So, my girl just broke up with me ( We've been dating for almost like 3 months) the reason ? She said it was getting too serious and she wasn't prepared for that/wanted that, she said she was focusing on her career and her master's degree ( also she's a muslim, so we used to date secretly). I talked to her through the whole day trying to make things work and saying my point of view about it all, and the reasons why we should give ourselves a chance, but she said "no" " I'm sorry" but we're not on the same "vibe" and stuff like that.. and she even said, oh we can still talk 'cos' I like you and you will find the right person for you. Well, my world just fell down, guys..any tip to deal with this situation ? I was really into this girl...
Ps* she broke up with me exactly a week after my b-day( she gave me a book and that made me feel really depressed knowing that I can't read this shit anymore) ,that saddens me even more....
Here's a bump for you
You weren't even 'dating' three months, grow some balls
From my own experience (i am dealing with last part of not letting thoughts of my gf fuck up my life after a more than a year with her) i can tell you to just act like you don't give a fuck but also not distance yourself too much so the situation can clear up... Maybe her parents said something that made her question your relation? maybe something happened and you just dont know? just wait and dont make a fool out of yourself concentrate on stuff you didnt do becuse you were meeting her or something, maybe listen to some music? explore it? that's what helped me the most
Hummm that sounds interesting mate, like, I'm giving her some space ( and giving myself time to "breath" ) so we didn't talk since then ( 4 days ago) maybe one week or too are enough to send her a message to see if she's fine or whatever...
Are you retarded?
She doesn't want to seriously date you. You probably sperged out and scared her away/she's not allowed by her family to date non muslims. She wanted casual and "under the table" so to speak and you've gone and treated her like you've married the poor girl.
Fuck off you cunt