So I started talking to this guy about a week or two ago and we hit it off. It's just come to my attention that he has this thing (also friends with benefits) with another chick but they aren't dating.
On the other hand, there's a guy who I live near who I don't usually talk to but when I do the conversation seems to last ages and we have heaps of things in common. BUT he wants to drop out of school and join the army (in less than a year).
Tl;dr Do I pursue the guy who has a thing with someone else but is hitting on me or the guy that is perfect for me, wants to join the army and doesn't show any feelings towards me.
>>17693491
the latter
someone else entirely both those people you describe are terrible
>>17693491
You don't want to do a LDR with a army guy.
>>17693507
This.
>>17693491
Well you want the guy to like you so the army guy doesn't sound that appealing, plus theres the long distance aspect. The other guy sounds okay but how did you find out about his friend with benefits? If he outright told you then thats fine because if you continue talking and things escalate he should cut off contact with that person.