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>be 23 khv
>Match with a cutie on tinder
>go on a few dates
>decide to be friends, she chooses another guy
>eventually she realises that I'm better then her shithead bf
>start dating again
>fall in love
>perfect for each other, she's literally my other half
>thisistheone.jpg
At the beginning of the relationship, she told me that she had a one night stand and she has also been with her cunt of a bf. This didnt concern me at first, but for the last few months, its been in my head non stop. I cant stop being grossed out that other guys have been with her and viewing her as kind of a slut. I wanted to marry this girl, but I now feel like I'm settling for used goods, which is not the case, I'm really lucky to have her desu, its just society has trained my mind to think no hymen no diamond.
My options are either break up with her and try and find a virgin girl, but I know that girl won't be as cool as this chick and chances are, I'll just find a massive slut. Or stay with her but even the score, which would doom this relationship.
The only option I can think of is to get over it and move on, but I can't as its always in my mind and I get triggered so easily by it. Any ideas on how I can move on?
>tl:dr fell in love with a non-virigin girl need help getting over the fact.
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so you're her third sexual partner?
man that's hardly anything
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>>17697851
Just quit being autistic dog, this is 100% a you problem and you're going to fuck around and lose someone who apparently loves you over something stupid. She's not tainted or anything just because she's fucked a guy before, there's no need to break up with her or "even the score."
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>>17697851
Wow cry more. Go fuck a virgin and make her super sticky cling to you and ruin your God damn life then if that's what you want.
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>>17697851
Get the fuck over it guy a lot is like 50 dudes at your Lil age.
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>>17697863
Agreed, this girl is about as close to virgin as you get these days bro
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>>17697851
Don't do it lad, she's tainted. Ignore these other slags and numales.
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I would not be mad at her for her number, OP.
Instead, I would be mad that she used you as her backup. Thats kinda fucked IMO.
Get someone who realizes your worth early on. You are not a plan B
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I'm well aware that 2 partners before me is small when compared to other girls. Its just that one was a one night stand (slutish) and the other was her choosing an asshole over me (guy treated her like shit)
>>17697908
>Shes not tainted
So any suggestions on getting over it? I want to be with her, I just dont want to think about other dicks while fucking her
Like seriously, I just want to forget about it, she makes me so happy it hurts to think like this.
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>>17697982
This is what gets me, I cant help but feel betrayed and whenever I think about it, I get more mad
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>>17698017
Let me reiterate.
Don't hate her because she had sex before. That's a retarded standard to hold her by.
Hate her because you respect yourself; she chose the asshole before you while you both were in the picture.
What would happen if she thinks of you as an asshole and find someone else?
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Make sure you get checked for herpes after coming into contact with alley sluts.
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>>17698077
Why can't I be mad? It's a constant reminder that she 1. Was a slut and 2. Choose this guy over me, all I can thinj is how great it would have been if she just kept her goddamn legs closed.
That being said, I know she wouldnt leave me, she's very loyal and absolutely loves my dick. Seriously, if nothing of this shit had happened, she would've been perfect for me.
Please, someone tell me how to never think about it? Im honestly thinking the only way out is to fuck a escort so I can get over it. I cannot stress how much I dont want that
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>>17698254
Point 1 is bullshit.
Honestly man, end it. You and her place different value on sex. If you can't accept that, find someone that fits your worldview.
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>>17698290
She knows it was a fuck up though, she regrets not being my first.
If I end it, I might find a virigin but then I'll be a hypocrite in that scenario. Or I'll find a girl and be okay with her past because I've got one too. But man, I don't want other girls, I want her...I just wish she never told me this shit or even lied to me. Ignorance would have been fucking bliss
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>>17698317
So you see the hypocrisy of your situation. Good.
Remember that she is with you NOW. If you wanna make this work, you have to come to terms with it. Don't let the past affect your relationship together. You both have remained loyal since the start of the relationship; that's all that matters.
You are honestly more lenient than me OP. If she had disregarded me for another guy, I would have rejected her if she returned. I just value myself that way.
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