could give me.
I've had some people say its a self image issue and I should work on myself but I already do that and it just makes me hate myself more because I feel like I fall short of an ideal version I want to be.
TL;DR: How do i learn to no longer fear and hate beautiful women.
Switch to men.
Sorry mate but beautiful women go for attractive guys.
Think about the average girl and how many guys check them out or hit on them. Multiply that by 5 if not 10 on a daily basis and there is your hot girl. Why would she pick an average guy like who can't pick up girls who bangable, then to all the hot guys?
>>17704288
tried, i feel nothing for men. I can at least masturbate to women, men dont do anything
>>17704292
so your advice is settle for never enjoying sex? i'll never get to have kids if thats the case, i mean it when I say i cant finish.
Im always trying to make myself a more attractive option I just cant even speak to the beautiful ones. I go fucking mute.
>>17704298
I don't believe this notion of you can't finishing. Men have banged ugly broads before and finished so it is definitely a biological problem. Schedule an appointment with a gynecologist and do a full check up.
>>17704304
I dont know what to tell you, i just cant finish, never have.
I talked to my General practitioner who said it could have something to do with stress from uni but nothing seems wrong. T-levels are fine, diet is fine, I exercise regularly. Whether you believe it or not I just cant
>>17704311
Do you get boners from seeng girls? Maybe the other anon was right, you are into guys..
>>17704311
I do get erections from seeing women, I just cant finish during sex, I thought id made that very clear at this point
>>17704319
>>17704327
whoops, replied to my own post
how does an advice board exist that wont actually give advice