ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything

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Ok, let's say I actually got a date with a girl.

How do I consolidate it?
When do I go for a kiss?
What could creep some of you girls out during this time?

Someone asked me for a coffee and I said yeah, I am however not interested in meeting this guy alone, what's the best way to go about this? I don't want to just say I'm busy because it's not the truth and he may keep asking in the future.

>>17703968
>however not interested in meeting this guy alone,
then why say yes?

>>17703968
Tough shit. You should have just said you're not interested.

Do women find non erect bulges offensive, hot or, don't care?

Do you like brutal russian guys?

To the girl who wanted me to post my ass

Are you here?

>>17703972
That's another issue, but it's not that I changed my mind, I didn't know how to decline.

>>17703984
Yes, I am. You're the guy who was motivated to work on glutes after I asked for a booty pic, correct?

Girls is it a red flag if it turns out that the guy you re talking to is a 22 yo virgin??? ;.;

>>17703988
You literally say you're not interested. That's what I do and it's better than leading someone on. One thing I've learned is guys like things direct and not with a shitload of beating around the bush.

>>17704000
A little yeah. I'd wonder why he hasn't yet.

>>17703988
Then you're fucked, now you have to say you're not interested.
you're being really rude to the person that asked you out

>>17703993
I hit some gnarly deadlift PRs and got some serious pump in my glute/hams

Soon I'm gonna max out. Expect something this week.

Also got stretch marks on my ass now. Jfmsu.

>>17704004
Saying you're not interested in having a coffee and talking with someone seems a bit brutal to me, but you're right.

I'm attractive but have a hard time accepting that

I grew up fat and unwanted and have felt unwanted and lonely growing up

Those who did love me I turned away because I'm broken

Now that I've switched my life around I'm actually attractive thanks to puberty and loosing weight.

But I can't convince myself it. I've been told it

But I don't feel it

Women, what sorts of signals do you see OTHER women giving men when they are attracted?

>>17704049
Then shouldn't have said yes in the first place, you got his hopes up and now it's gonna be more difficult because you were thinking in yoursel
Really selfish of you

>>17704049
The having coffee heavily implied his intentions which you're aware of, so it wouldn't be brutal to say you're not interested since it's very obviously about more than just coffee and talking. His ultimate goal is that he wants to date you.

How do you feel about a guy that has the same name as your father? Does it make things harder?

Girls, what kind of pictures would attract you to a guy on Tinder?

>>17703977
Hot. I usually sneak a few peaks whenever a cute guy is wearing sweat pants but I might just be a pervert.

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>>17704068
You should come to my gym

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>>17704061
I have the same name as a guy my girlfriends entire family hates so they call me a different name. I don't particularly mind but I'm hoping I can make the name good again.

>>17704053
Relax, I've already cancelled it

>>17704082
You still got the guy hopes up, don't do that next time

>>17704082
How'd he take it?

>>17704078
Unless they're just calling you by your middle name or a nickname you previously had, it's so ridiculous I'd be offended to have to accept it.

>>17704089
They've kind of made up a nickname for me using the first letter of my first name. If it was a completely different name then I wouldn't be cool with it.

Girls: I've been with my gf for a few years and our sex life has been kind of dead lately, particularly because I've also been at work so much lately. Somehow along the way I've completely forgotten how to initiate and try to get her in the mood, which she isn't very often. What are some things that I can try? The subtler the better of course.

>>17704087
I really don't understand what he said, broken English

"I could say that was not far enough to me but is just a coffee"

Then he said he doesn't know what to say to make things better, that he has to go to sleep and "see you" (we'll probably see each other again with more people).

>>17704117
>"I could say that was not far enough to me but is just a coffee"

Uhh what did you say to him then?

>>17704071
Sorry for the late response

Sweet Jesus, he T H I C C

>>17704136
I've waited so fucking long for somebody to say that

Thank you

>>17704145
I personally don't care much about bulge, but that ass though...

>>17704154
I'm now 50/50 on this compliment

>>17704161
Is that good or bad?

>>17704164
Both

>>17704166
I'm just an ass chick, you got a big bulge though

>>17704004
>guys like things direct and not with a shitload of beating around the bush.

Guy here, this 100%. Don't waste my time because you're too afraid to say how you feel.

>>17704170
Lol ^^

test

>>17704192
icles

>>17704182
Are you German?

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>girl tries to convince me she's a really bad internet veteran
>tells me she's reading a bestiality post on tumblr with little kids sitting next to her and that's the least of the fucked up shit she's used to
>"hah, that's nothing"
>send the full version of pic related
>no more response
Did I win?

>>17704199
At this moment I wish but no I'm a brit

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>>17704204
>At this moment I wish
Why? I only asked because Germans tend to use lots of ^^

>>17704000
answer those trips of truth pl0x

>>17704078
not exactly what I had in mind but ok

>>17704211
I thought you were londoning me kek

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>>17704216
You're the one that sometimes asks if there are girls interested in a qt London bf who lifts, aren't you?

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>>17704225
I'm l-lonely

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>>17704228

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>>17704245
Sorry, London girls only
And 2D girls

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>>17704248
I was just trying to be nice

>>17704251
<3 ^^

Any meaning behind girls using double exclamation marks?

>>17704326
They're shouting!! You did something wrong!!!

>>17704376
No, like its her B.day, we met kinda recently, but always looking at eachother in social setting, so I sent her private message with happy bday and she "Thank You Very Much!!"

Pretty sure I'm starting to develop feelings for my best friend. Where do I go from here? Not sure if I'd actually want to date her or not desu. Are my options pretty much either hang out with her less or tell her I've got feelings for her, or are there other options?

>>17704383
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Chill

>>17704395
Exactly what I mean, wankbag. It has no meaning.

How big turnoff is if a guy doesnt have a car ?

>>17704174
Same can be applied to girls
>don't waste my time by being too afraid to make a move

>>17704428
Dealbreaker

>>17704389
Is it possible that I only think I have feelings for her because I don't talk to other girls? Like, there's a girl in one of my classes that I've thought is cute but I'm too scared to talk to. Would trying to talk to her make me less interested in my friend, do y'all think?

5x5incher good enough for ya girls?

>>17704490
no

>>17704490
It's about two inches too small

>>17704436
Shit, thought so. Can i get away with it if im good looking or im done for?

>>17704506
Let me put it this way: I'd rather date an ugly rich guy than a good looking poor one

>>17704524
Nice i lost.

>>17704528
You're probably not even good looking anyway

Ugh I'm in love
Why am I such a FAG

I want to cuddle her so bad, I've never wanted to hold someone more.
I feel like that's not enough, I want to merge into one being.

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>>17704540

Should a guy with a mental illness vasectomize?

