Hi /adv/
I really need some advice right now, Im 19 yo guy who lives with his parents because of school
Recently I got into a huge fight with my parents, from which my family left truly miserable
>got in the quarrel with my parents
>my father beat me up badly
>looks like im the worst living creature in my family
>everyone could see the bruises on my face but nobody actually cared (although some were curious what happened)
>my whole family says that what my father did is fully justified
Everything happened because I told my parents that I cant trust them and what they are doing (being aggressive and impulsive) is the easiest thing
Now what the fuck do I actually do? My mental health is in ruins, and my father won't talk to me unless I apologize but I dont even know if I still want to live with him like the son lives with his father. Im sorry for writing this shit right here and I know that I suck and everything but really what the fuck do I do right now
>Everything happened because I told my parents that I cant trust them and what they are doing (being aggressive and impulsive) is the easiest thing
Be more specific. What EXACTLY was the argument about?
>>17690666
>parents back from work
>preety angry
>they start talking about me being huge fuck who doesnt talk about himself and they dont know anything about
>my father is neurotic starts threatening me
>pushes me down the stairs
>after i get up i tell him that i cant trust him and being aggressive and impulsive is primitive and it's the easiest way of living
>they start arguing with me about it and about me not giving a fuck about everything
>after everything ends i go back to my room trying to get my shit together
0.5h
>my father walks into the room
>"You wouldn't even understand how much I hate you"
>beats me up
Jeez, your relatives are huge fucks. Specially your dad.
Ask to a good friend if you can live with him/her. Explain the problem so they can understand, and offer to clean the house and get a job so you can buy your own food.
You have to do whatever it takes to move out ASAP.
You also have to get a job so you can gain financial independence and cut ALL contact with them.
Basically distance yourself from those people as much as possible. Cut them completely out of your life and never look back.
I know, easier said than done, but you will be doing yourself a massive favor.
beat the shit out of that motherfucker of your dad
>>17690662
First, fighting with parents is part of the job description of being a teenager, so don't feel that you are uniquely terrible.
Second, no - repeat, NO - quarrel justifies your father beating you up. He is 100% in the wrong, no matter what you said/did.
Try to find a level of peaceful coexistence or wary truce, and get out of there as soon as you can.
>>17690928
I understand and I totally agree with you, the problem
is that it's really hard to find a peacefull way to solve those problems