Not ugly, take care of myself, fit, work out.
facial hair, long hair to below shoulders.
Social, not shy. got dreams and all that.
Should i lower my dignity to fuck some slut to get it over with or should i look for something better?
>>17696240
Slut or prostitute. Prostitute is better since you pay them to go away after. You fuck a slut you might begin to think you like them and you should hold out for much better. So not worth that.
>>17696240
>long hair below the shoulders + facial hair
Found your problem bud
>>17696247
I didn't grow it to attract women.
I grew it because i look good with it. (I think)
But i have heard of women who like the long hair on a guy. I think my problem is that i don't wear it down a lot so i look like some punk.
The facial hair might make me look angry or something. (When i'm not). I dunno.
>>17696262
I mean, I'm not saying guys can't have long hair. But I think, generally, it deters girls. Especially if your hair falls below your shoulders. Unless you have some god-tier facial aesthetics, it won't improve your look.
>>17696262
Ignore him. Some women are into it, some aren't. It won't make any difference in the grand scheme of things.
The single most important thing you need in order to have success with girls is confidence. The way to build that confidence is by throwing yourself out there, constantly pushing yourself out of your comfort zone and gaining experience. Don't make excuses to prevent yourself or create restrictions in your head. You can approach a girl in almost any place/situation within reason, like at a shop, bar, mall, on the street etc. All you need to do is be confident and honest.
Read Models by Mark Manson. Legit book on how attraction works for women and what you can do to be successful. No PUA bullshit.