>>17704552
nah, just use birth control

>>17704549
>Ugh I'm in love
>Why am I such a FAG

Cause you suck dicks senpai

>>17704554
Oh yeaaah

>>17704540
Actually i am, but nice try.

>>17704570
pics or you're default ugly

>>17704570
Lol okay

Didn't want to start a new thread for this so I'll just ask it here:

Is it a bad idea to lie about community service on a college application/resume? Is there anyway they can verify this?

>>17704586
This thread is literally filled with trolls

>>17704586
College application? Why would they ask about your criminal history?
Resume/job application? Not something you should like about

>>17704594
Stupid questions attract stupid answers

>>17704596
I meant community service as in stuff like feeding the homeless.

Where I'm from community service usually means charity work.

A guy who smokes.

Fuck or chuck?

>>17704606
To most of the world, community service is punishment for minor offences. Charity work is something that can be valuable to put on both, depending on what it is though.

>>17704610
That's not really anything bad unless you want to have one during sex or something. There's usually something much more decisive.

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Posting again...

I was abused and molested as a kid. How do I find a qt girl who has been through the same to end normies with me

>inb4 see a therapist.
I've seen 4

For the ladies, do you often get attracted to a voice?
I've been told I have an incredible voice about 5 times since my teens when it started to change but I don't know if I'd consider my own voice great, or even good, so I'm wondering if it's something I should use more.

>>17704620
Stop going to r9k/pol and get your life in track instead of letting a bad thing in your past decide the track of your entire life like an immature person.

>>17704620
Dig thru police records

>>17704624
Have phone conversations with girls more. It's better for the socially inept as well, since eye contact isn't a thing.

>>17704549
Have you tried telling her you like her?

>>17704630
t. Someone who wasn't abused

>>17704624
You probably have a deep voice. Deep voices make me wet, no lie. I'll see a guy who I think, "meh", and then he'll open his mouth and I'll be going, "oh"

>>17704620
Meet through group therapy and/or AA?

>>17704681
I'm not allowed group therapy because of my ideations. Also I'm not in therapy rn.

Too busy with work and probation

>>17704679
It's extremely deep, but doesn't sounds that good to me.

It wasn't only girls saying it too, one guy told me that I should pick up singing.
But it's good to know, maybe I'm just really judgemental of my own voice.

>>17704697
Voocaroo(sp?)

Reposting from other thread

Female co-worker has started being really friendly with me. Took my number off the work list in front of me and text me a bunch over a couple days. At work she tickles me sometimes and has started hugging me.

I want to ask her out, but she's christian and by her own admission used to be pretty flirty so I'm not 100% sure on the attraction. I'm worried if I do ask her out and get shot down things will get terribly awkward at work. It wouldn't be an issue if I didn't work with her, but only 8 people work there and 2 of them, my other 2 main co-workers, are her best friends.

I know you're not meant to dip your pen in company ink but my prospects aren't great dating wise at the moment and I do like her. Is there a way to test the waters without having it completely ruin my job if it goes pear shaped? I can deal with rejection but I desperately need this job. Any advice would be great.

When I fight with my bf he says things like that I am narcissistic, entitled and treat people like shit. When we stop fighting he tells me I am perfect and doesn't want to talk about it, even though I am calm and really want to know. How do I find out what truth there is to what he's saying?

>>17704692
Ideations? Probation? Wtf did you do, molest a kid?

>>17704734
Get him shitfaced drunk. He will definitely spill the beans. Record it so he can listen to it when sober. If he denies, you're dating a pussy

>>17704697
I don't think I've run into a deep voice that I didn't like. I like them because they're deep.

Of course you're not gonna be attracted to it. You're probably straight and prefer the sound of women's voices.

today i finally got the nerve to "ask her out"
i didn't specify that i wanted it to be a date, though (and it's something that could just as easily be platonic)
is there anything i can do to make it clear to her while we're together?

also for what it's worth she seemed really excited about it, though i'm not sure how much of that was me and how much was what we'll be doing

>>17704879
Ooh, I don't know man you ought to be really clear about those things. If she thinks it's "as friends" as she likely does, then trying to turn it around mid-"date" is probably not gonna go your way.

Good luck anyway, I hope it goes well, congratulations for making the step in asking her out and all but remember to actually ask the girl out on a date next time.

>>17704879
What'd you ask her to do?

>>17704704
Sorry anon, not home and I'm kinda too shy to go doing random vocaroos in another language.

>>17704925
true, though i'm glad i at least found the nerve to ask her, regardless of how she sees it
i didn't even lose any spaghetti while asking

>>17704948
there's a street festival thing this weekend, i asked her if she wanted to go

>>17704968
>there's a street festival thing this weekend, i asked her if she wanted to go
Yeah, that's not really datey, and she was probably more excited about going to the festival than seeing you. Don't back out though, go along and just enjoy spending time with her, even if it's not what you thought it was going to be. You have nothing to lose

Why can't I cum?

>>17704976
yeah that's what i figured
so i'm gonna go and have a good time, and then maybe ask her out on an unambiguous date next weekend

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Women: opinions on receiving dick pics from your bf?

Ever a good idea or never do it ever?
How often is too much?
Downloadable pic sent through text/email or 1 second snapchat pic?
While you're home or at work/school?
Face and/or balls included?
Covered in cum?
Flaccid, rock hard or somewhere between?

>>17705001
Everything depends on the girl. Met some who love it, some who are neutral, some who hate it. Same goes for the specifics.

>>17705019
I know it depends on the girl, that's why I'm asking a bunch of girls, to see what they like. "it depends" is a non-answer, now tell me your dick preference

>>17705033
Shouldn't you just think it through from past conversations or hell even ask the girl you're wondering about

>>17705033
There's no way for you to get a predictive response. It's like asking guys if they have a foot fetish. Some have an extreme one others are repulsed by it. Have a conversation and test the waters with her instead.

>>17705033
You really don't know how stupid your question is, do you?

>>17704000
In my opinion, no it isn't.
I'd prefer it if a guy I was interested in was a virgin, even if he was 22.
[spoiler] that's probably just because I'm a virgin though [/spoiler]

This girl I like and I'm still deciding if I should ask her out is often looking at me.
I'd say about 2 or 3 times per class, at least the times I've caught her doing it, quick glances where she kinda looks away afterwards.
I don't know if she's into me or if she's just randomly watching something or if my face is fucking weird.
I also think she sometimes mimics me, sometimes she puts her hands and legs in the same position mine are, could be a coincidence maybe.

Do you girls think these are possible signs she likes me? Would you do this with a guy you want to get close to?
I'm deciding to go to her and just talk to her/ask her out but I'm undecided, had some bad relationships before and this girl is beautiful, I can't stop thinking about her, I just want to gauge her interest in me to decide if I make a move or not.

