Help me!

well the first thing you should do is get a gf who understands that not every single hair on a person's head is going to be exactly the same colour. some will be lighter than others.

also this is a blue board.

>>17699088
Weren't in the shower but found a long blond hair in my boxers after washing our clothes together at my apartment and I hadn't cheated. I discovered she had with a long blond haired guy she worked with. Be wary OP

Can be difficult to discuss

I find long, blonde hairs in my clothes sometimes, and I haven't had a girlfriend in years. And even then, none of them were blonde.

Sometimes shit like that just happens

Proceed as if didn't happen.

>>17699088
I found every hair of the rainbow in my underwear before I even had a gf, it means absolutely nothing, What probably happened was you sat on something somewhere that had a hair from somebody and it attached to your ass, and then when you washed your clothes the hair ended up in your boxers.

Now of course this explanation would never work on a girlfriend who is suspicious of cheating regardless of if you are or not. Attempt to talk it out ig, like ask her why it concerns her and don't attack what she says as that will just start and arguement.

>>17699088
Its your hair

Women are able to tell genuinely whether a hair is or isn't hers, its a real prehistoric biological mechanism to find out if the man has been impregnating other women. Her brain will be going crazy over it now. Just continue as normal and wait a while but now she will be suspicious.