i don't feel passion for my gf
we've been together for two years. she's gained a lot of weight and has became obese and I have to fight my urge not to feel grossed out. im not excited about the sex anymore much but still get hard and turned on normally in the moment. for the record we already do kinky stuff so I'm not looking for BDSM advice.
but when I really think about it I don't feel this burning passion for my gf anymore. I'm supposed to see her tomorrow and she's very excited to see me but I can't say the same. She wants to try out all these new sex ideas and I don't care much for them.
I don't know what to do
Train her,if you guts do the kinky stuff already,be her dom in all aspects of her life,set rules for meals and eating habits, dress her and make her exercise,buy a dog handling book and use that for reference and tweak it to suit your needs for a female human
>>17692603
Have you mentioned any of this to her?
>>17693273
This, man. Get communicating. People in relationships let their feelings and problems bottle up and then end up leaving their partner for a lot of legitimate reasons, but because they didn't communicate, the other partner will think it came totally out of the blue, and will be really really hurt.
Talk to her but be careful. I once tried to tell my girlfriend that I'm afraid of losing sexual attraction for her if she keeps gaining weight and she blew up in my face how I dont respect her.
>>17693273
>>17693282
there's not really a tactful way of calling your gf fat and unappealing sexually
>>17693373
Kek
What about us non fat who have bfs w fat fetishes?
>>17693373
It has to be done though. I see it as not valuing the relationship if one partner let's them self go like that.
>>17693395
This. Communication....godamn you retards.
Man why can't women just watch how much they eat. Why is the majority of men still average weight after years of marriage while the women bloat up like some rotting corpse.