Keep in mind I haven't talked to her before.

>>17704968
>true, though i'm glad i at least found the nerve to ask her, regardless of how she sees it
>i didn't even lose any spaghetti while asking
Me too man, that's good to hear. Have fun with it, and even if it doesn't all go your way, remember to have the nerves to talk to other girls too. Glad to hear you worked up the confidence anyway man that's a big first step.

Guys: I see a lot of guys here talking about how they like tomboys, but how many guys really want to date a tomboy? Would you *really* want a girl who isn't very feminine and isn't really interested in 'female' interests?

>>17705101
Depends on how far we're talking about.
One thing is being a tomboy and one thing is just basically being a guy with a vagina.

I remember being with a girl once, she didn't used makeup, she had no interest what so ever in anything girlish, she hated girls in general, had a maleish cut, etc.

It was cute on it's on way for a while but it just felt more like a dyke after a while, I had to initiate anything affective or it wouldn't happen and then I realized she dressed horribly like a guy with no fashion taste, her zero use of makeup was really noticeable sometimes, she wouldn't want to talk about ANYTHING that was somewhat difficult or involving feelings and I just had to cut it even if it made her feel horrible for a long time, I couldn't stay with her no matter how much I tried and lord did I tried.

There's a big scale, from "I just dress a bit tomboyish in the tumblr sense of the word" to "I'm basically a butch"

>>17704051
Don't know if you're a girl or guy but whatever, guy here.
Are you me?

Very similar, grew up fat (probably fatter than you) then got tired of it and changed that shit, which good job btw. I can best guess that you're insecurities come from teasing from your peers when you were conventionally unattractive and they would say they were into you to use you for a laugh. I totally feel this way as well, but at least on the outside you need to project confidence, which if you think you look good now then you're part way there. And yes, embarassment fucking hurts, especially if it is in public, where you would meet people, but you need to not let it affect you. I suggest doing to by stoically responding to embarassing situations. Practice being quick-witted with responses to bullshit like 'oh lol you thought I was being serious??? Ewwww!!!!'

>>17704445
Possibly, but depends on what you want in a relationship. Go for it if you want. [spoiler]Maybe you'll experience joy I wish I could.[/spoiler]

>>17705112
I ask because I'm thinking of my friend and, if I'm being honest, how little attention from guys, when in contrast I see guys here talk a lot about how they like tomboys. She's not an extreme tomboy like your example (her attitudes towards relationships can be pretty in line with traditional gender roles, actually), but she's definitely far from feminine and doesn't have many feminine interests. She's also tall, but guys here don't seem to have a problem with tall girls either.

I guess it's just weird to see guys here say one thing, and then see the complete opposite in real life. I know that 4chan =/= real life, but I would expect there to be some basis in truth in what I see here, especially when it comes to things like people talking about their preferences in the opposite sex.

>>17705164
You have to remember this is a small demographic, a HUGE number of guys feel intimidated by a tall girl. (I personally would love to be with a like a 6'4 girl or so but that's beyond the point)
It's also a limited to the regular age of a 4chan user, say from 18 to 30 usually and the kind of people that visit the place, at least by majority.

A LOT of it also depends on the girl, what kind of vibe she gives off, how she looks, does she takes care of herself, etc.

There's a million factors and the tomboy scale is incredibly huge, I know what you mean but there could be dozens of reasons just for ONE guy, now imagine millions.

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i recently went out with a girl for coffe, everything went well, we talked and laughed a lot, and she mentioned that she wanted to go to the movies.

so i know that rule about waiting 3 days to text her and set another date, but you see when i texted her for the first time she seemed super excited to hang out with me, and even said things like she was worried about what first impression she would give me

i waited 2 days and i invited her to the movies, i said i would be free on sunday, and i asked her if that was a good day for her

she replied "yes, i guess , but let me check during the week"

now that i think about it this is not a bad response, but texting makes me a bit paranoic

so i just told her that something came up and now im not sure if i'll be free on sunday,and that i'll inform her during the week if i'll be free

damn now im not sure if that last part was a good thing to do

i hate texting, i never know if im preplying to fast or too slow, talking with her in person is way easier

so my gf is really shy about sex. she doesnt want her roommtes to hear. its keeping her from fully enjoying sex. Is there a good way of either reassuring her she can be as loud as she wants or is there a cheap way we can be alone together. i dont wnat to spend like 100$ just so we can fuck in peace.

>>17705164
>I see guys here talk a lot about how they like tomboys
you probably would be disgusted by "guys here" if you ever meet them

>>17705415
If you're implying that guys here aren't representative of all guys: I know. See the second paragraph of >>17705164

>>17704117
Think he meant 'fair'.

Do you guys not get much one-on-one time? It seems like if he wanted to get to know you, or get you to know see another side of him, he'd be able to do that if you're going to see each other again with other people anyway.

> just a coffee
If he were something you didn't hang out with, then it'd be understandable. But seeing as you seem to be in the same group, he probably is looking for something quite intimate already.

Perhaps if he just wanted to 'hang out' then he'd really just like some one on one time without your other friends to see how things are, and THEN move things up a little, but yeah he seems to be quite set already.

Hard to say without knowing what your current relationship is like. But I'd be cautious if he's already getting defensive by playing the victim, rather than being understanding.

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>College anon
>See cute women in classes, but no context to say anything to them (Unless if it was something class related)
>Want to chat them up, but see above reason

To the college femanons, is there any socially acceptable way to approach a woman that you otherwise have no reason to talk to?

I'm not afraid to approach them/talk to them, but I am afraid of coming across as some psycho for just chatting them up out of the blue.

>>17705536
If a random guy approached me just to talk to me, I'd assume he was just trying to hit on me. Not in a creepy or psycho way, but in a "ugh, I don't want to deal with this shit" kind of way

>>17705545
So are there any situations in which you wouldn't mind?

Like even if you found him attractive, or would it negate that because you still thought "He's only talking to me to hit on me."

Guy that has never asked a girl out, I think this girl is super cute and for some reason she's the first to put me inches away from taking the step, but I'm really worried because well I've never done this before and I'm extremely nervous.

Can I tell if she likes me with her body language? I've never talked to her but I've seen her looking at me and then somewhat looking away, a couple times per class.
I've also seen her mimicking my body language about 4 times, might be unintended but I've seen her getting on the same position as me and she seems a bit nervous sometimes or trying to get my attention.

Yes I know I should just ask her but knowing what other girls think about this could make a "I'm likely to do it eventually" to a "I'm doing it tomorrow, I'm not wasting my chances with this girl".
This is the first time I'm seriously considering this and I know it's a big step to get out of my shell, but please be honest.
Need some kind of affirmation to get it through my thick skull.

