How do you escalate thing sexually with a female friend? I've known her for about a year and suddenly I've realized I'm into her and want to try for romance.
Bump, someone must have experience with this
>>17702179
>escalate
Kek.
If she didn't want to do you in one year, it's unlikely that she suddenly will want to do it now. Safe yourself the embarrassment and go for another girl.
Get close while flirting, if she's smiling then keep upping the ante, eg. waist, shoulder, hands. If you get a green light go for a kiss, easy to tell if someone is close to your face or looking at your lips, licking theirs etc. Then if it goes well you "escalate".
in short, get closer, literally.
>>17702179
alcohol is your friend :)
>>17702738
What this guy said.
There are so many women out there.
moving out of the friendzone you mean? The only thing that I tried is openly discussing it. Nothing else worked.
"I always wanted to try: Hey I'm kinda horny, wanna go at it? Why not..."
If she hasn't responded physically back, she don wanna bone ya m8
>>17702738
Yeah normally I wouldn't try this, but it's not like I was a beta orbiter hoping for something to happen. I just didn't know this girl that well until recently, and in the last few months she's been wanting to hang out a lot. We playfully flirt every now and then, just not sure how to escalate because I don't want it to seem out of nowhere.
>>17702179
Forget it, you're her friend by now and nothing else. Don't do it unless wou want to lose her friendship without getting anything in return.
Next time just be a Man and know from the start what it is you want.
>>17702179
>female friend
Lost cause, she sees you as an orbiter. Bail and never talk to her again.
Just get wasted a hit on her. Not hard bro
>>17702179
>How do you escalate thing sexually with a female friend
Won't happen. Once she sees you as a friend that's all you'll ever be to her, you should have made your move early.
>>17702179
get drunk together
>>17702179
All three of my serious girlfriends (>1yr) were my friends for a long time first. It's not impossible. Drink, flirt, get some playful physical contact going and be perceptive of her body language. It's usually not hard to tell when a girl wants you to kiss her. The thing is, it'll only work out if she's actually into you and just hasn't made a move herself. If you're just dense about this shit like me, she'll probably be like holy shit anon, finally. Otherwise get ready for an awkward rejection.
>>17704845
Can you expand on the body language, anon? What should I be looking for?