Schoolgirl skirt dilemma

>>17698639
why does she think she doesn't look good in it?

>>17698639
What size did you get?

She probably know that the skirt looks good on her, she doesn't feel comfortable on it, not all girls in this world have the need to look slutty you know?!

its too short to wear in public.

your girlfriend has an ounce of modesty left in her. good for her. don't try and hammer it out of her.

that's a totally fine skirt for her to wear just for you when you two are married.

>>17698757
I'm pretty sure OP meant in the bedroom, only an idiot would think that that sort of skirt was meant to be worn out.

OP, if she doesn't want to wear it, don't pressure her into it. That's just going to cause resentment, and if she does wear it, she'll use that as leverage next time she wants you to do something that you don't want to do. Plus, like >>17698667 said, it's probably more about not being comfortable in it, than anything. I'm not sure why you thought that buying something like that without asking her was a good idea in the first place, but what's done is done, I guess.

>>17698639
>she hates it and she is insecure about it
for a good reason, she's probably a hambeast kek

Well OP first you have to find out why she hates it/is insecure about it.

Was she raped as a catholic schoolgirl? Does she hate the scottish? Is she overweight? Conservative religious upbringing where sex besides missionary position = bad?

Then work from there.

>OP asking for advice and not responding to any of us
ok then

I thought with her knowing my thing with school girl outfits that she would be accepting of it. I don't know if she doesn't like it because of the kink or that she doesn't like the way she looks in it, she is an aus size 16 so yes she is a little curvy. this was bought for just her and I when we're alone.
she wasn't ever raped or has ever been involved with anything remotely Catholic.
I think its better not to talk about it with her and just leave this whole thing behind.

>>17698862
You don't have to be overweight to not find yourself sexy with your thighs showing so much, just to name something. Just because OP thinks she looks hot doesn't mean she doesn't have her irrational insecurities; most people do, and upper legs are a very common one for women. Probably upset over not having a thigh gap or something related (cellulite, stretch marks, whatever).

>>17699324
Have you considered that she might be a little freaked out about you trying to dress her up like a little girl to get your jollies on?

I see, ty all anons.
I'm out, I thinks I'll just leave it for now, things have calmed down thankfully, hope it doesn't come up again.

>>17698639

>My gf doesn't want to look like a cheap whore. How do I convince her it's a good look on her?

For fuck's sake. If she hates it, she hates it, move on.

>>17698639
>so I bought this skirt for my girlfriend that lives in another state
>that lives in another state
OP wants to become a cuckold fetishist.

What's the big deal? Just take it back if it'll make her happier. Or throw it away and just tell her you took it back anyway.

>>17698639
She doesn't want to look like a cheap whore you bait

Just have her send it to you and wear the skirt yourself. That way the money won't be wasted. It's the smart move.

>>17699450
And before you think this is a joke post, I'm serious. Skirts are really comfortable to wear around the house. Use it like a pair of boxers or something.

>>17698639
Tell her to stop being a little bitch
Or get better taste

>>17699450
>>17699453
Can confirm. Tried on my sister's skirt once when she wasn't home and I got jelly as fuck. Literally the most comfy article of clothing I have ever worn.

>>17699450
yeah OP should also get breast implants and become a trap, and then wear the skirt around town

You don't own her, what makes you think you can dress her?

>>17699561
You don't get anything from licking someone's clit, why would you do it?
You don't get anything from cooking someone's breakfast, why would you do it?

What sort of a shitty partner are you if you cannot do anything for your SO? Wearing a sexy outfit they like to turn them on is, like, a kinda basic thing to do.

>>17699571

Maybe you should put on the sexy outfit and let her see you in it, then she can make a choice on if she wants to look as silly as you.

Human beings are free, you are pressuring her to do the things you want.

>>17699571
OP says he has a 'thing' for school girl costumes and that his gf knows about.

Maybe she doesn't like the idea that OP projecting his paedophile fantasies onto her.

>>17699846
I feel like you don't know what a paedophile is.
Liking the idea of fucking a slutty 15 year old school girl doesn't make you a paedophile.

>>17699817
Playing along someone's fantasies when you're in a relationship with them is not sexual slavery.
She's not obligated, but it's not like she said "I am uncomfortable with doing this and it doesn't turn me on, can we do something else?", she said "OMG I look bad in the shirt".

>>17699851

This is exactly sexual slavery.

Why can't you accept her as "sexy" on her own terms, why do you need to project your fantasies on her?

>>17699854
I'm not OP.
It is absolutely normal to please each other and play along each other fantasies in a relationship. There is no obligation, OP isn't beating his girlfriend if she doesn't do what she wants. OP is turned on by something and asking his girlfriend to play along and do something that is sexy for him.
It's very unlikely to find a partner that shares absolutely all your kinks, it is nice to have a partner who tries to please you as good as they can. He shouldn't force her if she doesn't want to, but there is nothing wrong with asking your partner to please you.

>>17699860

He bought it and presented it to her, that means he intended for her to wear it, regardless of how she felt, he didn't send her a picture of it on messenger and ask if she thought it looked ok.

He's basically grooming her to be his personal sexual servant which is going to end really badly for him.

>>17699886
Are you one of those weird people who ask for permission for everything in your relationship?

She can just say no, if she doesn't want to do something. Don't be weird.

>>17699927
>implying buying you gf sex-toys and provocactive clothing without talking about it first isn't weird

>>17698639
it's only 18 bucks. stop pressuring your grilfriend you ass. Actually, just break up with her since you dont see her as a human being an just as an object.

>>17698639

There are so many anons who are desperate to be in your position and you are wasting your chances by trying to get your gf to be some porn star from your fantasies.

Just break up with her so we can have a chance.

why'd she feel ugly ? Share pics

>>17698639
Ignore the tumblr idiots around here who need to ask for consent for when they pee trying to make you feel like an abuser over this fucking shit.

lol the hate wagon for schoolgirl skirts on 4chan out of all places

>>17700231
She be fat.

>>17700476
Its not a hate wagon.

There are literally people who would worship the women they are dating.

This goon is literally fucking it up for every guy after her by trying to play her like a barbie doll.

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>>17698862
>does she hate the Scottish?

My fucking sides, oh my God

>>17698639
post photos

>>17698639
My fiancee has a few different skirts like that in different colors. I don't see what the problem is. I mean obviously she only wears them in the bedroom for me.

>>17700505
Worshiping the women you are dating is a good way to get dumped, cucked, or stuck with a single mother who uses you as a beta provider.