>>17705545
Not that but then how do you get a bf or friends then?
Do you always feel like that if someone approaches?

>>17705560
No, I don't feel creeped out if a girl approaches me, but I've been taught by others (primarily females) making comments on men that have approached him "It was so creepy/made me so uncomfortable." that I dread the idea of ever being labeled "that guy."

>>17705551
>>17705560
Not that anon, but every couple I know already knew each other before they started dating, i.e. they first met when they did something with a group of friends, like travelling, introduce their name, get to know each other, etc. the thing normal people do.

>>17705551
Jesus fucking Christ, why is the response to these questions always "would it matter if he was attractive?" I'm not answering stupid posts.

>>17705560
>Not that but then how do you get a bf or friends then?
Meet people in class, tutorials, clubs, sports teams etc. I'm assuming OP was talking about when I was in the library or common areas or something
>Do you always feel like that if someone approaches?
If it's a guy I don't know who has absolutely no other reason to approach me, then I'd probably feel like that, yes. People don't just strike up conversations with strangers to make friends like that.

>>17705575
So if a guy did that in class or clubs, you'd be ok with it?
Even if he's actually doing it with the intention to date?
That's an interesting distinction

Ladies, if you point a finger at a guy, do you fancy them?

>>17705578
No, then it'd be a more acceptable environment to approach me. It'd still depend on what he said - remember I implied that if a random guy had a reason to approach me, like asking directions or for the time, then that'd be okay. If a guy sat next to me in class and just said something like "hey" then I'd feel the same as >>17705545

>>17705579
how the fuck did that even happen
did she just looked at you, pointed towards you and then went silent?

>>17705585
hey~

>>17705578
>So if a guy did that in class or clubs, you'd be ok with it?
>Even if he's actually doing it with the intention to date?
I think you don't really need to care this much about whether this cute girl is ok with it to be honest. It's a gamble anyway.
On the other hand, talking to her when you have an assignment or some project to do together is the more recommended approach, if for no reason aside from the need to get laid you randomly talk to a cute girl, what comes next will probably embarrass you both.

>>17705587
Nah, she was asking a question. I was the only one she pointed towards.

>>17705599
what question? how did you know? I'm curious.

>Hey, I need to do a survey on people who will likely need counselling on mental health issues, does Elliot Rodger over there seem normal to you?

>>17705604
Kek, nah that's why I was curious what the deal was with the pointing.

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>>17705604

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How do I progress from first date to kissing and sealing the deal?
I'm a retard at this and I'm worried I'll screw it up, what would make you girls back off at this point?
How do I know when it's ok to kiss?

Tell me all the things that are wrong with my profile, or me in general:
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=125363669

I know I am supposed to smile, but I hate faking smiles bc I am not charismatic and I look funny when doing it. I also thought my looks would carry me, but I guess not. I'm tragically underrated, if you ask me.

Part of one message I sent looks like this:
I'm a babe. I'm candy. Why not love me? Something like that. I am even more beautiful than God.

>>17705624
is that literally V tech shooter kek

>>17705624
You look super average and plain, think about it, why would people get it on with you?
What makes you stand out?
Nothing there stands out, try different angles, clothes, faces and more words, sell yourself.

>>17705630
Just adding a couple things, the first and second picture look years apart just out of angle and lightning.

Spice up your photo.

>>17705634
>>17705630
The pictures match the reality. I hate going outside anymore. Also, I could use more words to describe myself, but what I wrote does stand out to me, compared with the profiles I looked at, seeing as how my profile is a joke.

Anyways thanks for the input.

>>17705074
too bad the other qts prly arent like you

Ladies, what do you think is good conversation before having a meetup with a girl through Tinder?

Is it necesarry to text every day? What to do if the conversation has bled to death?

I notice that she doesn't necesarrily ask me about things, but only if I do it first. That kind of stuff.

I've been out of the dating scene for about 2 years, so yeah.

I can't come with my girlfriend. I can get hard, stay hard for an hour or more, but I can't come. Having sex with her feels amazing and I love it but I don't come and it's sort of awkward and she thinks she's not doing a good enough job.

Anything I can do to just pop more easily?

I don't watch porn or masturbate.

>>17705614
Lean in for a kiss and if she doesn't position her head for reciprocating, you just go for a kiss on the cheek and a hug.

>>17705658
damn lol

>>17705614
Lean in for a kiss and if she doesn't position her head for reciprocating, you just grab her neck and turn it in the right direction and beat her pussy up.

>>17705646
Keep convo short and establish a date in person ASAP

>>17705673
We're seeing each other on saturday, probably.

Any advice for in the meantime? Short convo's, no contact at all, or what about it?

>>17705678
Have you established where you guys are going?

I would say keep talking to a minimum until the day before the date. You aren't dating so talking everyday is awkward since you don't have much to build on. Go on the date, make memories, increase frequency of contact.

>she was showing something to me on her phone
>brushed against her finger
>she moved it away lol
>but kept her hand close
This isn't good is it?

>>17705698
Probably going to a bar, having a beer. Thanks for the advice.

You know what the weird thing is, I asked her out for a beer just after 1 day of Tinder, and she said that she found that a bit too early so she held off. Then out of nowhere she gave me her number. Then on a random friday evening she was clubbing with friends and she asked me if I came over too (I was sober, done with work, and tired. She was drunk, with her friends, and we never saw each other before), and then I said I'd rather just do a beer with her.

But then again, meeting on saturday.

>>17705701
don't really think it's anything to go by

>>17705720
She clearly doesn't like physical contact with him.

>>17705701
>but kept her hand close
I suppose she doesn't want to seem like a bitch to you.

>>17704524
Gold digger bitch

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>>17705604
made me kek

>>17705733
Damn son.

>>17704428
As long as he doesn't expect me to pick him up for every activity we do, not too much.
If he can get his ass on a bike or a bus and visit me, it's fine.

>>17703897
Guys

If your friend improved his lifestyle choices, became healthier/developed a great physique. Would you feel jealous?

>>17705815
I'm not very sure since that has literally never happened to my friends, mainly because they were never fat neckbeards to begin with.

Girls, why don't you treat us like silly sausages?

>>17704739
Fuck off. I'd never molest a child.

I hacked into numerous emails and posted recovered nudes online

>>17705815
I'm that friend but even I'd feel jealous.
Do something about your life style or try not to let it get under your skin.

