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How do I explain my lack of experience to girls? 2016-10-23 02:51:55 Post No. 17695179
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How do I explain my lack of experience to girls?
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2016-10-23 02:51:55
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/adv/, how do I explain my lack of relationship and sexual experience to any women I meet in the future without coming across as pathetic?
I'm 24, and the two "relationships" I've had only lasted a few months. I've only had vaginal sex once, both of which were one-night stands. I've hooked up a few times besides that, but it never got past third base. I've also been on a number of dates that never went anywhere.
And on a related note, how the fuck do I stay motivated by this point? I feel like I'm already past the point where I can just fuck around. I'm now losing what little optimism I had and more and more feel like I'm going to die alone.
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>>17695179
Honestly, you have more experience than a lot of 24 year olds. If she's a cool chick it won't be a big deal, and I doubt you'll be getting deep into specifics early on.
I know it's easier said than done, but stop worrying about it so much. Don't bring it up, and if it comes up, be honest but DONT OVERSHARE. It's less of a big deal than you think.
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>>17695179
You don't need to explain shit. I'm not "unexperienced" but no woman has ever asked me about my past like that.
Just work on yourself. It's cliche but women will flock to success and confidence like vultures to a recently deceased human. Just put yourself out there.
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>>17695201
Don't at some point in a relationship you talk about your exes though?
At one point I was texting a women and she asked me about my relationships and it was awkward after she remarked that it's surprising I had only dated 2 women each for a span of a few months. I wasn't too broken up about it cause I later realized she was crazy anyway, but I still worry about it happening again.
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>>17695179
the fuck am I reading I am the same age and I don't even know the warmth of a woman.
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>>17695329
The loneliness still remains anon
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>>17695337
fuck this thread you have no idea what real loneliness feels like.
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>>17695238
>but I still worry about it happening again.
Man, if a girl gives a fuck about your 'experience' then fuck her. Really, you have to put yourself in the driving seat.
I'd like you to think of the exact moment when being inexperienced moves to experienced. Now, the chances are there's no key point, we get into that grain of sad problem. MY point here is really that your inexperience is in your head.
Fucking, at least you're tight enough to put yourself first and not waste years in boring sexless relationships.
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>>17695346
Stop dwelling on it and fucking do something. If you sit around and think about how lonely and inexperienced you are, then congratulations, you're shooting yourself in the foot.
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