>>17705875
You're sick
Welcome to the club

>>17705875
Honestly dude to get a gf you'll need to change your herotic ways

I understand you were molested but try and dig yourself out of this masochistic hole.
Change your life for the better.

i matched with a guy on tinder. i want to have sex with him, he wants to with me, we've got a bit in common re: interests and stuff but it's generally pretty clear that we really just want to fuck each other, we haven't met up yet but it's obvious that when we do it'd pretty much only be for one thing ... which is all fine, but i'm realizing that i'm pretty good at talking/flirting/etc. via texts but really nervous about the prospect of it actually happening, mostly because i'm not super experienced and also it's generally nerve wracking. i also have a problem of replying late sometimes, and tonight he'd actually texted me asking if i could come over ((& i was definitely in the mood to) but i'd replied around 10 minutes too late and he'd fallen asleep by then, which is frustrating just because i don't want to make him think i'm being flaky/just being a tease etc.

has anyone else only used tinder/other apps to hook up / has gotten nervous because of that?
and guys - would you assume that i'm freaked out or not actually about it? or maybe you wouldnt really care either way bc it's tinder?

>>17705886
How the hell do you hook up on these dating apps?
I tried it and couldn't get anywhere.

You can't be pretty. You've got to be fat.
Please, for my own sake

>>17705912
>I don't even like these women as friends

I hated most of the bitches I met on tinder. I don't think even reddit is as try hard at being funny as the women I've met on tinder. The stupid ass pick up lines and retarded ass banter you have to play along with just to get pussy.

Still, nothing beats it for easy ass when you're lonely.

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>>17705888
i just live on a college campus. i'm really selective about swiping/have a "type" (i like kind of alternative artsy/boyish/DIY/punkish/skater-y guys, bros are kind of gross to me) that tends to be into girls like me/shares interests with me. i have my fbook connected to my tinder so i can see who likes the same music/artists etc, my bio is just a song lyric/kind of nondescript. i'm not fat, but i'm short and not white, most of my pics are kind of shitty faux-arty ones taken by other people, includes a full body and only 2 selfies

i'm assuming you're a girl. it's weirdly hard to try to hook up with normie dudes on tinder because you have to do unnecessary shit or act like it's not fucking absurd, and they always do stupid cheesy shit, but i guess if you're a guy it's the same thing when trying to hook up with girls (but you have the added issue of coming off as one of way-too-many thirsty or tryhard guys on the app among other things)

if you're a girl trying to hook up with guys and are generally selective, you might run into some issues, because you'll face dumb small talk and jokes that you kind of feel obligated to play along with most of the time if you're into the person, or be forced to initiate (i'm usually drunk or just feeling impulsive when i send the first message and i avoid stupid jokes or memes, it's usually just "hey" or weird shit you don't have to think about too much)

>>17705924
Too complex. I'm just gonna date and fuck that way.

Online daters are too prude

>>17705928
Kek, they are usually loaded with issues and shit personalities

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I have paranoid schizophrenia.

I have never been a jealous person in the past. It never bothered me when my GF's talked to their male friends, went out to parties, or even talk to their ex boyfriends. I trusted them all completely and the only things I would get upset over are things you just don't do in relationships. Like if a guy asked them out for a one on one dinner, stuff like that.

However, recently I have become schizophrenic. I always displayed symptoms but in the last couple years it went from "oh he's just eccentric" to hiding from the CIA when a package get's delivered to my house. I have become extremely jealous of every little thing my GF does. I create extremely complex delusions of her fucking every single man she knows and it's absolutely tearing us apart.

I go through moments of complete psychosis where I become irrational and believe these far reaching accusations are completely true. It slowly builds up over the course of a few days and then I lose my mind and get angry at her. A day later I regret everything and I'm extremely embarrassed. She understands but it's really taking it's toll on her I can tell.

The thing I want to ask though... should I be more open to her about my feelings of jealousy? She I tell her "Look, I know this is my paranoia and delusions but when you made that post on facebook I had the thought that it was a message to some other guy." I trust her, I do but some days are worse than others. I get so god damn paranoid.

would this be manipulative? if I keep it in all I do is obsess over the thing I saw and it escalates to a bad point. I try to avoid her social media but every now and then I get that paranoia...

>>17705551
Of course attractiveness makes a difference despite what this crabby bitch >>17705575
says.

Just go for it man, you won't know till you try. If you're good looking people will be more receptive towards you, it may suck for some people, but it's true. Think of how you would react if a hot girl asked you something out of the blue vs a not hot girl.

ladies;imagine this hypothetical situation:
>in a relationship
>used to have sex about 5 times a week
>suddenly, both you get very busy career-wise,getting up at 7am getting home 10pm
>bf,although tired wants to have sex
>you are too tired
>weekends are a no go because you use them to rest
How would you handle a request for a one sided open relationship?Would you rather break things up or try to figure something else out of this?
I seriously would drop this idea the moment she would get back in the settle but at this point in time I'm just extremely sexually frustated

>>17705968
I would be ok with having sex with other guys.

>>17705969
nice baited,but in the low chance that you actually lack interpretation skills,it would be open for your partner

>>17705968

Your gf sounds like she's just no longer attracted to you, there is clearly enough time for sex every week like every normal couple. It would be nice of you to offer her an open relationship.

Crossdressing male here

How do you narrow your waist a little more? My fiancée gifted me a beautiful women's 40's style trenchcoat but it could fit me better.

>>17704506
Where are you from?
I think this is mostly a thing with americans because
1. They are obsessed with materail things
2. Most of them live in extremely rural areas or citys with an unbelievably crappy public transportation system

At least here in Europe nobody gives a shit in my experience, unless you live in the kind of sparsely populated area where you can't even go shopping without wheels.

>>17704506
>if im good looking
See you can get away with it if you are actually good looking, problem is almost every young guy on 4chan thinks this is the case. This is what happens when accommodating friends and family console ugly people with one redeeming feature (full lips, angular jaw, high cheekbones) by telling them that they are "unconventionally attractive" their whole lives.

For females:

What sexual advances would you say is sexual harassment?

What sexual advances would you say is not sexual harassment?

Since verbal sexual """"harassment"""" is a thing it confuses the fuck out of me.

I moved out to college for Texas, have a seriously abusive and toxic family I'll never talk to again, however I have a girl I'm pretty serious with who wants to talk to my family.

So far I've just said my family is ok and changed the topic when she asks me about my family, because I've met her family.

Not sure what I can do but I don't want t have to explain to her that my family is scum who said they should have aborted me.

>>17704506
I hope you get herpes and hang yourself you useless roastie cunt

>>17706004
Glad you asked this but it's a really complicated answer to give. Like with almost all social interaction the cue is often in the little details and in the "vibe" it has. Also, with harassment like this, you don't really get around the subjective experience of the "targeted object" weighing in, which makes it more complicated further.

Let me start easy with rules of thumb. Ignoring clear "no"s is -always- a bad sign. There is literally no social interaction in which explicitly ignoring someone's explicitly stated lack of desire to interact with you in a given way would be alright. Obviously this leaves a little margin for misunderstandings - but if you're not a full blown autist, you can tell the difference between a girl playfully hiding behind a friend and yelling "no" or someone earnestly telling you to leave them alone.

Second concerns touching. Respect people's physical boundaries. It's okay to test the waters. See if once you tap a girl's shoulder to accentuate something you're saying, she eventually reciprocates and physically acknowledges you. Or does she perhaps sit with her legs touching you?
If you touch her and she gives you zero signs of reciprocating, then continuing to touch her becomes pushy. Continuing to expand the level of touching is becoming (to me) harassment. Eg she sits there quietly with a frozen smile, body turned away from you, yet you move from grabbing her hand to "get her attention" to feeling her up.

Another just handy reference is telling others about it. Think of it like this - if you were telling your parents this story, would you simply explain what happened? Or would you throw in disclaimers like "I/she was drunk", "it was late", "I wasn't thinking"? If the impression of your actions relies on your excuses then that's bad news and shows that subconsciously you already understand that you did something iffy and are now trying to rationalize it.

>>17706056
TLDR;

>>17706056
As for what I would say is harassment, it really depends on the circumstances. Let me use an example to give you an idea. I got my ass groped by a guy at a party a while back. To me that bare action is twilight zone. Normally it would never be okay to just grope a person without contact first - but, he was fucked up, it was a party where people are looser, and I'm well aware that not everyone would mind. So to me that's a rude and obnoxious move, but not (yet) clear cut harassment.
However, I turned around and realized this was a guy I knew (somewhat, a friend of friends I'd seen occasionally throughout the years). Here's where my personal perception of what happened comes in big. Some people might feel less offended to realize that the person touching them is not a -complete- stranger, also depending on how they personally feel about that guy. I felt more indignant because it felt humiliating: some guy who had known my face and name for seven years, yet he groped me like he wouldn't even grope someone else's dog without as much as greeting me after not seeing each other for a long time?
Then there is the part where it became full blown harassment for me and that was when after my obvious lack of enthusiasm (though I'm a sad little pussy and couldn't find it within myself to really tell him off right then and there) he continued to follow me around as I talked to different people and tried to feel me up even if it was just by rubbing his back up against mine from behind by surprise.

I feel similar about what consists of verbal harassment and what doesn't. Typically I'd say that yelling something rude at someone is just that, being rude. Following them becomes harassment.
Then again, a guy telling you that you're a stupid whore who should get stabbed is just an unpleasant, hurtful thing to hear out of the blue when it's day time. When you're alone at night without witnesses, someone telling you that could make you believe that you're gonna die.

>>17706059
What is the point of going out of your way to state that you can't be fucked to read too many different words, instead of just not responding like anyone else who doesn't care?

>>17706073
tl;dr

Girls and guys

This is my 3rd post about this, but it's still bothering me a lot.

Literally whenever I think of this girl, my body twitches and my stomach churns. She's so fucking cute, and I really like her personality. But, just last night we were video talking, and she said "you know, I think I'm really starting to like you". Which was a really great thing to hear! But, my god do I feel fucking sick to my stomach. I've literally maybe 2 meals over the past 3 days. I just feel so anxious these days. I don't feel like I have anything to prove to her or anything. But I don't know.

>>17706080
Can you link it in a different way? It says that the source doesn't work.

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>>17706083
>>17706069

>>17706091
Still doesn't work... it might be a regional thing if there's limited access, I'm a Eurofag.

>>17706079
Fear of commitment. Can be because you're afraid of not upholding her positive impression of you, because deep down you want the egostroke of being liked more than you want a relationship with another person, because you are so afraid to be rejected/abandoned that it's less painful to avoid connecting with someone to begin with... Lots of reasons and frankly not the most important thing. Point is that obviously you're not ready for a serious relationship.

>>17706079
>>17706098
Also to clarify, I read this as you being sick with anxiety and worry/general lack of enthusiasm. Not to be confused with just being lovesick, but you're the one to tell those apart...

>>17705882
>masochistic
Or I could find a masochistic gf. But where

That's all I ask

>>17706098
>>17706101

But I really do like her tho

>>17706110
But in what way? If you rationally think she's cool, that doesn't mean you should necessarily be in a relationship with her.

What's your gut feel? If you think about seeing her now or being with her now, do you feel happiness or stress and desire to run away more?

>>17706114

I really like who she is. Her goals and ambitions, her attitude, and of course her looks. We also happen to be on the same career paths which is something we are both equally passionate about. (It's extremely rare to find a girl like that Tbh). She even said it herself last night, she said that it's as if we are almost the same person. We really do click that well it's crazy.

I just feel so anxious.

>>17706118
That's the thing. You probably really like your friends too, but that doesn't mean that you want to date them. You cannot replace a lack of feeling with rational arguments. And if you can't manage to really want to be with her without (more than normal levels of) anxiety, it doesn't matter how perfect it looks on paper.

>>17706122

>lack of feelings

What do you mean? I do have feelings toward her. I'm definitely attracted to her

>>17706132
Lust isn't the same thing as romantically connecting with someone and longing to get closer. If you really want a relationship with them you can't wait for things to be official.

It sounds to me like you like her, as a person, even more so as an option for you, but you now find that you either don't feel enthusiasm about the reality of dating her, or that you feel a little enthusiasm that is drowned by worries.

Basically, you're not even together yet. Thinking of her name should make you grin like an idiot and/or give you butterflies. If you feel dread instead, that's the reddest of flags that you should not proceed.

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Girls, why are you constantly on your phones? Could you retards even survive a day without your phone?

>>17706137
She's texting me (Chad)

>>17706137

It's because they are talking to boys, duh.

>>17706137
Everyone is constantly on their phones. It's insane.

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>sent a face picture
>she's acting cold

Did

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Goof

>>17706146
More often girls than guys though

>>17706170
That's because girls are worthless attention whores. If all guys suddenly stopped paying attention to girls, they would most likely commit suicide.

Ok, girls, I have the opposite question that you see here a lot.

I'm going to a party in a few days, where one girl explicitly has the intention of fucking me. She's very cute, girlfriend material, and we've been friends for like 3 years. But my sex drive has been garbage for a while, and trying to fuck when you don't want to is just a recipe for embarrassment.

However, she's been making it very obvious not just to me, but to lots of other people who will be there. I've played this game before, if I turn her down she'll be humiliated. I don't want that, the problem is 100% me.

I have some viagra and cialis lying around just in case, but how can I handle this situation with everybody's feelings and reputation in tact? Like I said, she's a sweet girl and she's going through a pretty tough time, I'd like to take her mind off it but I'm a dysfunctional person in private and I don't want her to see that.

>>17706179
>s-stop talking to Chad and pay attention to me, you attention whore!

>>17706170
You might be right, I've just never personally observed it. I am lucky enough to only have friends who leave their phone alone when we meet.

I also have a flip phone myself exactly because I don't want to be a zombie and the few friends who have the same are female. Whenever I use public transport it's like looking through a secret camera, you can look at someone for ten minutes and they won't realize because they're doing whatever. I find it unnerving really.

>>17706191
Can't you tell her you like her too much for a one night stand and you're not ready for a relationship so you would prefer to not do anything?

I mean you can probably last the night with that junk but what's giving you the idea that the problem is solved then, and she won't come back for another round sooner or later? Or fall in love with you before you get to break the news that you don't want to date?

Girls

What do you think when you're fooling around with a guy, things are getting really hot. you're both naked and just like, the guy is so amped up that his dick is just constantly leaking Pre-cum. how do you feel about it just seeing that stuff just dribble out from excitement?

Is it gross to you?

>>17706260
No that's crazy hot. Only complaints I ever heard about precum were from really clueless girls not realizing what it was, or complaints that it tastes gross (which depends on the person and their diet, really).

>>17706260
I love precum. It really feels nice to know my man is turned on for me.
But I might be biased, because I have a definite kink for cum, so.

>>17706263

Ok cool. Cause like, this girl has me so excited I literally get hard every time she texts me, so much so that I'll just be leaking pre-cum all fucking day long. I'll get home from work or whatever and when I change underwear the ones I was wearing is full of Pre-Cum stains.

>>17706272
No fucks given. Her panties will be stained all day everyday. Good sex isn't lovingly referred to as "dirty" for nothing.

>>17706260
I honestly never knew about pre-cum until I saw my boyfriend get hard. I fucking love it though, I like knowing he wants me that much.

>>17706263
>>17706269
>>17706288
wew

London?

>>17706263
>>17706269
>>17706288
This is one person right?

>>17706298
It's not, why would it be controversial? This is like asking "hey guys, if the girl is so wet she's leaking all over your sheets do you find that gross?"

Really? It's a sign of arousal. Of course people will like it.

>>17706260
>you're both naked
just fooling around but not fucking though?

Why do all the girls on 4chen have boyfriends??

>>17706305

I'm talking about like, pre sex. lots of foreplay. The fucking is coming

>>17706302
I was just hoping that was one anon so that I don't have to travel to three different places.

>>17706311
Sorry to disappoint, then, it's at least two anons.

>>17706311
Back off, I asked if they were in London first

>>17706317
well then I take one, there'd still be at least one for you.

>>17706323
I want all threeeeeeee

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>>17706308
such mystery kek
seriously how fucked would I be if I've been taking relationship advice from spinsters/ single moms

>>17706328
Hey man, that's not cool, some of us spinsters are still self-aware.

>>17706311
It's three anons

I've literally never had a gf and give advice

However when I was about 10 I held a 16 yr old girls hand in a haunted house and have masturbated with that hand many times since.

>>17706269

>It really feels nice to know my man is turned on for me.

I'm not a big fan of cum but definitely this

>>17706347
>>17706329
>>17706263
>>17706269
>>17706288
Please stop. I want a gf so bad. This is triggering me.

>Chick I work with flirting with me
>Flirting really hard, like flat out calling me handsome, tickling and shit
>Gets my number, starts flirting by text
>She mentions motorcycles, she wants one I have one
>Think fuck it, say I'll take her for a ride
>Using it as an excuse to see her out of work
>She says we're both too busy
>Keeps flirting with me immediately after

What is happening?

>>17706349
well then get one nigger

>>17706374
It doesn't work like that. You have to spend years lifting and self improve and then one day one comes up to you and you get married.

>>17706364
She likes the attention but isn't seriously interested in you. You can continue the flirting if you like but it probably won't lead to anything.

>>17706391
Yeah, makes sense. Thanks.

>>17706364

you will have sex if you wont talk her out of it

Guy anons, how would you show your partners you aren't interested and attracted to them anymore without telling them you want to break up?

>>17706461
So you still want your partner, but you're not attracted anymore?
And you want to be attracted to your partnet or you not being interested is the main thing here?

Gotta decide what you actually want and feel, if you're not interested at all then you have to break up.
If you're not attracted to your partner but you want to reignite it there's plenty of things to do.

>>17706473
Nah, it's the other way around. I just want to know how a guy would act to their girlfriends they're not interested in anymore.

>>17706461
I would ask her to bring her hot friend to our place more often.

>>17706214
She's had a crush on me for years, so this has been a long time coming, anyway.

I actually would date her, but like I said I'm dysfunctional and I feel it would be immoral to lock her into a relationship, especially considering she's so upset because she's exiting a bad one.

Unfortunately, the relationship line you suggested wouldn't work anyway. I built a reputation for myself a few years ago, and now everyone expects me to be some big swinging dick.

Both genders, what's your definition of a relationship?

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>Girls
How does it feel being hugged/cuddled by a man?
Is it pleasant? or do you dislike it?

>>17706605
It is really nice, especially if he is taller and generally bigger than me, I feel small and cute. I really like when my boyfriend holds me against his chest, or spoons me.
I do the same thing for him sometimes, I love holding his head against me.

Sup so I got the # of this girl in my class and I invited her to get high later this week and she didn't really give a definite yes (iirc) but said sure.
Texted her yesterday but it was an awful few-message Convo.

Today is the day I intended to hang with her, so what should I pretty much do now??? I don't want to seem needy or anything at all, at this point I just want to get high. Should I just ask what she is doing today then invite?

I just really hate texting maaaaaan.

>>17706627
Degenerate.

>>17706648
:/

>>17706540
Distant, not caring for her anymore, wont do sweet little things if he ever did for her, etc.

It really depends a lot on the guy tho, on how he was before the relationship and what not.

>>17706308
Nope

>>17706671
Hello london

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Hey girls,
Is being a university researcher/lecturer considered an attractive job? Assuming he is not socially inept and has hobbies far removed from his job.
>first date
>ask what he does for a living
>says he is a researcher

what's would be your first impression/thought?

>>17706740
I'd think he was a nerd and go back to fucking Chad.

Bumping for this: >>17705859

Is being a 22 yo virgin a massive red flag?

>>17705859
because girls rarely have the amount of self-respect to not care about peer pressure

>>17706836
Yes.It means youre a creep.

Going out with a girl I like tomorrow for the first time in years.

I've known her for about a year. I'm having second thoughts as I'm nervous. I don't know what to talk about or how to act

Any advice?

>>17706004
>>17706091
This reminds me a guy started groping my ass in the underground
I walked a bit away and he kept following me
After saying "I'm not interested" he kept asking me why, if I liked this or that and if I wanted to go with him
I didn't dare to go out in case he followed me

Scary

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>>17706999
You missed out on quite a few orgasms girl

Females: Do you think one reason young women like getting pregnant is so they can have bare sex and let the guy cum in them over and over again?

>>17707068
There are many alternate contraception

I think women like baby's cause nature is fucking annoying

Ladies: What would you think of a guy in his 20s if he told you that he gets massages regularly?

Also, would his attractiveness level affect what you think of him?

>>17707078
What do you mean?

>>17707083
Only a teenage girl would care

>>17707068
No, it's so they can show off their babies on social media

>>17707068
Not likely, a girl could just get some decent birth control if she wanted that kind of sex. I'm sure some girls have impregnation fantasies though, but odds are low of you running into them.

>>17707083
Yes. An attractive man I'd think it was weird but acceptable but an unattractive man and I'd think it was gross. I don't want to imagine ugly people all oiled up with someone rubbing them.

>>17707083
I think I'm going to start ignoring every post that involves "would it make a difference if he was hot?"

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>>17707096
Come on bby, dont be like that

>>17707096
So it does make a difference?

>>17707093
I honestly imagine the majority of females when pregnant feel more feminine and cravw the feeling of cum pumping in them.

Crush held door open for me a did a side look at me, and looked again when I had to take a left, I looked at him to make it mutual.

Am i gonna make it?

>>17706740
Check out a /soc/ slut thread sometime, a lot of girls fuck teachers

>>17706740
Maybe? There's more important things to consider but an academic job is pretty cool I guess.

>>17707120
lol are you that chick who posted about a guy holding a door for you a few days ago?

>>17707120
Are you a girl or a gay dude. And where was this at?

>>17707115
I "honestly imagine" you haven't met many pregnant women.

>>17707131
No, I'm the chick who has been asking questions related to a shy boy

>>17707134
Girl, school

Ladies, how often do you feel instantly attracted to someone because of their traits, mostly physical?
I'm working on improving myself and having the courage to actually ask girls out, but before that I need to actually believe I'm good enough.

>Have a big pronounced chest and shoulders, collarbone is pronounced too, not in a bony or fat way but more like that's just the way my body is built, upper torso is visibly seen on most shirts that fit me well
>deep voice
>pronounced jawline
I feel like a /r9k/er trapped in a normie body and I'm just starting to work on that.
I know that I don't have to be an Adonis but I want to know what I should keep working on and what the majority of girls physically like in a man.

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>>17707140
oh my god just ask him out already Jesus Christ
I hope some other chick made a move first.

>>17707148
What rating do you give yourself? He probaby finds you attractive on some level. Either way he is def. considerate and polite holding doors open for people.

>>17707151
Do I often see a guy and think "hey, he's attractive"? Sure. Does it make me want to drop everything and approach him? Almost never. Just because you can appreciate that someone is attractive doesn't mean that you want to be with them.

I have a question that can be asked to both genders, i only went to bars a few times for familial occasions but i have no other way to meet women so now i am pondering if i should go alone sometime, not even sure if i will like it, Does it look weird to go to a bar by myself?

>>17707140
Go out with me already!!??

>>17707139
Oh i did not know that.

>>17707159
I'm not implying that at all, I'm just working on improving my chances when I ask someone out.

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>>17707148
>>17707120
He's into you

You're gonna make it

>>17707167
I was answering the question you asked. And even now that you've amended your question, the answer's still the same. Just change 'approach them' to 'date them'

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>>17707158
I'm not sure, it's in the eye of the beholder. Maybe a 7
>>17707164
I do try to talk to you whenever I can!
>>17707174
Oh sweet Jesus

Girls do you look at bulges and imagine how big guyses dicks are, or talk about it amongst your friends?

>>17707188
Describe your perfect bf and I'll let you know how many boxes I tick

>>17707192
Sometimes we look and speculate but if you're not packing meat down there it's not a big deal, we're not going to ridicule or hold it against you. It's not important enough to spend much time talking about.

>>17707196
Caring, likes kids, likes to cuddle, enjoys watching shows about crime cases, likes horror movies, has dark humor, and is usually open to discuss stuff

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>>17707200
Bored and shameless.
Can you guess the size?

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>>17707174
Not really, you know boys and their hormones! they won't resist a hot girl approaching them

>>17707207
6.1 inches

>>17707211
Why do you have so many pictures of middle schoolers?

>>17707207
Idk, 6 inches? I've been with both growers and showers so it's hard to guess.

>>17707162
Not at all bro. I see people of all ages go to them alone all of the time. Ofc the majority of ppl go with ppl they know but it is not weird at all.

Some just kick it by themselves for the sake of being in a public environment not necessarily intending to meet anyone. Others meet a few new friends and are sociable.

The worst thing you can honestly do when going to a bar alone is trying too hard when interacting with the opposite gender. Just be cool and friendly and don't get in the mix of buying them drinks. Trust me on that last one. Girls play guys just as much as guys do with girls.

>>17707206
>Caring
Yeppp
>likes kids
Lol nope
>likes to cuddle
100%
>enjoys watching shows about crime cases, likes horror movies
Don't actually watch television
>has dark humor
Satirical humour, very much so.
>and is usually open to discuss stuff
100%

>>17707225
Not bad, not bad.

>>17707200
I hear girls talk about my bulge from time to time. I am a lanky guy and have a dick made for a much bigger guy. I guess they think it is the way i walk.

>>17707218
>>17707221
Very interesting. It's actually a bit more but for the sake of not sounding like a pretentious dick I won't say exactly.

>>17707207
5.7?

>>17707207
Post explicit pic on soc

>>17707222
Thanks man, much appreciated.

>>17707211
When would a 12 year old approach me?

>>17707220
Is it a problem?

Is there a time limit on asking a girl out?

I've known a couple of girls who I thought were interested in me but, being my autistic self, I waited for months and basically put myself in the friend zone before I asked any of them out only to get invariably shut down. I'm curious as to whether I never had a chance in the first place or if I had just missed my window of opportunity.

>>17707243
Just wonderin

>>17707236
Depends if you're a guy. I could accidentally be homo

>>17707249
I'm not a guy

>>17707251
Still could be homo

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>>17707248
I think they are qts, so I saved quite a few of them, all from 4chan, too!

>>17707247
Stop blaming yourself. Just cause they flock up and gossip about guys not being worthy for them doesnt mean the entire opposite is the truth. Also sometimes girls see guys as potential fucks or dates in the future. The way YOU act and carry yourself has a lot to do with this so called friend zone.

>>17707252
Pussy

>>17707262
no I have a benis

>>17707265
But no balls

>>17707272
Your dick should hang lower than your balls, that's well established.

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